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every time i try to burn my music onto a blank cd-r cd using windows media player, when i click copy it says "insert blank cd-r" and i DID insert a BLANK CD-R, and it IS in the right drive, but it still doesnt recognize it. why, and what can i do?
it may be the type of cd your usinf cause they have certain cd's.. try buying a music burning cd
kim~
heyy what does 69 mean? thanks.
wow, 69 is a way of having sex. its where your boyfriend, husband w.e lays on the bed then you get on allfours lay above him and spread your legs so he can eat you out and you suck his dickk..hope i answered your ?!~
kim~
hey. alright, im kind of nervous about shaving below my belt. does it itch growing back? how do i prevent razorburn? should i just use shaving cream? what about nair? if anyone could give me some tips or adivce on doing it, that'd be great.
umm yea dont be scared its not bad, i wuold just use shaving cream i use water but yea i wouldnt use nair idk why but i think its meant for legs only.. so yea hope i helped you good luck!~
kiM~
T'm 14 and I'm a girl. I've never had a boyfriend I don't enen talk to guys. I'm really shy. I really want to have a boyfriend, but I know that no guy likes me anyways. What should I do?
no boyfriend! wow hun, do u have a guy that you like if soo talk to him flirt with him invite him over, ask him to meet you somewhere to hang out somewhere.. hope i helped a lil atleast!~
kiM~
My cousin's family invited me to go on a cruise with them to Cancun and Cozemel. I really want to go but if my cousin and I spend at least 2 hours together, we don't get along. She will get mad at me and I will have no one to hang out with because her dad's side of the family is coming, too (I don't know them because we're not related) But this is a once in a lifetime opportunity...Should I go or no??
i'd go on the trip just as a good opportunity but dont let your cuzn ruin your day try to get along with her talk to her b4 hand tell her you want to make this a good trip with her and family.. hope i helped!~
kim~
hey there, some of you know that I answered a LOT of questions in this site. My friend doesnt have internet in her house so she asked me to ask for your opinion.
She likes her best guy friend, a lot, she cant stop thinking about him and she always gets upset when hes around other girls. I know he considers her as his sister, HE TOLD ME!
What she wants to do is let him realise she likes him more than a friend but I told her it would screw up everything! things would get awkward and stuff. So what she's asking is, should she tell him? Personally I dont think she should.
And she also asked why he hangs out and fools around with other girls instead of her?
I told her because you dont have the same interests and he thinks youre too calm (he told me). So do you agree with me or do you have another opinion?
ok my best guy friend i love him too, i told him that i loved him alot yea things will get kinda akward but itll narrow out eventually i mean he prob. sees you more as a friend then he does maybe as a girlfriend or just friends with benifit! just pull him aside tell him you need to talk about a few things and tell him how you feel about him and imma sure he'll understand you hope i helped try it!~
kim~
When I'm on my piriod, my friends ask me to do something, and I always say no, becuase well, I'm embarrassed that my blood is going to leek through. So my friends get all mad at me becuase, well I don't tell them why, but I really don't want to tell them that I am on my period.. what do I do so that they won't be mad at me when I say I can't??
you should prob. explain that to them they'll understand every girl goes thourgh it.. if it gets outta control and it gets to the point your friends start blowing you off you should try something different while on your period like tampon they last a while and not as complicated well hun, hope i helped!~
kim~
Does anybody have any cool, inexpensive ideas that i could do to my room? My comforter now is purple green and blue..im not getting a new comforter. Thanks
buy picture frames paint the wall the walls the colors of your comforter like in my room i have 3 pillows that my room goes after it turns out great try it!~
kim~ tell me how it goes for ya~
On Friday, I had asked (in an msn message) my friend Christine if she and my friend Jenn were going to a concert that night, because I wanted to go with them. She replied with a big long msn message (summarized) saying she and Jenn are better friends with each other than with me, they just wanted to hang out with each other this weekend. Also, Christine said she feels like I don't listen when she talks to me and that I don't care, so it's hard to want to be around me. Basically, I've been dumped as a friend. She said she didn't mean to put this all out on msn, and I could call her if I want to talk about it. So my question is, should I call her? What do I say? Is it worth repairing the friendship? Should I bother? (note- I did email her Friday thanking her for being honest with me, instead of just ditching me w/o reason, which they've done before)
i wouldnt call if she really wanted to be your friend she'd give you a call if she dont it ain't worth having her as friend.i hope i helped you.~
kim~
ok me and my boyfriend hve been together a while. and we hve done most everything but, sex. alot of my friends hve already had sex. i know some people might say im too young but me and my boyfriend love each other and i know we are both physically and emotionally ready. well he comes over often but everytime im on my period [ kinda wierd? ] but we both hve tlked about this.. and sometimes i want to and others im jus like idk.. but i think i am ready but im so scared i might get pregnant but most people i know of hve had sex and used a condom and hve not got pregnant. seriously what are the chances. do you think im ready? and how would i let him know while we are together that i want to..? PLEASE DONT SAY IM NASTY OR NETHING IM REALLY NOT! please answer asap
hun, your worried i havent had sex yet but imma in the same situation as you i love this guy and i believe that imma ready to have sex with him.id do it and i believe you should have sex with your boyfriend since you say you love eachother *honestly* you dont want to do it and then break it up they'll suck cause you prob lose a bf and a friend. but hey be careful use protection a condom not sure the percentage but imma sure its most like not to break just dont be nervous.. good luck!~
kim~
Lately I have been very body catious about my arms, theighs, and stumach. Does anybody have any good advice on how to loose a few pounds in those areas?
