k so there is this guy that i work with, he is the cutest nicest most funniest guy ever! the thing is im starting to have feelings for him, we flirt all the time like i always tell him that we're going to get married and everytime hes talking about another girl hes like i cant go out with them cause im saving myself for you. i think hes just being funny, but im really starting to like this guy. Ive been thinking about him all the time ive even started dreaming about him, when we're at work together i alwasy get this urge to just jump him and start kissing him, but the thing is i dont know if he would ever go for it cause there are other girls at work that are soo much prettier then me, and all of is friends that are girls are soo pretty i dont know if i have a chance but im really starting to like him.....PLEASE HELP!!!
cr8zymonkeyluv07 answered Saturday June 5 2004, 8:08 pm: Normally when guys act like this, it's usually a good sign that he is comfortable with you, he may even have the same feelings for you. If your ready, try telling him how you feel. As far as all the "other" girls are concerned, not every one sees beauty in the same way. Sometimes, personality is the best beauty anyone can have. [ cr8zymonkeyluv07's advice column | Ask cr8zymonkeyluv07 A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Saturday June 5 2004, 3:40 pm: Talk to him and when flirting make it seem more serious flirting.. try and get a point to him .. or write him a email while at work with eachother.. and see what happans from there! *trix* [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
Ben_There_Done_That answered Saturday June 5 2004, 2:16 pm: Alright this is tough but u need to hear this... DATEING A CO WORKER IS NEVER A GOOD IDEA people at work flirt with other people all the time 1 beacuse your with these people every day and u can be yourself an 2 beacuse work is boring and flirting adds excitement.. Not saying he might not have feelings for you but if he really did he would make his move and if u really cant take the waiting u need to tell him OUT SIDE of work beacuse a heart break (if it happens) could jus make things aquard so mabey on the fone or something say look (his name) im realy beginign to like you but if u dont like me the same way i need to kno becuase i dont wana cause any aquard feelings at work .. and see what he says.. i cant promise anything but good luck! hope i could help
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