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i think at my age, i really want a boyfriend. but who? i know a relationship is special but i just can't wait. i kind of like my friend from ohio and he's coming during the summer. he's probably going to visit us for a few days. what should i do? i'm 15 and he's 16.
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Okay, before you do anything. You must know that your right about relationships being special and you may feel like you can't wait, but you might have to. There is no age where you need a boyfriend. It will happen when it happens. Now about this boy...if you really like him then you should begin to flirt with him. You can smile at him say little things like "cool" or "nice" or even just "hi" when you see him around or are talking to him. Laughing at his jokes (as long as they are harmless) is a good start too. Let him know that you are intrested in at least a friendship. Then you can work your way up to conversations about things in common and news and stuff like that. It will happen if you are patient and let things flow. Good luck!
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start 2 flirt with him and see if he goes along with it..and at ur age you dont need a bf u just want 1..but make sure not 2 be 2 desparate...because sorry 2 say it..but you sound realy desparate
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Hmm. How to put this answer into words..
♥(thinks to self for a few minutes.)
Ok, is it a boyfriend you want, or is it the idea of having a boyfriend that you want? If you are looking for someone to love, then don't rush into things with just anyone & hope for the best. You will end up getting seriously hurt this way. If love is what you are looking for, then let it come to you. And trust me, it eventually will. I was in this same position about a year ago. My bestfriend was in her first steady relationship, and I desperatly wanted to be in one. I would find myself saying that I loved any guy that just glanced, waved, or IM'd me. She informed me that things happen when you least expect them to. And she was completely right. After I stopped searching for Mr. Right, and went on with my life, I met my current boyfriend for the first time at, get this, Rite-Aid! Ahh, it was wonderful, and so unexpected. And I wouldn't have it any other way.
But on the other hand, if you are looking for just a fling or a temporary boyfriend to keep you from going completely insane. (If your like me, you can't stand to be single for long!) I suggest just going out and finding you a cutie. Just be careful with your heart, and don't wear it on your sleeve. Trust me, heart breaks are the worst kind of pain there is. So be careful. Even though I don't know you, I hate seeing anyone being hurt. So yea.
Now, for this Ohio friend of yours. Ha, this reminded me so much of the song "Ohio is for Lovers" by Hawthorne Heights. Anyways, if he is only coming over for a few days, I wouldn't suggest making a thing out of it. You will only end up getting hurt in my opinion. Long distance relationships never end on good terms. But this is up to you.
Good Luck finding Mr. Right ;)
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well,i don't think that you should try to rush into getting serious with anyone. trust me love will find you:you don't have to go around looking for love. But your friend if you really tryly like him and see something between you two, then why not. But keep in mind just because you like him, doesn't mean he wants to be more than friends. but I really don't think that you should go into a long-term relationship, because you're not gonna always see him and you don't know whats he's gonna be during in Ohio. Come on, you're only 15, you still have your whole life to date; don't try growing up so fast. GOOD LUCK!!
*<<Taniqua>>*
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i dont see why you cant date him. your 15, hes 16, go for it
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Well I do not think you should date someone from another state. Long-term relationships work sometimes. Its about a 20% out of 100% that they will work. But if you want go for it. Hes only 1 year older than you. And if you really like him. Give it a try.
Hope I helped
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