Is using a condom totally necessary if you are giving a guy head? If you don't swallow the semen and rinse out your mouth afterward what are the risks?
If you don't completely trust the guy, and aren't absolutely completely sure if he has any disease, then use a condom. People don't realize how many disease there are out there, and how often you can have one and not even know it. A lot of guys don't see any symptoms from a lot of diseases, and if a girl catches it, not only can she have some very uncomfortable symptoms, but there are a lot of different side effects to certain stds, incuding infertilaty.
Rinsing out your mouth does not matter. Bacteria or whatever can move down your body. A lot of different diseases can be spread through oral sex.
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OKay. I'll try to keep this short. Can I getpregnant from not having sex or giving a guy a head? Like I have not done ANYTHING sexual and I for some reason feel like I'm pregnant. Like maybe this guy just touched his penis then he ate chips then he gave the rest of the chips to me. Could I get pregnant from that??? pLEASE tell me cause i'm 10 and I DO NOT want to be pregnant!!!!!!!
No, you get pregnant from seman, not just touching the penis. If you haven't done anything sexual, then don't worry. Your only ten, if your this paranoid now, I think you have a hard life coming up for you.
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please some one tell me how to give a jickie my girl wants one but i dont no how
Just suck her skin. Ever stuck a vacuum on your skin when you were younger and gotten a bruise? Kinda like that. But be careful, they can be painful if you do it too much, they don't look good, and I've heard that any bruise can become cancerous. (not sure how true that last part is though...it could have just been an older sister trying to get me to stop letting my boyfriend give me hickies)
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me and *sally* are reall y great friends. she might annoy me at some times. but we have started talking again.. and shes had a boyfriend for the past 7 months which i've known him since he was in 4th grade. theyre both really nice. well. she now is wanting to have sex with him. and he said no b.c he knows shes not ready . but other than that i've found out that he wants to break up with her. or proably has bene thinking about it. she tells him that she loves him and he says it back. but i know it's not true. and he has said that he doesn't hich is totally understandable. since we're in high school. wel she hasn't tld her parents. since whe they met him it was a bad impression. and they know that he's a pothead. she likes him alot.. but now i dont know what to tell her... he wants her parents to know!
I really think you should tell him to talk to her. First, she might get mad at you and think your just jealous and lieing to her, and your friend that you've known since 4th grade would get mad because you broke his trust.
Try telling him that he's hurting her by lieing about loving her and that he needs to talk to her about it. then, if he doesn't talk to her, then you should tell "sally" and hope she sees him for what he really is.
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everytime i have an orgasm i dont cum... am i quitting too soon or doin something wrong?? all my friends say they cum...o ya... i AM A GIRL!
Not every girl can cum. I've heard it's the best feeling in the world, and makes for one of the best orgasms ever, but I've never found a guy that could make me do it.
Just don't worry and don't think sometihng is wrong with you. Just remember, that when you orgasm, it doesn't mean you need to stop. most often, with most girls, one orgasm just makes it easier to have another one, and another one, and so on. Maybe after a few more orgasms in a row then you'll be able to cum.
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HOW DO YOU GIVE AHAND JOB? I KNOW U USE R HANDS BUT WUT ELSE? WUT ARE SOME GOOD IDEAS??
There are techniques to good hand jobs. So me might not work on every single guy, but you'll figure it out by what the expression of the guy is. If you have access to a computer that you can search online about handjobs and stuff, then do that. I don't feel like typing out a bunch of techniques right now. I don't remember any of the sites I used to look at, but my boyfriend at the time really liked the results
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Alright ive mastered or at least pleasusered alot of guys with "The Hand Job" But i dont kno how to Jack a guy off i kno you like grip the dick and then shake ? up and down? please help cuz i dont wana hurt them i jus want it to feel good like when guys do it to them selves.. but with a 17 yr old female touch please help!
Heres a few trick...
If your not gonna use your tongue at all, then use lube.
try taking one hand and grabbing the penis at the bottom of the shaft and slowly pull up, when that hand reaches the top, take your other hand and start at the bottom and do the same. This can be a really weird sensation for guys, I've gotten good results.
Try running a lubed finger (tongue works better) up and down his shaft, up and down the big vein, all over except his head. This will tease him soo much and make him wanting more.
Don't forget to massage his balls while doing it.
You'll learn what works better by his reaction.
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i want to rock my girlfriend's world...i'm talking something she'll never forget. i know all about how most guys know nothing about what to do, blah blah, but i'd like to be the exception. i'd like to know the best way to finger, eat out, and i guess have sex.
Search online for sex positions and stuff. Try to get her to search with you, you guys can pick out what you think would feel the best, then try it out.
Try searching about good tricks for oral sex, you might want to read all about those on your own. Depending on how sensative she is, you might want to veer her towards a good site about blow jobs and hand jobs. As long as your rocking her world, she mine as well take the time to really learn how to rock yours.
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can u get birth control without ur parents knowing?
