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Let go of the man I love?
So I know this sounds alot like my first question but I still need more advice. The guy that I am kinda going out with (lets call him blurb) was a senior in my high school when I was freshman. Now I am going into 10th grade and Blurb is going to college. He will be leaving in August and although he is only going 2-3 hours away I know that we won't get a chance to see eachother a lot. Although we have discussed this he maintains that when I am a senior in high school (the age that my mom said we could offically date) he will come back for me. He says he's going to come and visit me and that we're going to keep in touch but I know it's going to be hard. My biggest issue is not what I am going to do, but what he is going to do. I want him to be able to experience college fully and I think if he still thinks about me and worries about coming back to me, he won't have as much fun as he would otherwise. Because I want him to have the best experience possible, should i let him go entirely even though I love him?
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look that is a real tough ?....U need 2 do what ur heart tells u 2 do.if u think he'll be faithfull then dont let him go..
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I would say that no one else but you two can make this decision. You shouldn't break it off completely at first, you seem to want it to work, but you need to sit down and have this long conversation with him. I was almost in the same situation a few years back, I was friends with this guy for three years, we always flirted, but didn't get the nerve to actually ask each other out until I was a junior, he was a senior. We were completely in love and everyone around us could see it, when it came it him going away, it was sad, but we decided to try to stay together. After two weeks of him not calling or even emailing, he cheated on me. You never know what is going to happen once he goes to college. Maybe it will be good if you both experience other people, that way, in the future, you will already know that theres no one else as good as what you have now.
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WoW. Your a defintly NOT selfish at all. Well its his choice let him see how it is the 1st month at college without you 2 going out. See what happans. Unless you know what you have is something that is so strong that can last even 5-6 hours away. 2-3 isnt real bad compared to some places away. But maybe give it a shot at the single life for a bit. Maybe you will relize that you shouldnt have let him go and from the sounds of it he will take you back no matter what. So i say do what your heart chooses but let him know whats going on that way it doesnt just fly at him without him knowing whats coming at him. Give him the heads up! Good luck! inform me on whats going on! *trixie*
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