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recently I've noticed I have a small pimple-ish thing near/on my vagina. I'm positive it's not razorburn or anything of that sort. But none the less I'm still worried. im only 16 so i dont want to ask my parents about it. I've never been involved in any sexual activity so it couldnt be STDs. im worried still, any ideas/suggestions? (link)
If you've never done anyting sexual, then yo ushould have no fear in asking your mother about it. She may have gone through this herself. I'd try popping it though. I know, not the best ting to do, but it works for ingrown hairs, which this may be.


ok i am friends w this girl nicole and omfg she ignores me! it makes me sooo mad. like if we are hanging out with other people i feel so left out! i HATE that feeling! and when i tell her she says sorry, but then ignores me again later. i am getting tired of this. she has been my friend forever, and i really dont want to fight. she moving across the country over the summer, too. i dont know what to do... (link)
Drop her. If she doesn't value you, don't waste your time valuing here. If she is a true friend, she'll follow when you leave.


Okay, well. The boyfriend I have now, he picked me (as in, he asked me out) and well the first times a said no and maybe but then after a while a said yes.

I started liking him. But after a while, I realized he's not perfect. And sometimes I'm feeling great about being with him, and sometimes i'm not. I'm having my doubts.

And I think I want someone else, but i don't know. Cause what if there really isn't anyone better? and he doesn't get back with me. helpp? (link)
There are many other boys out there, hun. if you feel that he isn't the type for you, move one. Don't feel like he's the end all beat all because he' not.


Ever since I was 14, I could read people's minds. It scared me at first, and it still sort of does because I don't know much about it.

Sometimes it happens randomly. I'll be thinking of something and suddenly I start to think something completely different that I can't control. This has happened with my siblings and parents before, and I've been able to tell them exactly what they were thinking/feeling.

My family is thinking about sending me to a doctor (I know this because they think about it alot). But there's nothing wrong with me.

Is this mind-reading thing normal? How do I tell my parents to not send me away? =( (link)
I don't know much about mind reading, but I'd stop sharing it with my parents. Thier feelings toward it seem to be that of disbelief. If you stop sharing it with them, they may think that some sort of phase of yours has passed. Afterall, THEY can't read YOUR mind.


What's a good program to use ( for free ) to edit your pictures? (link)
You need a graphics editing program, right. Well, photobucket isn't it. You want it free, right? Photoshop isn't it either. I use Photoplus 5 by serif. You'll have to google it. It has the same thing as the expensive ones except a few things.


Does anyone on here know how to make HTML? With colors, and things? Is there a website? The kind that I am asking about would be for AIM profiles.
Where you have to type everything in manually. But where do you get the codes for colors and fonts?

Thank You. (link)
I'm not really sure if HTMl works in those profiles. It's good to learn it though. http://www.lissaexplains.com is the ultimate html site.


ok...this is strange. kind of complicated. i've liked guys before. but, i've never gone out with anyone. and, i havent liked someone in a really long time, and i think i've kinda lost the feeling. and, now, i'm starting to wonder if i'm a lesbien. i mean, i don't find lots of the guys i did before hot, and i don't feel jumpy when i look at pictures of johnny depp. and, i'm really really really close to one of my girl buddies. we don't DO anything, but like, i'm really close. i'm kinda scared. i mean, what if i start liking one of my girl-friends? i'm really nervous, and, obviously, there is no one i can talk to. please help. and, i'll rate, but i really need help with this so no guarenteed fives. (link)
I doubt you're lesbian. Lesbians know that they're the way they are and most of them feel that way at young ages. Sometimes girls confuse close relationships for being lesbian. I love some of my girl friends, but I'm not into girls.


what is Bluetooth wireless technology? its on the razor phone and i was wondering what it was (link)
Think of it as a wireless connection, like internet. It can be used to send files and data places and you can use it to connect your phone with other divices (computers, earbuds, etc.)


ok, 1st this is going to be very long and for that i am very sorry! but here goes nothing:

Ok my friend (who is a guy, and i am a girl)Always follows me. Right after lunch we have 4th and 5th together.

So in my 4th hour we are doing a lab amd he ask me if i wanted to be his "lab buddy." I said i was sorry and that i already had one. Then we had to dign up for a lab table, me and partern signed upfor table 6, then my "stalker" went from table 4, to table 6. When i say i am so sick of school, he says "don't drop out." Im not dumb, and im not going to. He has to know what is going on inmy life or he gets so mad at me.

In 5th hour me and my friend Shelby and me are always talking together, and he has to but in. He is always trying to get my attention. If im talking to someone else, he'll say my name and i'll tell him one min, but if i take to long then he pokes me. It is so annoying. My friends say he has a crush one me. And i am starting to think that it is more then that. For my end of the year solo I sang unfaithful, and he told me that he would never do that to me, as if we were going out. And we are not. I do not want to be mean to him but what do I do? Any help I would really be greatful.
~*Keri~!

