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I am not huge but I have a little fat around my stomach and thighs, and I have love handles. I never wear tight shirts and I feel weird in swim suits. I really would love to make my love handles smaller and my thighs that is my main goal. I have been working pretty hard but it seems like even though I am eating more healthy and working out more than I ever have, I am just gaining weight! I do situps every day and I play sports every once in awhile but the main reason for my weight gain is that I am taking Seasonal, birth control pill, and it makes you gain weight easily. I am 14 and I have always been so small but recently I gain weight so easily. I eat healthy every once in awhile but I still LOVE my junk food. I try my hardest to cut back and I wish I could still eat the way I do and lose weight. With that said I am going to have to work extra hard and excercise twice as much because of the pill and my not-so-good eating habits. Now that you know about me, what I need help with is how do I lose weight quickly and how do I lose a lot without making myself miserable? Please help me. I keep gaining more and more weight and it makes me so sad! Thanks. (link)
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Okay, first off.....you are only 14 and you are taking the pill?! Unless you are doing it to get less and shorter periods per year, then I suggest you lose the pill and stop doing anything that leads to the reason women take the pill. :]
Also I found that keeping a food journal can help control your weight and keep you motivated. It has helped me and I also love spilling my thoughts on a blank, fresh piece of paper. It makes me feel better and keeps me from eating that one extra piece of candy. :D
I've been on the Special K diet and I've already lost about 3 pounds in a week. Visit their website and find more information on it.
Good luck! :]
P.S. I eat a lot when I'm bored and when I am inbetween TV commericals. If it is the same with you then just fill your time with with something you enjoy doing :]
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My sister and I are seriously wondering if our mom has some mental illness or something. Every day she gets pissed off about something and screams at us about it, threatening to do something in order to make us do stuff. Pretty much, she fights with at least two out of us three [my dad, my sister, and me] about something.
She's OCD about us getting good grades and not wasting time playing sports. One minute shes all happy and fine with us playing sports, the next minute shes all screaming at us about how we spend too much time playing and not enough time doing hw and studying. Plus she hates how we go online, saying that the internet is sucking us in and shes tried numerous times to rip out our internet connection or break out computers.
When we have guests or shes on the phone, she can immediately go from angry to all sweet and polite and stuff. And she screams on the phone so much! She calls us while my dad's driving us to school every day for pretty much no reason and always leaves screaming voicemails if we dont pick up the phone, saying how we're purposely ignoring her and stuff when we either just forgot to turn the phone on or were busy with sports or something.
When we fight, she always says how she wished we weren't born [my sister and me.. mostly me], and how if she knew that i would turn out the way i was, she would have choked me to death after i was born. She probably did that out of anger, but after saying that pretty much every other fight we have... ones gotta wonder.
She also thinks we're like conspiracing against her or something. She's always yelling how she knows we all hate her and want her to die. And shes always saying how shes going to divorce my dad and go back to her ex-husband whos still waiting for her or something. She also goes on and on about how she knows we're just trying to provoke her and make her angry and make her die 'at a young age'. it's just like... are you a little too paranoid? I don't even know if paranoid is the right word.
She gets angry so easily and when shes mad, she starts ranting on and on to some invisible person [or herself]. Shes prone to violence and doesn't hesitate to destroy stuff in her anger. who knows how many dishes and whatnot she's shattered and that folding chair she broke... we think she might be mentally ill, but we're not exactly sure what or how... or if shes just.. like permanently PMSing or something...
I'm just wondering if anyone has any slight idea about if she might be mentally ill or something, and if so, with what? We've checked and figured that she doesn't have multiple personality disorder and isn't bipolar.
Please Please help. Her tirades and rants are ruining our family and driving my dad, my sister, and me crazy. (link)
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You cannot be "OCD" about something. OCD is an illness. That's like saying "My mom is obsessive compulsive disorder about our grades" See?, doesn't make sense.
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I found this desk online, and wondered if the site was trustable. especially since the desk is really cheap and has free shipping.
http://www.computerdesksnmore.com/O'Sullivan-11860-Horizon--L--Workcenter.htm
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It definitely looks like a reliable site. You can check resources and see if you can spot anything fishy. It might be a good site, and it might not. You'll never know until you try it out.
Good luck :]
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It's so weird, for some reason tonight, I'm so nervous, I can't eat, I can't sit still, and I keep on thinking about what's going to happen at school tomorrow.
The problem is, I have n-o-t-h-i-n-g to be nervous about.
Any advice on how to
a.) calm myself
b.) figure out why I'm so tense/nervous
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Anyone can really get nervous about nothing, it can be caused by alot of things. Too much caffeine, being over tired, etc. Just try to lay down and maybe watch a movie or something, it may seem as though you could never sit down at this point because you're too anxious, but try it, it works for me.
