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hey well here is the problem.. sorry might be long! ok well the guy i am goin out with i like him alot! and i mean i kno i love him.. i hve never felt this way about ne guy ever!.. we hve been goin out for a while now. but the problem is like at school or somewhere wher there are 'certain' people or something i jus act diff around him..and at school he says i act like i dont like him but when we are alone everything is perfect.. i mean i kno im not embarrassed of him! he is not the kind of guy u would be embarrassed of! i love him soo much but we hve been gettin into alot of fights about this and i dont kno what to do i tell him all the time i wil try to act different but i never do.. i dont want to loose him over something like this!! if you hve any help at all please answer or leave ur sn and i will IM you! thanks soo much!!
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You need to ask him what it is you can change.It must be something you aren't aware of doing.Go from there.
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Hey, this is something that happens a lot, it just means probably that you dont know how to act in front of your friends with him, your scared your gonna be too touchy or not enough. But you should realize that you should be no different with him at school than you are in private away from people. Talk to him about this..And if this aint the problem, more than likely the love you feel for him, isnt as in being IN love with him, you just care about him as a friend and arent comfortable enough around him as his girlfriend to make things work. If you wanna IM to ask me anything or talk about it go ahead.. my s/n is carreraquads
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When you are at school just picture it like hes at your home you all having a great time !
* if you need anymore help ask away !
love xoxo
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Maybe you're just not comfortable with the idea of Public Displays of Affection. Tell him that you do appreciate him and that you're not embarrassed whatsoever, but you aren't sure about some of that good old fashioned PDA.
If this is a huge issue, then start slow. Hold his hand a little in front of your friends. Touch him enough to let him know you're interested, but don't go overboard. You don't need to crawl on his back or anything, but it's the little things that count.
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hey, if can honestly say you love him and he loves you back then there should be no problems i mean in every reltionship there are fights trust me, about you him thinking you acting different in publci do you? because if so you should act yourself around with him wheather he has his friends around or not i hope i helped you out atleast a lil bit good luck~
kim~
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anonymous -
If you really love this guy, make an effort to acknowledge his presence around these "people"! Not abiding by your word just makes him question your quality of girlfriend-material. You might not be embarrassed about him, but to him it seems like you care more about other people than you care about him. If this isn't true make it up to him and prove him wrong. I can't spoonfeed you instructions, all I can say is be creative and stop this nonsense!
Also explain to him that maybe there's just so many people around and you get distracted sometimes. But remember, you're the one at fault here so do the mending!
Good luck!
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well i will give it sum thought... i'm living in africa right now and i have to do my hw. heres my sn and i will help you moer than you need!
ADHDanonomyous@aol.com
thats my aim address, im me, i'll help.
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