i have a major prob with my thighs i think their big and they bother me to no end. what i do is i run form em into muscle so that their not considered fat i feel better about my legs and so forth the arms try doing some push-ups always works and for the stomach try sit-ups try starting out doing 10 then try 15 then 20 i hope this is good advice~
kim~
hey well here is the problem.. sorry might be long! ok well the guy i am goin out with i like him alot! and i mean i kno i love him.. i hve never felt this way about ne guy ever!.. we hve been goin out for a while now. but the problem is like at school or somewhere wher there are 'certain' people or something i jus act diff around him..and at school he says i act like i dont like him but when we are alone everything is perfect.. i mean i kno im not embarrassed of him! he is not the kind of guy u would be embarrassed of! i love him soo much but we hve been gettin into alot of fights about this and i dont kno what to do i tell him all the time i wil try to act different but i never do.. i dont want to loose him over something like this!! if you hve any help at all please answer or leave ur sn and i will IM you! thanks soo much!!
hey, if can honestly say you love him and he loves you back then there should be no problems i mean in every reltionship there are fights trust me, about you him thinking you acting different in publci do you? because if so you should act yourself around with him wheather he has his friends around or not i hope i helped you out atleast a lil bit good luck~
kim~
My sister is 18 and has recently been kicked out by my mother due to dumb issues. Now I love them both, but my sister is telling me crap about my parents and my parents are telling me crap about my sister. They basically want me to pick sides. Do I pick my parents that have raised me and that I will be stuck with for at least 4 more years? Or do I pick my sister because shes like my best friend?
hun, don't pick any side i'd just talk to both your parents and your sis work things out between both of them your getting stuck in the middle of everything and you dont have a reason too~
kim~
i want to decorate my bedroom for my sweet sixteen! i am up for any ideas but i have to stay cheap. can any one give me ideas or good websites?
hit it up on the picture frames, posters of singers w/e you like, put up shelves and put things on the shelf that are like you things you like w/e.. if your into sports have a sports type room or maybe get like one thing which i have 3 pillows and make the room go off the pillows piant the walls like that do what ever it takes to make your room like your personality! have fun with it its your thing!~
kim~
well lately my friend has totally been flirting with my boyfriend.She knows she does it but she just shrugs it off.I hate it!!like we will be walking in the halls together and she will come right between us and rather close to him i might add.i dont wanna ruin our friendship, but me and this guy really love each other.we've been together through thick and thin.Please help me and i hope this wasn't to long.
talk to your friend about it tel her that you wish that she would stop getting between you guys. if she doesnt want to stop then tell her the friendship just isn't going to work out, you a have decision to with i hope this helped atleast a lil bit.~
kim~ tell me how it works out!
I really love this girl i am talking to i mean i lvoe to talk to her and be with her as much as possible, i am 17 and turn 18 in about 4 months we are talkin about movin in together do you think that is a good idea she is already 18
i think that you guys are the age where you can amke your own decisions in life..if you both honestly think your ready too move in together and have that commitment i think you should go ahead and move in together! i hope this advice works for ya good luck!~
kim~tell me how it works for ya!
Hey..I just want to lose weight..i'm 5 foot 5 inches tall and weigh 126 pounds..i participate in sports all year round..and I just want a way to lose some fat..mostly in the hips..and just asking if anyone knows how..
umm you have no reason to lose weight in perfectly good weigth condition lol.. but whatevevr floats your boat stick to the sports and runa lot.. hope i helped~
kim~
I am 17 and i am kinda seeing a 18 year old, she has a boyfriend but they havent got along or had sex or anything for a couple of months. we started talkin and started going out on dates and seeing each other. We had sex after like 2 months of talkin and now we have done it about 15-16 times, and she broke up with her boyfriend, how long should i wait to ask her out
go for guy, your havn sex with her keep her as long as possible cause you dont want to ruin her esp. as a friend ask her out lol take the advice!~
kim~
My sister has really bad cramps! Does any one know some quick fixes. She has already had motrain if that helps! Thanks!!
hmm motrin sucks.. maybe period if she hasnt started it give her whatever you call em pms pills w.e they may work better then motrin~
kim~
I had sex with a guy almost 3 weekends ago.. and the condom fell off... i didnt get the morning after pill but my friend said i could just take 3 birth control and it would be the same thing... but i'm afriad! what are some EARLY pregnency signs?! lately i have felt nausaous and i've had spotting... please help...
imma kinda not pregnant and i have no idea about those pills but some signs are mosning sickness, and guessing craps. a lil advice hope it works~
kim~