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i am not very athletic. I hate running, and i'm not particulary competitive. I dont like being responsible for things on a team because i'm always scared i'll let the team down.Also i hate practices where you have to do sprints and drills esp. since i'm not a fast runner. I take dance and i play a little tennis but i'm not particularly good at eaither. What would be a good sport for me to play? (link)
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You should try doing a variety of sports and see which one you like best. That way you'll know exactly what each sport is like and you'll have a good idea of what catergories each sport falls into. That way it'll be easier to make your decision.
Good luck :]
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Okyy. Well,, i better state thhat my handss are shkking unconttraolbly, whichm akes it hard to typpe well, buttt ill tryy my hardest.
Well, today, the doctor said I have strep throat. 2 dayys ago i started feeling siick with a head achhe & stomach problems. I didn't eat after 2:00 ppm that dayy.
The nnext day, I diidnt eat anythinng. It was more head ach and stommach problems.
Yesterdayy, all i at was a cressent roll& a little bit of noodle soupp. My stomach & head still.
Today, I wentt too the doctors office & they siaid ii had strep thhroat. Now, my throat & head & stomach hurtt. All iive had to day wass half a frapp from starbucks.
I've loost 10 lbs so farr, noot onn purpose.
quuestions:
1. Iss this really unhealthy?
2. Am i supoosed to be SUPER coold?
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1) Losing 10 pounds so quickly can be very harmful and stressful on your body.
2) Being really cold or really hot is also hard on your body.
My Advice: You should try and eat more, even if your throat objects to it. Try drinking a milkshake or some warm soup, something soft and liquidy that won't hurt your throat as bad when you swallow. You should also go see the docter again or seek other professional help. Ask him or her what you can do from losing so much weight and see if there is anything you can do to help your condition.
Good luck!
I hope you feel better soon!
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how do you make those little hearts by your name when you are asking or answering a question? (link)
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It's a code that you must type in. ♥ or you can copy and paste it :]
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I don't know if this counts as racism, but my friend doesn't really care or know about the difference between Orientals such as Koreans, Japanese, Chinese, etc. It's not that she disses the races but she doesn't get who is who and says "Japanese, Korean, whatever" or "Chinese, Korean, same difference." She also calls me a different race than I am and her family always asks me if I get my stuff from China when I buy my stuff here. I was born in the U.S. and the question really irritates me. I think her dad's the only normal one. She's not Oriental herself but she is Asian. (I don't really want to give anything away because it is probably rude, I don't know). How do I teach her about the differences? I am Oriental but I need some help. Thanks in advance! (link)
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I would advise you to sit down and talk to her, tell her how you feel, that you feel hurt by the way she says things, although she may not know she is doing this. You need to let her know gently so as not to alarm her and make her think you are angry, cause you don't seem to be? anyway just tell her if she is unsure of what race someone is just tell her it is more ethical to say "that person" rather than "that chinese person" cause for all she knows they could be american and have never been in China, just have chinese parents!
In my opinion she needs to think about things before she says them, and before somebody who isn't her friend hears her saying these things and gets offended, you never know what people could do these days!
Kris.
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I was raped when i was 13 1/2 and i got pregnant. Im now 14 almost 15 and i have a 4 month old. Shes a lot of work but i love her a lot. My dad tried to talk me out of keeping the baby but i kept her. My parents have kicked me out because of her and i live with some friends. It wasnt my fault that i got pregnant so do you think i should have got rid of her by abortion or kept her or are my parents wrong?
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well i totally am against abortions so in my opinion i think you did the right thing. i no it must have been hard knowing that you were pregnant from being raped. instead of keeping the baby(if you dont wanna) you could always give the baby up for adoption. one of the adoptions were you can still visit and see your kid. your parents probably think you should have given the baby up because they probably think you cant handle it and it must have came to a big shock to them knowing you were pregnant. well if you need any more help just leave it in the inbox. hope i helped! bye! ♥ terri
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What should a 14/f mile time be? (link)
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under 7 minutes probably
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Does anyone know were i can listen to samples of whole albums online before i buy them ? i know amazon has it but not on all of their cds.I would really apperciate it if anyone could find or know another site to where i can find it thank you. (link)
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aol lets you listen to the whole cd
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I don't get the whole day of the devil, what do they expect he's gonna do? And my friend was like freaking out cause shes on her period and tomorow is the day of the devil, what does that have to do with anything? (link)
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6/6/06 is just another day. its not like the worlds going to die or anything. thats bull shit.
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what is lax? people always say they have a lax game. (link)
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lacrosse. x=the cross, hence the LA-crosse becomes LA-x
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Do they still check "down there" after you get your period? (for a yearly physical/checkup) (link)
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yea they do. the doctors can also can tell if youve had it somehow. maybe theyre guessing
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For the past several months, i've been having my period at regular times which is at the beginning of the month. However, i'm due on my period now and nothing has happened. The last time I had sex was in February - does this have an relevance? And does any foreplay have any relevance? (link)
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no, febuary was a while ago. if youve had your period since, and you havent had sex sindce, you should be safe
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-what is threading
-what is the differences between threading and waxing?
