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i was at my freinds house at a sleepover, and my freind confessed that she prefers girls body's to boys. i started remembering the many times i changed in the same room with her ect. i completely blanked out and was speechless. she reasured the 5 of us that she would never hit on us. i have to see her in school tommorow. what should i do/say? i am 13 f
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Just act like it never happened
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Continue being her friend. I know you feel awkward because i sure would! But if she's your friend don't just leave her. Lesbian or not, she's your friend. How woulf you feel if you were her? I doubt you'd want to be left behind.
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You don`t have to say anything.. I`d continue to be her friend.. If she isn`t going to make you uncomfortable then i`d just act no different around her.. Think about the good things she isn`t ever goin to want your boyfriend.. And i mean you can`t really change her decision.. I hope you won`t be shallow and stop being her friend because she is a lesbian.. ♥ Dez
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act the same. if she's your friend, then this really shouldn't matter to you!
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dude chill. she told you because she trusts you babe. and if she trusts you that should mean something to you and you shouldn`t overreact.
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After finding out something like that, I understand that you feel okward. I know I would! However, she is still your friend. Don't just blow her off. She won't just hit on you guys. You are her friends, so be there for her and respect her for who she is. Don't act like it's a big deal. Put yourself in her position. How would you feel if your friends were all weird around you & such?
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Your friend isn't going to come up to you and just start hitting on you, just like that. People aren't like that, especially if they know you're not gay.
Don't act any differently around her then you usually do. You're still her friend and just because she's a lesbain, doesn't mean you have to be scared around her. Just stick to being normal. I'm sure she needs some support with all this. It's hard to actually tell someone you're gay. So just be her friend and be there for her. ♥
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have you ever know a guy that doesnt like you? my hunch is yes. and its just as possible for a lesbian not to like you. id recommend just not acting any differently at all.
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