In my state, no.
Talk to your doctor, ask if he/she can tell your parents what you talk to him/her about.
If you don't have a doctor, try to find a family planning type place around where you live. Around here family planning is a place where teens and all women can go for birth control and sexual safety advice. Hopefully there's a place like that everywhere. Try searching online for birth control clinics or something.
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what is douching???? and why do women do it???? what is its purpose??? is it healthy???? should i be douching???
Don't listen to anyone who tells you to douch after your period. It's a very unhealthy thing to do all the time. There's a lot of healthy bacteria that live inside you that douching will also kill. If you have a reason to douch, such as a lot of discharge or something, then see your doctor before you even think about it.
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I'm a female, sexually active in about 2 days.
Ok, are you like supposed to shave it ALL off down there? Or leave a tiny bit?
I'm a bit too squeamish for a brazilian wax, so any help?
Here's some tips...
First, soften the hair with conditioner or something every day, trust me this helps a lot.
Second, shave against the grain so you don't get any ingrown hairs.
Third... if your not used to it, it will itch really bad and usually hurt when the hair is growing back, sex can make it worse because of the area being rubbed so much.
Trust me with the conditioner, softening your hair will make you much less likely to get razor burn. Use conditioner even when there's only a tiny bit of stubble.
As for myself, I don't shave everything, it hurts to much to shave most of the top. But everything around the lips is easy to do, because it doesn't result in any razor burn for me ever.
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This is going to sound pretty freakin' stupid but last night I watched two of the Texas Chainsaw Massacres and I realized how much I want a boyfriend. Just someone to hold me while we watch horror movies and just someone I could share the warmth of being in a relationship with. I'm still young. I'm 14...but still...I can't help it. I know a lot of times being in a relationship at this age equals a lot of pain in sorrow in the end (most of the time). But at night I cry because I feel so alone and I get this feeling in the pit of my stomach and it really hurts...and my heart feels shaky and I think a boyfriend could heal that. I guess what I'm trying to say is I'm "depressed" a lot but I don't know...I have this boy in mind and he's just perfect in everyway. He's sweet and we only talk online because we go to different schools. (but we live in the same town) and wow...I just really like him and I just wish that he knew. I plan on telling him but I guess it would make everything weird and I just want to cry. I feel like such a fucking sap but I can't help it. I just want to scream out I like him but I have social anxiety disorder and I've asked some more questions before about this subject but it's just hard.
AND NO I CAN'T FREAKING CALL HIM ON THE PHONE...if anything I'm telling him online and even if I met up with him at the movies in person or something then I probably wouldn't even freaking talk to him because I'm so stupid and once again I let my social anxiety disorder conquer me...
Please help me...
This isn't some sappy kid love story...I just want him to know how I feel and I have NO CLUE how he will act and I'm scared of him rejecting me...
And I guess we tell each other a lot of things online...but I don't know...in my old school people made fun of me because of my S.A.D. which is why I tranferred. He understands me because I explained it to him and he was so sweet to me and it felt like he totally understood everything I had to say. I don't know what to do...he means a lot to me and he doesn't know it...
I told him so many things about my life and he told me quite a few things about his and if I tell him I like him and he doesn't feel the same way back to me I'm afraid everything will be gone between us. The nice talks online...and just...everything.
He is such a sweet boy like I said before and he just doesn't realize how much girls like him. I'm one of those girls...but it's different. I don't like him because of his cute face... (I havent even seen the "new" him) I haven't seen him in a year and people say he "got cute" and that kind of intimidates me...looks DO NOT matter to me but I just really fell in love with this boy's personality and he is so sweet and I know he would never do anythign mean to me I'm just afraid I'll embarrass him in front of his friends if I tell him I really like him. Of course if I ask him out he's going to tell them (because that's what friends do) and I'm afraid for some reason his friends (who are realloy nice...but) I'm just afraid that they will kind of try to persuade him out of ever talking to me again (and I know that sounds weird) but...I don't know... I just have a problem with always feeling like I'm holding peopkle back. I can't help that...I feel like I'm always putting people on the spot and that I should come second rather than first in anything in their life. I hate feeling liek I hold people back which is another reason why I don;t want to tell him.
But...I just don't know what to do...
I'm SO SORRY for this long question I'm just desperate and I really like him. I think about him all the time and I just want a chance with him...I'm really sorry if I took up any of your time...just please help me...
Thanks.
I'm thinking that he wouldn't go to his friends right away. You two seem to have a really tight relationship, even though you never actually see each other. I think if you asked him out, that it would be between the two of you, not him and his friends. So, that much you shouldn't worry about.
Are your worried that your friendship will be ruined if he doesn't return your feelings? I would probably say that wont happen either. From what you say, I would think, if by chance, he doesn't return your feelings, then he'll still be your friend, and still be there when you need someone to listen to you. But you might be able to stop thinking about the "what if he likes me" and that would help you to think of him as only a friend, not a potential boyfriend, and might help you get over him.
