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I really love this girl i am talking to i mean i lvoe to talk to her and be with her as much as possible, i am 17 and turn 18 in about 4 months we are talkin about movin in together do you think that is a good idea she is already 18
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Sometimes moving in together can ruin or make a relationship better. Its your choice, but i dont think its the best idea, it could lead to disatser and heartbreak
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Yes if you love her then i think you should move in together and thats a great idea
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It really depends on how long you've been together. If you've been with her for quite some time meaning you both get along well, are able to compromise, and work things out after fights, then the odds of it working out are well.
But take into consideration the costs of living on your own. It's very VERY pricey. I'd first do extensive research on the monthly costs and see if you are able to afford it first before all else. On average, a couple would pay about $1000+ per month. This includes rent, food, water, phone, energy, car insurance, and miscellaneous costs.
Good luck!
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i think that you guys are the age where you can amke your own decisions in life..if you both honestly think your ready too move in together and have that commitment i think you should go ahead and move in together! i hope this advice works for ya good luck!~
kim~tell me how it works for ya!
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Well do you think it’s a good idea? – that’ s the question. I don’t know you or this girl so how can I say if the two of you living together would work out or not? In fact even if I did how could I say that? Bottom line – its down to the two of you to decide but if you like her like you say and she feels the same I can’t see why you shouldn’t. Derfel
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It depends how long you have known each other and how much time you spend together. you will be together a lot more and are liable to get in more arguments over small things. If you are seriously considering this make sure you are able to afford it first of all and before goin ahead with it go away for say 2 weeks to a month with this girl and see how you get on its usually a good way of finding out whether you will be able to live with eachother full time. good luck!
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no b/c then u will have sex and have a lot of kids and then she will leave you!!
dumb ass
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in my oppinion, age is no difference. . . .It is what you feel, that matters. . .dont let anyone tell you different. And if you think you are ready for some kind of comminitment like moving in together. . .THEN GO FOR IT :)
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yea if u guys really luv each other i think it is a good idea
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When you love someone you want to spend every second possible with them...now since the two of you are just dating, and are still teenagers, when you move in together, at first, yeah it'll probly be awesome, but after awhile the two of you could get annoyed with one another, bored with each other, because of being around them so much. Married couples do it, but that's different, some how, and I honestly can't explain the difference. Just another difference between adults and teenagers...we're rebellious. We think getting out on our own is the most awesome thing ever, and even more so with a boyfriend or girlfriend. I, personally, wouldn't go for it, just to keep the relationship you have. Besides distance makes the heart grow fonder...After not seeing each other for a period of time, when you finally do, it just makes it so much more worth while. If that makes any sense...Hope this helps. Best of luck! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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You love her right? So why shouldn't you move in together? You seem to care for her alot and I think you should move in together as soon as you turn 18. Don't let anyone elses opinions sway your love for her, move in your in love. I hope it goes well. Good luck.
-Malicious
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You didn't say specifically, but I am going to assume this girl is your girlfriend. I personally don't think that it is a good idea. Here's the thing: if you two were to end up getting married down the road, your marriage is more likely to end in divorce if you have lived together previously. Many studies have been done on this, and the statistics aren't good. You might be able to get to know each other alot better while living together, but I think there are more negatives than positives. Here are some to consider. Do you really want to put that extra strain on your relationship? You guys are so young and living together isn't the blissful escape that you imagine it to be. If your relationship isn't strong enough, it is going to be very hard. Both of you will need your space, but won't be able to get it if you are living together. You would probably get in more fights, because you are constantly around each other, even though you made it clear that you love each other. If you still want to live with this girl, I would at least wait till you are both a little older and your relationship is stronger. But, since you really love this girl, just consider it carefully, and don't rush into any decisions. A couple of my friends who 'loved each other' got an apartment together right out of high school and guess what... they had broken up after about 3 or 4 months...after going out for all four years of high school. So, I guess my advice to you would be not to do it. I hope that helped, good luck!
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