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Question Posted Saturday June 19 2004, 7:36 pm

what do i do when i feel like everytime i get down or upset or depressed sometimes for no reason that i wanna kill myself.. or hurt myself... what can i do for help? my friends help by keeping me from actually doing it but im tired of feeling like i should do it.. i use to cut but my friends stoped me from doing that... what should i do?

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advice525 answered Sunday June 20 2004, 5:50 pm:
You need some help so here i am to help. Now i have tried doing that and dont get me wrong but i through stuff and got hurt a little cause iwas so mad now think about other peoples lives think about homeless people you got it better just please dont hurt your self or talk to your parents or do somtin but dont hurt your self

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MapleAdvice11 answered Saturday June 19 2004, 11:30 pm:
You should tell someone you trust about how you're feeling so they can help you. You may need to go to a doctor for help, and believe me even though it's hard to go you'll feel better in the end.

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Short_N_Punky answered Saturday June 19 2004, 11:06 pm:
What you should do is go to a counseler or talk to your parents about it. I used to do the same thing then i started getting actual help for it and i know how you feel you feel like life isnt important, no one really cares, lifes just not worth taking this much pain no more. Yes if im right thats how i felt then i found out i actually had a depression problem. And whats wrong with you is nothing your probably just at that difficult stage in your life right now. Where you think when you get mad that life isnt worth it. But it is dont try it because if you actually succeed your dead you can never com e back. And just think of your family and friends that care about you no matter what. I hope i helped iif you need advice about it any more or have questions dont be afraid to write back.
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cr8zymonkeyluv07 answered Saturday June 19 2004, 10:59 pm:
Tell your parents, or, tell someone (an adult) who you can trust. You need to see a doctor. If you are depressed you should get medicine to help not feel like you want to kill yourself. I know it doesn't seem like the best advice, but trust me I've been there and medication is still really helping me. Hope I've helped some.

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takeitorleaveit answered Saturday June 19 2004, 10:45 pm:
first of all why are u so depressed that makes you think that way?? awswer me that and i will be able to help you a little bit more!!

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LykViolencUhavMe answered Saturday June 19 2004, 9:22 pm:
well wanting to hurt urself for bad things going on in ur life is, sadly, quite common. one reason some people do it is cause they feel like cutting or w/e will get rid of w/e other pain they have and it will distract them. and while in a way this is a good idea its not because harming urself is never a good idea. however maybe stabing a pillow or something instead could also relieve the same pain. just whenever u have the urge to hurt urself try doing something else that can express that pain w/ out inflicting it upon urself.

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Anubis989forlife answered Saturday June 19 2004, 9:11 pm:
well you sound right bout like my ex gf karen, to stop urself from "feeling" liek doing these things is kinda hard. best thing you can do or that helps me is listen to music that isnt depressing. like something fast, heavy, hard, and up beat.

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abby10 answered Saturday June 19 2004, 8:23 pm:
i think that u should talk to a school consaler......

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exyweetee99 answered Saturday June 19 2004, 8:08 pm:
BEEN THERE DONE THAT.WHEN I GET REALLY DEPRESSED I JUST MAKE MYSELF DO SOMETHIN ELSE CUZ I NO WHAT I'LL DO IF I DONT AND ITS HARD BUT I ALWAYS MAKE IT THRU.AND IF ALL THAT DONT WRK THEN THERES
LOTS OF DRS.TRY SOMETHIN LIKE THAT!;-)


JESSICA

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storageanddisposal answered Saturday June 19 2004, 7:49 pm:
I went through a similar phase. If you have no reason for being depressed, go see a psychiatrist to see if you need to taKE anything. If you are depressed because of something that happened, or a number of things that happened, then talk to someone about it. Talking to a close friend of mine about everything that bothered me helped a lot. It also helps to keep busy. Last summer I got a job, worked on music with my band, worked on some artwork, wrote a lot, and hung out with friends.

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isthatdisposable answered Saturday June 19 2004, 7:42 pm:
ahhh....yes I can definately relate! I get that way a lot. You need to talk to a counselor or someone who can help u deal with it. You need to realize people DO care about u apparrently cuz they had u stop cutting. you need to realize your a wonderful person. make a list of things u love about urself and things u need to change about urself and get to it! get help before its too late....

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