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I know this is going to sound like a very strange question, but I need to know if this is normal and if there is anything I can do. I have trouble reaching orgasm; I always seem to have to "stop" before, as if my body can't handle it. It's the same if I'm alone or with my boyfriend. I know I CAN, it just takes a really long time. Is this typical, and what can I do? Thanks in advance.

20/f (link)
Will i cant say i've had that problem beacause im 13, and have no problem at all...
But, I think it could be typical..
some times that happends to me, and then i like re try for an other orgasm and i reach it.


heyy i'm 15 and i have brown eyes and a light skin complexion and i was just wondering ..how should i do my make-up and what make-up should use ? i'd REALLY appreciate the help. i rate 5's for good advice! thanks (link)
Natural colors.
I use bare minerals, and then a little mascara and lip gloss.
And i have brown eyes, and a light skin complexion.


I'm 14 and i have never had a boyfriend. Is that sad? Like so many people have bit i have never and i makes me feel sorta bad. Is that like really sad to have never had a boyfriend when you are 14? (link)
Nope. Your normal, dont feel sad/or bad about it.


I'm really bad at science and have a huge test! Last test I got a 41% which hurt my grade alot! I really need to do good, and I'm also on the basketball team so I need to keep my grades up. I have the notes I just can't rember and make sense of them. Any study tips anything please help. Thanks. (link)
http://www.myjellybean.com/study/study.html


Hey guys,
I want guys to answer this one k? or grls but i think guys would make the most sence lol. Any way I was wondering what makes a girl likable or attractive? (and i dont mean shallow stuff like giant boobs!!! or anything, even though....we all know that doesn't hurt tehe) Like what kind of clothes? Hair up or down? Like....idk just what pysical and little quirks (cute little things she does) makes a girl attractive?
ok much love guys...and girls ;)
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Im a girl, who's going to a take a shot, at answering.
I think most guys dont care, as long as she as a fairly cute face (or you can get the stuck up guys who want girls with so called hot faces.. or stunning faces)And a good personality.
And I'd think hair up or down wouldnt matter, besides a girl wouldnt were her hair down ALL THE TIME for a guy right?.
And personally each guy probably has they own favorite things about a certian girl, not in general.
I hope a helped a little


so im a freshman in high school.
ive never been kissed before.
i really dont have any guys friends.
ive had a bf before but that was back in middle school.
i wanna know, are there any REALISTIC ways to get involved with more guys and friendships.
please dont say; just talk to them
becuase im not like that exactly.
i like this kid, sorta, and we talk sometimes
are there any signs i can look for to see if hes into me or anything.
i'll rate
(link)
http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/flirt.html


i was just wondering, how can you improve your singing voice. i know you dont have to be born with it and i know you dont like drink milk and drink waater but like idk i want to be a good singer but idk what to do? (link)
lessons-> teachers will give you feedback on your voice, which is pretty good. you could also join the school chorus, church choir, but singing lessons are the best way


I read that if you eat breakfast everyday you will lose weight, is this true? If so, then how can I start eating breakfast without gaining weight because I have not been eating breakfast for a few years? This is so confusing! Please explain and help. Thank you so much. (link)
you wont lose wieght by eating. but breakfast is said to be the most important meal of the day, so you should always eat it. you can eat something thats like low in cholestrol/fat, such as cheerios or total


i have a great friend...(but i know never to start to like a freind)but its hard not too.I love him(not like that) .HE so nice and sweet and things have happened.....were not like friends that do things after school we do little things in school .i know i like him not that i know he likes me but im hapy around him and just today he asked me to sit with him and theres a lot of spaces on the bus i was really happy about it and he acted shy..?i dont know why i acted shy too and i knew i was. do i like him ????????????????i think i do (link)
girl... i think you do. awwww... it sounds so cute.for right now, don't read to far into it, wait a bit, see if he'll ask you out, or if there are any more reasons you think he may like you, but i think you guys both have a little crush on each other!

hope everything works out!

-------->Maureen


i want the donnas "take it off" for a song on my myspace. where can i get it so its not a big box but the little music player thing? (link)
first you can go to the donnas' myspace.
but if you don't know how to add songs:
1) go to the top of the page annd click 'music'
2) click 'band name' onthe drop down
3) type in "the donnas" on the bar.
4) click the myspace that looks like theres.
5) click add on 'take it off'
6) say yes when they ask are you sure?
& therrrre you go!


