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hey my name is Rachel and iam a 17 year old girl and iam going to be babysitting an autistic child for a whole month in june what kind of activities should I plan.I know autistic kids don't like change so what should I do if i make a mistake and he pitches a fit? (link)
Dear Friend,


Autism is a social disorder, so the reality is that if you want an outstanding bond with this kid, you'll need to be categorically perfect. Nobody said babysitting was easy. Okay, everybody says that..

Don't stress about this - treat him as you would any other child. He might be a little less receptive to you, initially, but there are plenty of things that will engage him. He won't like change, but if he is genuinely entertained by something you're doing, you won't need to change! Try something with bright colours; it'll stimulate his mind more than something mundane.

Love,

Ainsley.


What does Lax mean? (link)
lazy; relaxing


how do you get pictures on myspace- but not like the profile pictures, ones like under the "about me" section or "my interests"?

thanks! (link)
instead of photobucket you could use tinypic.com or imageshack.com all you do is browse the photo and submit when its been uploaded they will give you a simple link directly to the image copy it and put it in this code
and viola


whateverlife.com gave me this info so u could check back there =]

hope i helped


I think I'm allergic to the wax or lotion my salon uses or something, cause the last few times I went I got a little bit of hives and then I got a lot of pinples near my eyebrows. Should I try a new salon, or should I try threading?
thanks (link)
its a reaaction because you arent used to it. if i were you, id do it at home with the tweezers. threading is pretty much the same as waxing, so if you had the problem with waxing, you ll probbaly still have it


okay well i know that when guys get their cartalige pierced, that one side means they're gay and another side means their straight. well i have 2 questions::
1. which is which?
and 2. does it matter for girls and what side is the 'right" side because i just got my cartalige pierced adn the lady made me pick my own side because she said that it didnt matter..soo yeah 5's for anything that helps. thanks. (link)
right for guys=gay.

girls can do whichever, the more common side is the right one


I've been called in to an interview for one of the jobs I applied for, its at Baskin Robbins. Since this is my first job, I'm kind of nervous about this interview. What types of questions do they normally ask? (link)
previous job experiences and your qualities and skills. since its baskin robins, and you dont need to be a genius to work there (like, no offense, but you know what i mean -- you dont need like a college degree to work there). say your responsible, reliable, etc


okay im really scared. because i just shaved uhh "down there" for the first time and now its turning red. is this like, really really really bad?\\13f
(link)
no it's your first it will get red for a while well GOODLUCK !!


i hope this helps


Im 17 and i have had my Period 6 Years. This is the Second time i have missed my Period the first time was when i first started. I usually start around the 21 and last month i didnt. And it hasnt started yet. Im not sexually active any more. So i havent had sex in a good 9 months. Should i just wait. And see if i ever start? (link)
well if you havent had sex in 9 months, and youve had your period since, you should be fine =)


In PE, we're swimming. I was wearing a two piece bathing suit for the first time, and it was a bit embarassing. All the girls were staring at me and moving their eyes up and down my body. And I'm not just imagining it, either. What is this? Is this a bad thing? (link)
its becuse your hot and they are checkin u out


how can I set password on a file or folder in Windows XP? (link)
ok those people who answered you b4 are stupid
listen to me
im sorry this is going to seem long but it really isnt.
lock ur profile so that nobody just go in there and look at it any way
then what you are going to is put it into My documents
then right click the My Documents
go down to properties, click on the sharing tab then click make this folder private
then any thing you put into that folder will be locked away only for your eyes to see


i have one of those invisalign retainers that i have to wear while i sleep. after a couple days it starts to smell and get really gross. ive tried rinsing it with water, it didnt do anything. then i tried using toothpaste. (brushing it like i would brush my teeth) it only worked a little. so i was wondering if there was anything i could do to get them really clean? (link)
heres a cheaper and easier way
boil some Water in a pot and drop the invisaligns on a spoon make sure it doesnt touch the pot for an extended amount of time so that it doesnt melt
hold them under until they dont smell
but not until they melt


i dont know how to spell this, sorry, the dog type anyways.
Does anybody know of any place where i can borrow a chiwawa (male), for a couple days, to mate with my girl, but for free?

