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my sister is having a baby and she really loves symbolic and unique names so i was wondering if i could get some suggestions... thnx :-D (link)
I've always adored my friend's name, Shiloh. It supposedly symbolizes perfection. It's a genderless name, but my friend's a girl if that helps at all.


Hi. I am obsessed with anime and manga. Is there any way to turn myself into an anime character and jump into an anime?
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no, but wouldn't that be great? I'm not obsessed, in fact I'm getting older so I probably shouldn't be into anime as much as I am, but I do love it. My favorites are Princess Mononoke, Ninja Scroll, VHD: Bloodlust, and Grave of the Fireflies.


well you see, i really want to go to middle school, like BAD! But i have maybe a 89% to go to this acting school, and i ,may even be in a show! what should i do? i will like to go to school with my friends, but this is a one in a lifetime chance!

Signed,
Confused Actress (link)
If it was me in your shoes, I would go to middle school. Your still young, and you still have years until you have to decide what you want to do with your life. Your definately a good actress if you can get into this school, so chances are you'll have opportunities after middle school and high school. I would have fun with friends right now if I was in your shoes, and worry about the future later.


Hi
I really dont know if Im inlove with this person but every day and night I cant stop thinking about him, he never met me before, but I really always thinking about him this gut is an actor. I know your thinking that this is just crush because his famous and popular because he really is a popular actor. I dont know but when im thinking about him I always think of a lot of good things like we will live happy and I will always protect him..and take care of him I know it's crazy but that's how I feel. im 13 years old and Im a girl... I think that I should forget about him but I know that it's not gonna hapen because his always in my heart...
If there's just something or someway that could help me forget about him I will do even though it's painful but I need to try..
I hope you can help me.
thank you... (link)
Yes, I think it's a crush. I've had a few exactly like yours, just with girls. The way you can tell is that you don't even really know him. if you think you can be friends with someone without these strong feelings then it might be love. Of course, there are instances where this isn't true. When you fall in love, you'll know. It's something totally different. What I think you should do is try to think about guys in your area. When you are thinking about him, try something that requires your undivided attention. Good luck.


im' a girl . i need different ways for me to pleasure myself..please help me. (link)
Sexual pleasure can get boring after a while. Well, not boring, but the pleasure does die down after a little while. Try whatever you can to get an adrenaline rush. Those are great.
Think about your fears and face them. Try bungee jumping, something like that.


ok... i like my guy friend **bob** :) he-he bob... ok ne ways, i know he has a physical attraction to me. how do u go about asking if he likes u all in all? can u give me some pointers?
thanx f/16 (link)
He does like you. He's physically attracted to you and he's a friend. What more could a guy ask for. Just tell him how you feel, and I'm sure he'll, in turn, tell you how he feels. Unless, of course, he doesn't feel the same way. From what you say, however, I'm almost certain he does.


what could the ending be for my story in english? it's about a girl who discovers a girl was murderered in her house..it's a ghost story any ideas??? cheers. (link)
Whle she was living there? Did someone living there murder her, or was this before the girl moved in? You could have one of her parents be the killer. Or at least make it seem that way until the end. How old is the girl? Does she still live with her parents?


I asked questions yesterday but I forgot to check the answers from them so i'm going to ask again. What is
1) oral
2) head
3) 69er
I'm 12/f/Canada and I really want to know because everyone is talking about it !! (link)
Head is basically the same thing as oral.


what do i do when i feel like everytime i get down or upset or depressed sometimes for no reason that i wanna kill myself.. or hurt myself... what can i do for help? my friends help by keeping me from actually doing it but im tired of feeling like i should do it.. i use to cut but my friends stoped me from doing that... what should i do? (link)
I went through a similar phase. If you have no reason for being depressed, go see a psychiatrist to see if you need to taKE anything. If you are depressed because of something that happened, or a number of things that happened, then talk to someone about it. Talking to a close friend of mine about everything that bothered me helped a lot. It also helps to keep busy. Last summer I got a job, worked on music with my band, worked on some artwork, wrote a lot, and hung out with friends.


im in yr 9 and i need to pick ma options and i dont no wot to pick i love workin wiv kids canm ne 1 help (link)
I'd give psychology a shot. I liked that class, and you learn a lot about what children think.


im thinkin of gettin a pet but i dont no wot to get. i have 2 cats and 1 fish. has ne 1 got ne ideas they will really help thanx love tammy gal (link)
I'd get a bird, just keep it away from the cat. Cats have a knack for not getting along with other pets.


well every day after school an on fridayz i go to my friends house... an there are a bunch of guyz who are always grabin on me an stuff... well they really really like me an they always wana make out with me but i never made out b4 so im not sure what to do... we always play like spin the cell phone or bottle they always got tap kiss wit me cuz i refuse to makeout cuz im scared to an i really have no clue wut to do! an then when we play man hunt they always want like head or want to fuk me an im just really confused cuz yeah some of them are hott but i dont wana ruin my rep. at school or my parents to find out they never new i had a b/f or kissd yet.. im just REALLY REALLY confused... can someone plz help me?? :-/

-shellz (link)
I definately wouldn't do anything. These guys sound like they have a one-track mind, especially since it's a bunch of guys. Besides, how old are you? You sound really young. I would stay away from them. It probably would shred your reputation.