I have a coupon to Baker's shoe store for $20 off a purchase of $50 or more. If i buy $55 worth of stuff from that store .. do I get the $20 right then? Making the bill $35? (link)
yessirrr! you would. =]


hey i wanna lose 20 lbs by summer (about 4 lbs a month.) So what should i do to lose 4 lbs. by the end of feburary.
*ThX a BuNcH (link)
welll.. so yeah, basically, you should eat smaller portions and eat healthy foods.
for example: eat more fruits and salads, but do eat meat too.
eat alot less of everything
& excersize. run alot and do sit ups and crunches =]


ok i am not one of those girls who cares about there wieght but i was just wondering is 127 over wieght even if i am really really muscular and i am 5ft and 8in o and i am 13/f
i rate really high (link)
www.am-i-fat.com
=D


is it bad to charge your battery every day??

thanks (link)
i charge my phone everyyydayyy.
so i would say its okay! =D


Well there's this guy who's totally in love with me. Seriously. At a dance, he asked my friend if he should as me to dance, and she said sure but what if she says no and he repleid, "It would be worse than if hurricane katrina hit me" or something cheesy like that. So i danced with him once but then sed no the 2nd time. That was a few months ago. Decmeber maybe. BUT NOW he still loves me a lot and might ask me out. I'm not supposed to know because his friend told me and now I'm stuck.

I'm also totally like in love with a 6thg rader to amek things worse!
I'm in 8th grade by the way.
Please help me to say no to this guy without being a heart brekaer and what to doa bout this 6th grade hottie who's also my best friend's cousin. She dosen't mind, but what do i do!
I'll rate if your helpful.
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My advice to you is to let the guy down gently when the problem arises... until then act like you don't know and start hanging with the 6th grader. If you're lucky you can avoid both problems cuz the 6th grader might ask you out, then you won't have to break the other guy's heart. You can tell him you didn't know he would ask you out.. and that you just want to be friends.

Hope it works out

=======>Maureen


hmm well i need some advice haha.
ok well i like this guy and we have gone out 11 times... and like we talk on the fone alot and it seems like he likes me too but idk becuase wen hes with ppl he makes fun of me and stupid stuff, and wen we make plans he ditches me i dont know what to do :[ (link)
You DON'T need him. Find someone better for you. If he acts like a jerk when he's around his friends, then he doesn't deserve you.

Don't take it... good luck...

----->Maureen


When a guy tells you "I just don't want to rush into things" does this mean he is no longer interested in you?

You see there is this guy I met at my friend Rachel's birthday party. He then asked my friend who I was and found me on myspace and instant messaged me. Last week he wanted to meet me in the hallway before and after class. Rachel keep telling me how much he really liked me.... yesterday when we went out to the buses he gave me a kiss on the cheek. Then I went over to his house later and we just sat together on the couch and hung out...well today at the end of the day I barely even got a hug from him...when I asked him what was up he said that he didnt want to rush into things becuase he didnt want to get hurt like he did last time with his ex girlfriend...

Was that just a nice way of saying "I'm not into you anymore"

If it helps I'm 15 and he is 17

Thanks
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for the time being i'd say that you should take him at his word. It seems like you have a good thing... and you don't want to jump to conclusions. Just give it more time... he might just still be trying to get over his last girlfriend.

Good Luck!

----->Maureen


ok my friend, riley, is really in like with this guy marion. she doesnt really no him very well, and she doesnt evn no if he nos her name, but anyways, she just found out today that he is being moved to third session [our school has a wierd system, but we both have 1st session, basicly this means she would nevr see him]. shes really depressed, and i dont no wat i should tell her 2 do. she really needs advice, plz help, will rate high. (link)
i agree with you... she needs to be more straight forward. My advice to your friend is try to get some friends that she and marion both share to invite him somewhere so everyone can meet up. That way she can talk to him and maybe even ask him out, or say how she feels. If there are no mutual friends, maybe she can talk to him before he gets on a bus or something... that's really tough.

Hope your friend finds her love again....

Maureen


What specifically is yoga? What are a few of the positions? Also, how often should i do these 5 or 6 (even more than that would be great) positions? Any weight loss in these exercises? (link)
Yoga is a Hindu discipline aimed at training the consciousness for a state of perfect spiritual insight and tranquillity. http://www.yogajournal.com/poses/index.cfm click there its good: shows you many types of poses, and searches to see which one is right for you.
you can lose weight. you should do them as often as you can, but at least half an hour-an hour a day??


i have a girl, even though we dont sleep with each other yet. she doesnt call me. i do all the calling, all the time. when i told her am not comfortable about her not calling, she yet odesnt call. shoudl i keep taking her seriously? (link)
some people just dont like talking on the phone. they feel its not personal because you cant see their faces. you should sit down with her and ask her why not. while you may enjoy talking on the phone, she may not.




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