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boy troubles
ok so there's this guy who is a friend of my family and he comes to all our parties and holidays and stuff. last year he came on vacation with us and we hit it off and became really great friends. we started dating on valentines day and he was always so sweet and affectionate and caring. we talked online every day for hours and everytime i came home from school on weekends we hung out. it was hard for us since i was away at college but he always said things would be so much better when i graduated (in may). then all of a sudden he started acting distant and we stopped talking as much. he has a really stressful job so i believed him when he said he was just really busy. but now that i'm home he like NEVER talks to me and i dont understand what happened! but when i see him he acts like normal again and every once in a while he'll call me or something. its so weird. if it was any other guy i'd be like forget him...but i know we'll be seeing each other at family stuff anyway and i dont understand why he would want to throw away our friendship and everything! does anyone have any insight as to what i should do or what this means? should i tell him he's hurting me or just wait till he comes around again?
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ive been in the same situation, when you get really close to someone but then something happens like one of yall goes away and yall become distant i think its a common thing, and i think the only way to get it back to normal is to sit down with him in person and just tell him how you feel and that you want things back the way they were if it was possible
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Just ask him whats going on with your relationship, and why all of a sudden things have changed. Mabye its because hes scared of commitment or something, im not to sure, but the best thing for you is to talk to him and figure out what is going on and what hes feeling. Hope I helped
Amanda
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Ask him what is going on? Tell him it hurts you because you really care for him and you feel like he is just throwing everything you guys have away. Ask him what happened that changed it all.
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as much as i hate to say this he may just be losing the vibe he got from you while you were in college. If you want some advice I would go call him or go meet with him or something cause if he's that special to you then you two definitely need to talk. Talking may not solve everything but it definitely will solve alot. just be sure to ask him why he's getting so distant and tell him that its kinda hurting you to have to go however long you go without talkin to him. If he still loves you then he will understand that you two need to talk more. hope i could help
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hm. weird. but honestly it doesnt sound too suprising. guys are like that, im sure u know since ur already almost done with college. guys like challenges and want what they cant have. maybe he got bored with ur relationship/friendship? did u always act like u REALLY liked him or did u kinda play hard to get? if u acted like u really really liked him, maybe it scared him off. if i were u, id wait maybe acouple more days then definetly talk to him about it, wait until hes not busy, etc and tell him exactly how u feel and tell him u want a straight answer and ull except it no matter what.
hope this helps..
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That's really weird! Maybe he thought you were talking bad about him or something. I don't really think he's just busy all the time. There has to be something wrong with him if he acts like that. YES you need to talk to him about it and tell him how this makes you feel! Don't wait till the next time you see him b/c then it may be too late! You really just need to tell the boy how you feel and see what's goin on with him! Hope this helps and everything gets better! Please rate me! * ashley *
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