Hev (link)
its spelled chihuahua. i have never really heard of places where you can breed animals, but you should probably google it WITH your hometown. it might be hard to find, becuaes first off, chihuahuas arent very common, and secondly, alot of ppl spay/neuter thier pets.

(i loveee chihuahuas -- i have one!!)


When I saw both jessica simpson and kelly clarkson had proactive testimonals I was thinking about gettin proactive:S. I know it's expensive but that's not a problem.


My face doesn't break out badly...only my forehead gets 4-6 pimples and my cheek might get one or two. It's not a big problem and I never broke out really bad...

I was wondering if I shuld buy proactive? or should I get a next 3 step program (can u give me a name of it 2).

PS- I've tried loreal pure zone and yeah it works but I don't like the cleanser (wid micr beads) because the beads are tiny! So i switched it with neutrogena invigorating scrub...so please help me! I was thinking 4 2mrw evening? (link)
no dont get it. just because you see celebirties does not mean you should get it. thats why they use them, so people fall for their marketing scams


My friend ran away from home 2 months ago without cleaning her room, and shes a naturally messy person. She has just moved back in and found a whole load of bugs in her room. She didn't leave food in her room, but it is now infected with mealworms and beatles. She wants to know why, and how to get rid of them. (link)
messiness attracts bugs. even though there was no food, piles of crap atract bugs. call an exterminator or use raid


i think at my age, i really want a boyfriend. but who? i know a relationship is special but i just can't wait. i kind of like my friend from ohio and he's coming during the summer. he's probably going to visit us for a few days. what should i do? i'm 15 and he's 16. (link)
i dont see why you cant date him. your 15, hes 16, go for it


Hey. I'm going to get my hair cut tomorrow (Thursday) and I want to get side-swept bangs. Is that what I ask for? Just side-swept bangs? Does anyone else have any ideas on how I should get it cut? I'm also getting it layered. (link)
well it seems you already have it planned out. what you ask for is side swept bangs, and tell them how long you want them. always add a littl ebit of space, so that if its wrong, you can get it recut. once you cut it too short theres no going back!


In PE, we're swimming. I was wearing a two piece bathing suit for the first time, and it was a bit embarassing. All the girls were staring at me and moving their eyes up and down my body. And I'm not just imagining it, either. What is this? Is this a bad thing? (link)
Don't worry, they all do it to each other. People did it to me when I wore a two piece, and I did it to them. Just keep your chin up and don't feel self-concious. They are probably jealous of you.
Good luck :]


okay i am overweight a little and i really want to lose my weight over the summer. the thing is i have to do it by having fun otherwise i lose interest and stop. so i decided to lose weight by jumping on a trampeline every day for a good amount of time. my question is, is this a good way to lose weight? also can you lose a lot? and what are some more fun activities like this? thanks wil rate high. (link)
no. you might lose like 10 pounds a month if you jump on it for like AN HOUR a day, but 30 days of an hour a day will get boring. maybe you could have a friend do it with you. you wont lose that mucch weight, thou


ive had sex 5 times before, and ive heard when you lose your virginity, your "cherry" pops. and that has never happend to me before!.. is something wrong with me?! or is it because i use tampons or what? (link)
poppin your cherry just means youve had sex. nothing actually pops. so if youve had sex before, youve had your cherry popped


Im 13, And Im female. I just kinda have a odd questions. You know how people say (While i heard it on tv once, & once on here..) When boys at school when they get hard, they try to stop it and cover it with the books in front of it..
Will honestly, do they REALLY DO THAT?
& doesnt it hurt, trying to make it not so noticeable...
I mean im a girl, and i just see it as pain, or something. hah.. Thanks i rate high. (link)
what are you guys stupid
it doesnt at all it feels good
but its just embarrasing if a girl walks by and sees your boner




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