Well theres this guy and i have liked him for over 4 years...we dated in jr.high and now were in HS...i thought i would never get another chance with him...but lately things have changed, we both like eachother and want a relationship but theres a prob...he still has a GF, he hasnt seen her in like 4 weeks and the last time they talked was like a week ago (shes having fam probs), he told her about us and she wasnt too happy, he wants to break up with her but hasnt had the chance...shes my friend (well i think so idk now?!)...and i still wana be friends and be with him too....so what should i do?...forget about him & stay cool with her?...or stay with him n not be friends with her? (link)
You'll lose someone either way. This girl is going through a lot it sounds, and getting dumped won't improve her situation. It sounds impossible to have both. But since he wants to break up with her anyway, it's not really fair to either of them to keep the relationship going. It sounds like you like this guy a lot, so I'd probably go for it. But I'd wait a little while in hopes that things go better for the girl he's about to dump.


Hey does ne1 here like Taking Back Sunday or anything awesome like Yellowcard, The Used, GC, Simple Plan, ETC....? If you do and ur between 15-17 u can AIM me at isthatdisposable ADIOS! (link)
Well, I'm old but I do kind of like the used. Choke Me (I think that's what it's called.) is my favorite song by them.


I have a friend, well more of an aquatence well i dont know what you would call her but newyas.. she has hurt me so much and we fight all the time. she was my best friend and i dont have barely any friends, just a boyfriend i have loved dearly for 7 months! i dont know what to do. I dont want to be her friend but i do. its so confusing but im fed up with people walking all over me and i wish i had friends that werent so immature and didnt go to my school. i just need someone to talk to and shes not that person nemore. she has told my secrets before and i can barely trust her with nething. what do i do? should i still be her friend? (link)
I'd probably stay friends with her, but I sure as hell wouldn't tell her anymore secrets.


alright well i've got this boyfriend and like i like him a lot! And we havnt had sex or anything but he wants to and what not. But my fear is that hes had sex with 5 different people... Thats nothing i'm interested in ya know! I'm still a virgin and like I'm not sure if i want to lose it to my boyfriend. See i'm scared to have sex with him because i'm scared of getting any STD or whatever. But like he claims he doesnt have any, because recently he got out of the hospital because he got into a major accident and he was in there for like 7 months, and they test you for all that and stuff and he says he hasnt had sex since hes been out of the hospital. Should i wait and see if hes the right person or what should i do!?! HELP ME! (link)
Saying he doesn't probably means he doesn't know. Why in the hell would he be tested for that because of an accident? Some guys will say anything to get a girl in bed. If you're not sure, then I'd definately wait.


i've been with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half months now and we're still very shy around each other. he was crying because he couldnt kiss me because he was so shy the other day and i felt so bad. we've only just started to hold hands and hug and all that and everyone's pressurising us so much it's making it worse even when we told them to back off. what should i do? (link)
Well, how old are you two? Go at your own pace, if neither of you want to "go to the next level", you don't have to yet. If you do, and you know he does, try to ignore your fears and make a move.


i just had sex with my dad and i'm afraid that he got me pregnent..what the hell do i do! i'm so scared. is it possible for my dad to get me pregnent (link)
Yeah, okay. it is.


this may seem shallow but, why are all the young teenagers(generally below 15) OBSESSED with the fag rock bands, like GC, and simple plan, and that crap? (link)
It's just their taste. I absolutely hate bands that consider themselves punk, but have no angst nor are they political in any way. Punk is supposed to be about rebellion, what's so rebellious about singing about relationships, and life styles of the rich and famous? Even though most punk bands are a walking contradiction. "Fight corporations, down with the government, but buy our much publicized cd. Be original and never conform, never follow structured systems, anarchy, but if you don't follow the very structured rules of sounding punk (Power chords, etc.) then your not, even if you deliver a powerful political message and consider yourself punk." To me, the best punk artist was Dennis Lyxzen, the one who broke the structure of power chords and typical punk routines. I wouldn't call them fag rock bands, Mindless Self Indulgence is a little homoerotic and I think they're all right. It's probably just the fad right now. Fads fade, they'll hate them in a year and love something else. Personally, I like most types of music; but rap, country, and pop punk are a few of the exceptions.


If your curious as to what I listen to: Ephel Duath, Refused, T(I)NC, The Dead Kennedys, Mike Patton, Blindside, The Dillinger Escape Plan, Opeth, Liszt, Metallica (80's), Rachmaninoff, The Cranberries (At least the first three), The Beatles, BTBAM, Simon and Garfunkel, Porcupine Tree, Lamb of God, Black Sabbath, The Berzerker, Norma Jean, etc. I think that covers all my favorite genres.


Whut do u do when someone u really lykes tells u he lyks u but then gos behind ur back n tells otha ppl that he doesnt lyk u.. and other ppl r telling u thats hes playing u.. whut do i do?! (link)
Stay away from him if the people telling you this are trustworthy.




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