-if i were to do one which one is a better idea?
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i read about threading, and i dont remember what threading is EXACTLY, but its a very slow and painful process. waxing is a fast painful process, so i would go with waxing. according to a website: Threading is an ancient method of hair removal still used in many countries in the Middle East as well as India and Pakistan. It is used to give clean lines and good shape to the eyebrows and also remove hair from the upper lip and other facial areas.
so yea, if your thinking about bikini waxes or waxing your legs, go with waxing, but then i would choose tweezers over threading, because you have more control
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ok, so my bf and i will just be talking and what not and he is lying on the couch and i just want to say to him" oh my god you are so effing hot i have every reason on earth to jump on top of you and furiously make out." But that would be wierd.... so how can i get to that place where i can actually do that. how can i "seduce him" into making out with me without sounding desperate?
I will rate HIGH if someone can give me a line to make him realize that i WANT to kiss him ALOT...something i could SAY to him that would "send him the message" and we dont have to "take it slow b\c we have been friends forever....
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just say omg your so effin hot. dont jump on him thats psycho, but it you say hes hot, he'll be turned on, and want to make out with you.
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first off, wow.. your background is really cute. I love it !!!
okay.. I have this boyfriend, and I like him ALOT, one problem.. he is really popular.. and I'm not, I'm kinda like a dork. Why he is going out with me I don't know, I'm kinda just scared to be myself around him, and I'm scared that he will relize how dorkish I am and break up with me. He hangs out with popular people, and I don't. What do I do if he askes me to go somewhere with them,.. I would feel stupid, and out of place. Please.. help... &hearts (link)
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ok, so become friends with his friends slowly. dont try to be friends with all of them at once. lets say there names are a,b,c,d,and e. start with like c, then d, or a and so on
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Okay this is going to be REALLY long, this all started when i was doing my clothes at around 11.... i wanted to clean some of my clothes so i would have something to wear tomorrow.
so i threw 2 pairs of abercrombie pants in the wash and dryer. so my mom was all like throw some of my jeans in! but i was half way threw the cycle to put any thing else in the the wash so i didnt bother.
then we went out and i was all nice to her. very nice. this lasted till about 3?
then i got home around like 3:30, and wow was it hell. i put my jeans in the dryer. so they would be dry for about 4:00. then my mom threw in some of her stuff, so i threw in the whites that were dirty in too. no problem with that right?
Okay this is when the shit started, i threw her stuff in the dryer without looking. [with my whites....] and so i did that so i could wash my so lows. so i did that. no problem right?
okay so my mom SCREAMS AND YELLS. becuase her stuff apparently shrunk 2 sizes. i told her if she wants to fit into them again, [ps their like designer] so she starts a hussy-fit with how everything gets broken left and right. and i dont need this beause i have finals from the 13-20th. do i need peace and quiet. but Apparently i cant get it sence my mom is bitching [sorry but i dont have anything else to say for that]
and i didnt invite her to dinner because i dont allow whiners eat the food i make, [im like a chef and planning to be one] so i made pretty good food. its hard to resist ;]
but like, then i was eating then she said to my dad, ricky, sister, melissa, and i, laura, "i hope you bastards [im quoting the EXACT words] fucking die form that taco shit you call food, and i hope you CHOKE AND DIE"
what should i do? call the cops. HELP! (link)
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Woah. If you're telling the truth about your mom, which I'm sure you are, well then your mom got issues. I thought my mom gets mad over little things, but apparently, she doesn't. Calling the police won't do any good, they don't arrest moms for cursing, only for physical abuse, or threats. Talk to your mom when she is in a good mood, and tell her how you feel. If not that, talk to your school counselor. Study in a library, or at school during free time. Your mom sounds bad. I feel for you. I wish you good luck. :-b
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How important do you think ratings are? I have asked questions, and try to go back and rate all the answers. However, I notice that a lot of people do not give ratings. It seems like it should be a common courtesy when someone gives a detailed well thought out answer.
Also have you noticed that the ratings now show up next to the answers? I haven't found this to be true of all my answers that were rated, but at least some of them.
Nallie
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Yeah yeah, you're right. I sooo like ratings, and I agree with you on the courtesy. Only down side is, people can be meanies. I've only been rated 3 times. I got two fives, and one 1. Yeah, some dumb ass guy gave me a one because I told him how he doesn't have a girlfriend because she cannot say she wants to take a break. I mean, what the hell? You ask me a question, I give you a straight up answer, you rate me so low. I've seen bread rate better than a 1. But I don't get where you say the ratings show up next to the answers. That doesn't happen to me.
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