On the other hand, he might feel the same way about you, but is also too scared to say anything, either way, I think it's better than your situation you are in now. If you never talk to him about this, then you'll always have the thought in the back of your mind.
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What is the average penis size my penis is not real big around 4.5 inches im 15 will it matter
when having sex and does it matter to girls?
Is that 4.5 inches hard or soft?
Penis size is definately not the most important thing. And length is least important, it's all about width. I would much rather have short and thick as opposed to long and skinny. But if you don't know how to use it right then it wont matter how large your penis is. I don't think I can really tell you how to use it right, experience will tell you that I guess, but a really important thing is to be able to last long enough... it's the worst thing in the world for a girl to be just starting to get into sex and then have the guy come after a minute or so.
also, I'd say you still have some growing to go.
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Does a guys height affect their penis size ? If so , what do you think a 175+ cm tall guys penis size is ? Btw , i'm just curious , and i'm a girl .
No. One of the biggest guys I've been with has small hands and feet and wasn't extremely tall. He was just very, very large. *sigh, I miss fucking him. Anyway, Don't judge a guy by his height or hand size.
Oh, and also, another person, had a very nice sized penis, but he had no idea how to use it. He very likely lasted less than a minute, so you also can't always judge by the penis size.
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ok, im gay and i love my best friend, i wanna do things with her...what should i do? i think she's the love of my life! i wanna have sex with her cause shes so hott and OMG i gotta tell her!
DIKEY
Dude, some of these answers are rediculous. Have her over for a sleep over and start eating her out when she falls asleep??? How would you like it if one of your best guy friends did that to you? Don't try to force yourself on her, tell her how you feel. If she's into it, then good for you, if not, then don't push the matter. If you keep pushing her about it then she wont want to be around you anymore. I've had this happen to me, and it's not a turn on. Maybe she'll be uncomfortable at first and will eventually come aroudn to the idea, but just don't push her at it, and definately don't try to eat her out when she's sleeping. Thats one of the creepiest things I've ever heard.
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i am going out with this lad, but i am in love with his best mate. what shalli do?
Break up with him. Don't listen to these people who say it's wrong to go for your bf's best friend. If you really like this guy, then go for it, don't worry about what's wrong or whats right. The right thing to do is to go for what you really want. If it doesn't work out, then thats that, but just don't keep going out with this lad if your not truly in love with him.
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This guy he likes me.. but hes 18 and im 14. And i dont want to be mean to him hes really nice and all. but I mean.. yea.. lOl... and your R E A L L Y pretty! lol.. well please help!
People try to say that age doesn't matter, but it really does. Four years difference is a lot when your only 14. I have a friend that went out with an older guy at your age, and now thats she's 17 she talks about how much she missed out on because of her boyfriend. She spent all of her time with this guy, who ended up wanting to marry her, only she was soo young that she knew she wanted more experiences.
I wouldn't suggest going out with this guy, your too young and need to have many more experiences in life before you make a commitment with someone his age.
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for like almost 2 years and we want to have sex but i am a Virgin and i dont know how it would fell can i get some advice explain how it fells and what i should do
I have never liked these kind of questions. There really is no way to explain how sex feels. First of all, it's increduble, but it's not like there is one feeling that everyone feels. It's different for everyone, and really depends on who it is your having sex with. If he's just in it to make himself feel good, or is also really interested in making you feel good. Tell him to be gentle at first, in case it hurts, then I'm sure you'll want to go crazy with it when you get used to the feeling. Don't worry about what you should do, just go with it, and you'll figure it out.
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So I know this sounds alot like my first question but I still need more advice. The guy that I am kinda going out with (lets call him blurb) was a senior in my high school when I was freshman. Now I am going into 10th grade and Blurb is going to college. He will be leaving in August and although he is only going 2-3 hours away I know that we won't get a chance to see eachother a lot. Although we have discussed this he maintains that when I am a senior in high school (the age that my mom said we could offically date) he will come back for me. He says he's going to come and visit me and that we're going to keep in touch but I know it's going to be hard. My biggest issue is not what I am going to do, but what he is going to do. I want him to be able to experience college fully and I think if he still thinks about me and worries about coming back to me, he won't have as much fun as he would otherwise. Because I want him to have the best experience possible, should i let him go entirely even though I love him?
I would say that no one else but you two can make this decision. You shouldn't break it off completely at first, you seem to want it to work, but you need to sit down and have this long conversation with him. I was almost in the same situation a few years back, I was friends with this guy for three years, we always flirted, but didn't get the nerve to actually ask each other out until I was a junior, he was a senior. We were completely in love and everyone around us could see it, when it came it him going away, it was sad, but we decided to try to stay together. After two weeks of him not calling or even emailing, he cheated on me. You never know what is going to happen once he goes to college. Maybe it will be good if you both experience other people, that way, in the future, you will already know that theres no one else as good as what you have now.
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