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Q: i was wondering when a baby's unblilical cord is supose to heal and what age i should start bathing them at..thanks
weeks old. and you bathe them everyday!

Q: ok well im 15/f anyways i had my freshman meeting a couple of weeks ago and i have been thinking since then, they want to no wat we want to be when we grow up and where we want to go to school and all that. i was windering how people came to these decions and wat helped them. thanks

~ Sammy
Well its what they like. I want to be a cosmotologist because i like doing hair, makeup, and nails. If you like saving people.. firefighter, police officer, or a dr. anything-trix

Q: How do I find out what channel the country music station is? and do you need IO or anything fancy to get it?
look at the TV guide

Q: Everytime im around people i get nervous and i worry to much about what to say. Do i have some kind of disorder
i dont think so you are probably extremely shy. My friend Tim is just like that & he is so quiet. That is the exact reason i dumped him. Thats how quiet he was. If he said something it was like WHOA! HE SPOKE! so i dont think anything is wrong-trix

Q: Hey yall, i need help with a nickname...my name is Ashley i have nicknames like Asha,Ashems,Ashlynn but i dont like them! So can u help me out with a new cool nickname?
Thanks, Ashley
I call my friend Asher or asherdash Ash or you could use ley (lee) anything works-trix

Q: I just bought this really cute long sleeved, navy blue, button down shirt. It's adorable... but I do not know what pants to wear with it. I was thinking jeans, but then I thought that might be too much blue/ too dark. What would be the best color pants to wear with the shirt (I don't have khaki's). Thanks!
Were black pants!! -trix

Q: how do you doggy style... hahahahaha
i want that one person to respond who said you should use a condom if you 69 hahahah...
lol nice

Q: I need to talk to my friend about something serioud but everytime i mention it, he changes the subject or doesnt answer or signs off aim. What should I do so I can get the message across that we really need to talk and its serious?
Talk to him person.. and put your arm in front of him if he tries to walk away and say you are serious and you MUST, NEED to talk-trixxy

Q: I have mad wavy hair and its really poofy sometimes not to mention frizzy. My birthday is coming up in a few days and i was thinking of getting it straightened because it would probably look better. What is everyones opinion on this because some people told me that it drys out your hair and makes it fall out? Is that true?
No not for me anyways get revlon.. it works well-trix

Q: I already have both ears pierced but i'd like to
get the part above the lobe pierced, I think it's called the cartilage, just one ear one time. I'll probably get it done at Claire's or something, but I have a couple of questions first: how much does it hurt (like worse than lobes)? Is it more expensive? If any of you have had it done, your experience would be appreciated. Thanks in advance!
I would go to Wal-mart is only 9 bucks. It doesnt hurt that much.I actually got it done twice and it doesnt hurt!! I thought it would hurt!! I was like omg omg lol but it didnt hurt. It felt hot afterwards and my ear was red it was a bit sore afterwards so dont touch-trix

Q: is being a vegetarian a bad thing?? my friends think it`s like being anorexic or somthing!
No its not you just dont like eating animals or whatever my friend memz is one!

Q: I have lots of pimples and well does anyone know any good good creams or anything like that. cuz i tried some and it didnt work I thougt maybe im eating to much chocolate and im not so please help I'm really pretty but with these pimples i feel so ugly inside. HELP i rate high
clean n clear and get the morning burst stuff and after washing your face put a very hot washcloth over your face!!

Q: im a hobo... and i live in a tent.. do u know anyway i can get like some free cardboard to build a house? cause im living in a garbage can... and i havta go cause im using the library computer... there gonna kick me out.. PLEASE HELP ME... IM GONNA DIE... *cough cough... i need somewhere to live... i live off of cracker and mustard and catchup packets.. please save me...
Go to Uhaul. When we were moving we got cardboard boxes there!! Maybe pick up a a instrument and learn to play well and get money on the streets. I hope everything is okay!! **garrett** -trixx

Q: Arite everyone, i was able to last about a week with out looking at porn but just like 20 minutes ago, i cracked and i couldnt handle it. a week is probably the longest time ive ever been able to do it. But i still need help
*stretch* alot of porn addicts. Well just block the sites. Get the parental control thing on it. And it wont let you go to any of those sites-trix

Q: i think im in love with my boyfriend...becasue i dont know....everytime i see him,..its just tha weird feeling inside ...an i think i love him.......im not afraid to love its just am i realli feeling the love an passion between us or is that im scared to be around him !! need help

PLEASE
love is a good thing hunni!! give it a chance-trix

Q: ok ok, i just got my period for the first time this morning. now what! how do i know when it will come back? should i start with pads or tampons (now i'm using pads)? and ahh just please help!

thank-you!
start off with pads.. if this is your first time ever then you might not have it for awhile. thats totally normal. start with pads then work your way to tampons!

Q: does any body know how to shrink pores on your face cuz mine r really really big. thanks
put a really hot wash cloth over your face after you wash it. It also helps shrink pimples to. Give it a few days but make sure you do it everynight!!-trix

Q: I know this is pretty stupid to ask... but.. I've been with my boyfriend 4 months. and a couple nights ago.. he fingered me... well... I bled a little... and ever since that night hes done it... and now.. I'm really starting to hurt. but... It feels sooo good... and I dont want him to stop.. but what can i do to not make it hurt soo bad? is there anything..

Boy I feel stupid :(
Have him use 1 finger.. and not so much pressure maybe his nails are to long-trix

Q: alright, my friend is gettin really paranoid. he keeps thinkin that there might be "side effects" from masturbation. he's 15 and he says he's like addicted to bangin himself. so are there any "side effects" from too much masturbation? if so, what are they?

thanks
No.. hes just growing up

Q: Okay i have this friend named mary, she is one of the popular people and she is so nice, but all my other friend think she is a hoe..but she is not...they say i will turn just liek her is we start being best friends? What should i do? HELP PLZ!
Ashley
Everybody should give everybody a chance. tell them that. Just be like dont judge her before you meet her. She isn't doing it to you so why do it to her?-trix

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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