In PE, we're swimming. I was wearing a two piece bathing suit for the first time, and it was a bit embarassing. All the girls were staring at me and moving their eyes up and down my body. And I'm not just imagining it, either. What is this? Is this a bad thing?
orphans answered Wednesday June 7 2006, 8:41 pm: Don't worry, they all do it to each other. People did it to me when I wore a two piece, and I did it to them. Just keep your chin up and don't feel self-concious. They are probably jealous of you.
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CiNdYLoUwHoO answered Tuesday June 6 2006, 9:45 pm: It's normal, don't be too afraid. They are just comparing themselves to you. Nothing to worry about. They also could be jealous, it's a compliment. Hope this helps.
-cindy <3 [ CiNdYLoUwHoO's advice column | Ask CiNdYLoUwHoO A Question ]
fabulous11 answered Tuesday June 6 2006, 3:43 pm: Thats pretty normal. Thay are just comparing themselfs to you. Thay might be jealous. If your really that concerned about them always looking at you then just buy a new bathing suit.
clearlypink428 answered Tuesday June 6 2006, 2:46 pm: well, think about it this way- if you saw an unnattractive person in a swimsuit- would you want to look more than once?- i mean, they obviously liked what they saw- not saying theyre gay or nething- dont take it that way- i mean, obviously- they might have even been a bit jealous!- id say nothings wrong except they wish they had a bod like yours. lol. hope i helped, and show 'em what youve got, sista! [ clearlypink428's advice column | Ask clearlypink428 A Question ]
XoNeLLiE143oX answered Tuesday June 6 2006, 12:44 pm: girls are always checking out other girls bodies. Its completely normal. They are just comparing themselves to you, which is somehting every girl has done, or will eventually do. Im sure you've caught yourself once or twice looking at a girls body and thinking "wow i wish i had ___" or, "eww thank god i dont have___". If you havent, i can promise you that you will in the future. Its just how girls are. hope i helped. ♥danielle
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netsirk07 answered Tuesday June 6 2006, 10:33 am: They're jealous!! I do the same thing and you might not notice it but so do you. You check out another girl to see what they have that you dont or what advantages you have over them. [ netsirk07's advice column | Ask netsirk07 A Question ]
GC07 answered Tuesday June 6 2006, 9:38 am: Girls definately check out other girls - alot. It's normal for girls to do this. They want to see what they are up against. You probably have a really great body, especially if this is the first time you are wearing a two piece, it's new so the girls want to see how you look so that they can try and look as good as you because no matter what people say, appearances are a lot in this world. They are probably totally jealous of you. Just checking you out and seeing how you carry yourself and how you look etc. This can be really embarrassing but have confidence! They probably want to be you because they were looking at you so much and confidence makes you even hotter. If they didn't like what they saw, they would have stopped looking. They were checking you out, you hottie. haha. I hope I helped and have fun swimming! Let me know how it goes! Good luck! -GC07 [ GC07's advice column | Ask GC07 A Question ]
FrEe2bMe answered Tuesday June 6 2006, 3:00 am: All girls check out other girls because they in a way compares themselves to that girl. And of course, all guys check out girls because, well frankly, that's just in their nature. You just have to get accostomed to it. If you have the body for a two peice then go for it! :) [ FrEe2bMe's advice column | Ask FrEe2bMe A Question ]
LoveNJstyle answered Tuesday June 6 2006, 1:14 am: well if you're supposed to wear a one piece maybe you looked a little out of place? it could be that they don't think it's flattering or it is and they're jealous. maybe you forgot to shave or something? you never know...girls are mean. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
libby answered Tuesday June 6 2006, 1:04 am: well im goin to be honest. if your fat they probably are makin fun of you. but if your skinny ther just jelous bc they dont have a body thats better tehn thers [ libby's advice column | Ask libby A Question ]
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