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me and *sally* are reall y great friends. she might annoy me at some times. but we have started talking again.. and shes had a boyfriend for the past 7 months which i've known him since he was in 4th grade. theyre both really nice. well. she now is wanting to have sex with him. and he said no b.c he knows shes not ready . but other than that i've found out that he wants to break up with her. or proably has bene thinking about it. she tells him that she loves him and he says it back. but i know it's not true. and he has said that he doesn't hich is totally understandable. since we're in high school. wel she hasn't tld her parents. since whe they met him it was a bad impression. and they know that he's a pothead. she likes him alot.. but now i dont know what to tell her... he wants her parents to know!
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I really think you should tell him to talk to her. First, she might get mad at you and think your just jealous and lieing to her, and your friend that you've known since 4th grade would get mad because you broke his trust.
Try telling him that he's hurting her by lieing about loving her and that he needs to talk to her about it. then, if he doesn't talk to her, then you should tell "sally" and hope she sees him for what he really is.
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I think u should tell her u don't want her gettin hurt if he don't wanna be wit her. i mean itz kewl that he don't wanna use her but his goin on livin a lie and she can find somone else. i mean i may not have 2 come to them meetin eachotherz parentz but u make that call.. how u make tha rite one
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You should definatly tell her to let her parent's know. If I were him i'd be sick of having to go behiend the parent's back for 7 months too! They've had a bad first impression, it happens, she shouldn't continue to make him wait. If they're planning on being together then her parent's need to know. But also as a friend, you should kinda let her in on what's up with the whole situation... like about how he want's to possibly break up with her and stuff like that. It's something that would be hard to tell a friend, but it would help her out alot. She needs to know that in order to keep this relationship she's going to have to make some sacrifices and suck it upa nd tell her parent's. I hope things work out for her!
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