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He's probably an awkward guy that likes you. If he likes you as much as he seems to he'll be glad to give the object of his affection space if only to please her. Ask him for space. He'll be glad you're even talking to him. lol.


hey =)

okay i like this guy .. =) soo i used to stare at him a lot not because i liked him (cause at that time i didnt) just because he's hot , loud and you cant miss him. and maby that got him to like me cause then he stared at me a lot and so i also started to like him. so we used to talk and everything but once he got into a deep conversation and i was nervous and i've been a little weird (not really mean i just was like : yes , no , maby) yeah okay and than he told me he loved me and THEN i was mean i was like : whatever
and i know that was mean so about i dont know a month i finally got the courage to talk to him again and i called him and appologized. but he was weird cause then HE was like in a yes , no , maby kinda way =/ so yeah we ignored eachother again. and a couple of days ago we where on the bus he was walking right by be me singing =D (that was funny) and then steped back and gave me high five and also smiled. so i thought everything is okay again but now the next day everytime i looked at him he looked away and he flirts /talks about other girls really loud when i'm around. so what does that mean? whats going on in his head? and what should i do?
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A lot of guys will bring up other girls when they're around somebody they're not sure likes them. I have no idea why they do it, but I've seen this multiple times. Try hinting that you like him and clear the confusuion. Things may clear up on your end, too.


I need some good things to write in people's yearbooks. I want funny, sentimental, memorable. I will rate high for good answers.

Thanks. (link)
Alright, here's the ultimate yearbook gide:

Person's name!!!!
Inside joke
Have a great summer
-Your name

It's personal and never fails.


I have downloaded some songs recently that I don't want anyone, except me to recognize or play. I was wandering if anyone knows in the musicmatch jukebox if there is a way to diguise them or even have a "private" library that only I will have access to? Anything you can think of will help. Thanks. (link)
You could make a folder on your computer and drag-and-drop those songs into them. Then, you can make that folder a hidden folder by right-clicking it and selecting that option. You can see it only when you go to tools>>folder options>>View>>and tick the option to make hidden files visible.


Hey I was just wondering, howcome all southlake girls look like models? Is it because everyone's rich and can by lots of products? Or what is i cause I've always wondered, and I've heard other people ask about that too..
thank you =) (link)
I don't think Southlake girls are any different than any other girls.
Sure, they can spend a lot of money on clothes and hair and nails but I believe their poopy smells bad too! lol


so im sick of being overweight. im 13 and weigh 167lbs..sad i know..but anyhow does anyone have any tips for losing wieght?

if you have any exsercies please be specific=)

thanks soo much!!
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to be right weight, you should way 120 (avg. for a 13 year old) so thats like 40 pounds. so if i were you, be ready to take about 2 months (try losin 20 a month). so pretty much stay away from sugars as much as posible. ok thats the BEST. also, to start out with i would do running or crew or bicyclling. those are good. then when you lose 20 poounds, start swimming (unless you are NOT ashamed of your body, i knoW MOST overweight people are) also, you can cut down on your meal sizes. smaller, healthier, LESS sugarful meals


For school I need to find some songs about the Earth just starting to begin for the first time. Can anyone name some songs about the earth beginning or something like that? It can have words. And I have to dance to this song. I'll rate all 5's. (link)
wheres the love- by the BEP is about earth and pollution, i dont really know what you want about the earth, but pretty much ALL SONGS BY GORILLAZ -- oh green world, kids with guns?, every planet we reach is dead, and more


Is there any way to improve your aim in base or softball so you actually hit the ball most times? (link)
ok, wierd but get like a surface, it doesnt have to be bouncy, and a heavy ball. so hold out the stick/racket/bat whatever, and try to bounce the ball at the tip. they should be little bounces, only a few inches high. (kind of think of this activity like tennis when you bounce it up and down with the face of a racket, but with a smaller thinner, not -as- bounch surface!) this gives you better hand eye coordination,


hey .. i have an advice column and im trying to upload a picture but everytime i do it says it's too big .. anyone know how to fix that?
thanks ! (link)
if you have paint, you can resive it by doing ctrl-w and typing in a smaller number, like 50, 50 (they have to be the same) OR>>>> you should put the pic on an online photo album, because theresno size limit for that


Ok so i have been doing push ups latley and i can tell that i am wokring my upper abbs but i still have like a tiny belly at the loser part of my stomach.. Does anybody know what i could do to get abbs and make it look nice? (link)
you cant expect to be just instnatly better at push ups, it could take a long itme. anyways, what you should do is 5 push ups, then 5 curls/crunches. 10 push ups then 10 curlups. and keep on adding 5


I got a bad test grade and I promised my mom this wouldn't happen again this school year. If I get it signed, then I get extra credit and an A. Because of that, I want and need it sighed. Any good ideas on how to tell her without her being like super mad? 13/f (link)
just be honest. she will be mad if she finds out that you didnt tell her, so if i were you, i would tell her at a time, when shes not really paying attention lol. just be honest with her, that is what will truly count!


IM using Wheres the love - by black eyed peas for a music video i have to make for history. Well my video is 2min and 45 sec long. and the song is 4 min and 44 sec long. IS there a program that i could use to edit the song like by taking out some of the tunes or whatever?

I really dont feel like adding more pictures to the video because i can't find many more pictures.

If you dont know how to edit the song could you list a few websites with Racism Pictures..? (link)
this is how you do it. right click it, do get info, and from there you can tell the seconds from what part you want it to start and end.




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