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Many of my friends say that I am a good listener and advice giver. Because I have experienced many good and bad situations, I know what it is like to feel down or confused. I am a mother, daughter, sister, girl friend, and friend. And if I can't figure out how to answer a question, I'm sure I know someone who can. And I've come to notice that most of the questions people ask they already know the answer to, they just need a little reassurance. But I will warn you that my policy is, if you ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer. But i will say that it is my joy to help anyone with a real problem, so ask away!




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i find myself never being able to sleep until like 2 or 3 in tha morning everynight..i cant ever sleep so i just go on AIM or something like that..any advice? i appreciate it. thanks

maybe something is stresstin yuo out and keeping you up at night.. have you been thinking to hard about something lately?

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umm a year ago when i ment my g/f we were in love she lived in ny but then she had to go back to mississippi and we turned into a long didtis realation ship we were together for a year and almost a full mounth we broke up on sunday cuase she couldent wait two years for me so we were forced to break up cuase she was alwas busy and her father wouldent really let us talk on the phone so we were forced and i wont get to be with her untill i turn 18 so i can go over there. shes my heart and i wont get it back untill two years from now i still and forever love her. i dont really know what to do im so heart broken...

aww... thats so sweet...keep staying in touch with her... don't forget about her... and when you can be with her go for it... if you really love her like that then you shouldn't forget about her

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The thing is, im a guy 15 and i really have a nak for getting gay guys to like me and having girls think im gay. im not gay and i dont come off as gay..i think, but i try to be a generaly nice guy is there any reason why a person would think another person is gay.

umm.... yeah! if you are going around trying to get gay guys to like you people are gonna think you are a fag... don't do that anymore, it may be funny to you, but other people may not know what you're really doing

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Ok..my friend always talks about her ex BF. Ive heard about him soo much and im tired of it. i mean shes not dating him nemore! I try to laugh it off and say..oh no ur talking about justin again but it doesnt she just keeps talking about him!..what should i do?

i rate

go find her a new man so she can talk about someone else... or tell her to stop talking about her ex its corney... i don't know

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My parents and my bro dont get along at all. My parents have disagreed with my bros choices for years. My mom and dad dont want nething to do with him really. They are tired of him expecially mom. But my bro still wants to have a relationship with me (sister and bro). Should i stick with my parents or form a relationship with him.

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hes your brother! of course you should have a relationship with him, you dont have a problem with him, your parents do, parents always have problems with thier kids, they shouldn't put you in the middle of it, he's not your kid, he's your brother.

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ok my ex boyfriend has been talking to me A LOT more then usual and trying to break me and my boyfriend up but my ex boyfriend brok eup with me so why would he wanna break me and my boyfriend up? and do you think my ex likes me?

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he may like you or may not. his motive in general might just be since he doesn't have you he doesn't want you to be with anyone... tell him to leave you alone or but out of your relationship

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How often a day should you brush your teeth?

atleast twice a day

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ok so there's this guy who is a friend of my family and he comes to all our parties and holidays and stuff. last year he came on vacation with us and we hit it off and became really great friends. we started dating on valentines day and he was always so sweet and affectionate and caring. we talked online every day for hours and everytime i came home from school on weekends we hung out. it was hard for us since i was away at college but he always said things would be so much better when i graduated (in may). then all of a sudden he started acting distant and we stopped talking as much. he has a really stressful job so i believed him when he said he was just really busy. but now that i'm home he like NEVER talks to me and i dont understand what happened! but when i see him he acts like normal again and every once in a while he'll call me or something. its so weird. if it was any other guy i'd be like forget him...but i know we'll be seeing each other at family stuff anyway and i dont understand why he would want to throw away our friendship and everything! does anyone have any insight as to what i should do or what this means? should i tell him he's hurting me or just wait till he comes around again?

Ask him what is going on? Tell him it hurts you because you really care for him and you feel like he is just throwing everything you guys have away. Ask him what happened that changed it all.

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Ive been doing good dealing with my break up with my boyfriend, but lately its bugging the crap out of me cause i still love him. And right now Im having a very bad moment. Im a cutter, but havent cut since january. Right now I feel like i wanna hurt myself and i dont know what to do. i feel like i could kill myself right now. SOMEBODY TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!! :o(

just relax... everyone has to deal with heartache one time or another... cutting yourself or killing may seem good or relieveing.... but after its all done its not going to have solved anything... trust me you'll be okay :)

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okay me and my ex bf broke up about 8 months ago. we were going out for a year, there was a huggeee fall out between the 2 of us and we supposedly "cant stand eachother". atleast thats what i say to make it not look like i still have feeligns for him. whenever i see him he doesnt really talk to him, etc , but when im not around and whenever he sees one of my friends, he ALWAYS asks about me, like how i am and if i have a bf, etc. what do u think hes feeling? do u think he still has feelings for me?

maybe he is feling confused... maybe he is hindering the feelings he still has for you... and when you there to keep him from saying the wrong thing he just doesn't say anything

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are glasses a throw off to girls?

some girls like glasses and some dont depends who the girl is

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what r the symptons of being pregnant?

nausia, vomitting, increased appitite sometimes car sickness or motion sickness... those can be anywhere in the 1st three months... further in the pregnancy there is increased appetite and frequent urination because the baby will be large and push on your bladder

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hey i need help, i dont know what to do. i found out that my boyfriend doesn't like something about me and i dont know if i should confront him or just pretend i never found out.

fi he doesn't like something about you then maybe you dont need to be with him

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Ok, heres a good question. I just broke up with my g/f becasue we didn't see each other enough. I still have fellings for and she has for me. But I have a firned that I also have feelings for. I can see my self with my friend more than I can my ex. But I don't wan to hurt my ex's feelings. We told each other that we might get back together when we are able to see each other more. So, what does everyone think?

if you see yourself being with your friend then maybe you should give things a chance with her

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i want to change my background on my columns page how can i improve it.. details plez..

tap your heels together 3 times and say there is no place like home

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hi my name is jessica and my friend thinks i called her jerk when i didnt now she started a big fight i said sry but i think shes still mad at mewhat should i do!!! PLZ HELP

go and call her jerk so that way it can be the truth this time

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hey, if you have cut yourself on the arm really deep 3 times and your parents found out so you cant do it again, you do on your chest a couple of times because you really need to but it was only a couple of times and you feel like your gonna die if you feel relieved after does it mean ill end up killing myself? is it a major thing? like do i have serious problem here? ive only done it a couple of times but i cant control myself not when i feel like i really need to. help? please? anyone?

Yes you have a problem called self mutilation. It when people cut or burn or hurt themselves as way to relieve another pain or depression they have. And it is a really hard habit to break. You should seek some counceling, and be careful you could end up killing yourself, even if its unintentional.

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im going out with this gurl hoo lives aways off but there is another gurl i like that lives closer to me but i never see the one that lives out of townbut i cant get ahold of her should i just say im breaking with out her nowing causs i dont have her # wat do i do and i like this other gurl.

break up with the girl who lives far and ask the girl who lives near out

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ok i have a serious problem.I think im starting to like mah best guy friend like as more than a friend!I just dunno what to do cuz i dont wanna get hurt for the second time but then i'll prolly just get hurt by keeping it inside.So i dunno wat to do, plz help! *I RATE GOOD*
*Nani*

Just tell him you want to give you and him and try and ask him what he feels about that.

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this may sound so stupid . but in sex terms whats a cookie? i dont get it

i have no idea... maybe you mean cootchie... i've never called my parts or anyone elses a cookie.

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