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This is for a project i am doing in a digital media program.okay we have all heard about anorexia and bulimia. But I am wondering if people get this way by magazine and television?SO can anybody give me thier opinion on how magazines and tv influence these things?Plus what is to big to you and what is too small(skinny) to you?sorry if anyone gets offended! (link)
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Well I am the perfect candidate for this question so I decided to give you an answer.
I have serious body issues and try limiting myself to eating once a day and making sure its just vegetables. That's what I limit myself to. And I can say that magazines and television have a HUGE impact on the way I feel about myself. Although it's not the reason I choose not to eat. But whenever I see a model or celebrity on tv or in a magazine it makes me feel horrible about myself and makes me wan to cry and it makes me stride to eat less that day if at all. I can't really tell you what "too fat" or "too skinny" is because I have a warped vision of myself and my answers wouldn't be accurate to everyone elses but I will let you know that I believe that there is no such thing as being too skinny and I guess that's why I feel the way I do. I am 5'8 and weight 120lbs and that's depressing to me. I hope this answer helped you.
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my boyfriend and i hooked up in his car. i was straddling him. i was wearing my school skirt and he was wearing his gym shorts. i was wearing my victoria secret pajama shorts under my shcool skirt and all of a sudden he was like oh shit! n there was this big sticky stain on his white shorts it was only pre-cum but my underwear/shorts were riding up my vagina because of the way i was sitting. so did any get in me? if it did is that enough to make someone pregnant? im not on bc and i havent gotten my period since last january so am i infertile? because i only get my period once a year. i've ever only gotten my period twice. once in jan 2009 and once in jan 2010. help me please! thanks (link)
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Ok pre cum does not contain sperm.... It is the same stuff that a man would ejaculate if he had a vasectomy. You won't get pregnant.
But I would be more concerned if it was actual cum and not pre cum. Pre cum is not white really, it's see through and has virtually no colour and not a lot comes out. So if there was a lot of it and it was white then I would be more concerned. But even if that happened, the chances of you getting pregnant are slim. That would be like if a guy maturbated in the shower (gross yes) and then I sat down to take a bath then I got pregnant. Not impossible but slim. Be careful next time and just make him wear a condom no matter what. I'm speaking from experience here because I have 3 kids and I got pregnant when I was 17 by not being careful enough.
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I heard that sperm can stay in your body for upp to 4 to 5 days . Me and my boyfriend had sex during the whole time my period was on and he came In me twice everyday . I was jus wordering was it a good chance that I can be pregnant ? Or are my chances slim to nun ? (link)
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It COULD happen...... But the chances are VERY VERY slim. That was th one time I would allow my boyfriend to do that too because I knew it was pretty safe. But there is always a tiny chance that it could happen. But I'd say your hances of winning the lottery are better. I'm not a doctor but I'm a mom with 3 kids and if it happened a lot I would probably have 20 kids by now. So don't worry!
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i'm 15 years old and my boyfriend and have been going out for 5 months now. we are now at the stage to start doing 'stuff' but i'm too embarrassed too because of my oversized labia. it is so disgusting and i want to find a way to shrink it. i know you might say that he won't notice it and if he does he won't care but all the guys at school talk about the over sized labias and call them 'granny flaps'. I'm not sure what to do, do i go ahead with it? or do i just refuse to do it? i really need some good advice. (link)
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I'm not going to tell you to just get over it and who cares, because I know what it's like to worry about the way you look all the time. But just let me tell you that when you're 15, little things are made to be a big deal. These "boys" don't know what they're talking about. They are only kids still and they clearly know nothing about women or sex. Your boyfriend has probably never or rarely ever seen a vagina before and I'm sure once he sees yours, he will be too excited to notice anything. When you are an adult, you will learn the men don't care about stupid things like that. Who's to say that a large labia is a bad thing? Them?!? They have no clue and they shouldn't be talking about it. In 5 years from now, half of those boys will have encountered much worse than a large labia.... There is nothing wrong with you. Some guys actually really like them. There are men out there who would like just about anything. Vaginas are vaginas and they are all pretty much the same. Your boyfriend will love it and he will be so psyched that you're letting him touch you and he will love you for it. Unless it's hanging down to your knees, then your fine! I'm sure he doesn't have a huge 9" penis.... So maybe he's afraid to let you see him too. Just lay back and enjoy your boyfriend and let him enjoy you. There's is nothing to worry about. I promise!! Good luck hun
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I know everyone is just going to say "eat!" but that's not what I need people to be telling me. I think I need serious help. I haven't been "starving" myself yet but I have begun to try to limit myself to only eating once a day to lose weight. I know that starving yourself is bad for u obviously but I'm so desperate at this point that I don't even care anymore. I'm not overweight I dontthink but I hate the way I look. I'm 5'8 and 120lbs. I can't look at myself in the mirror without wanting to cry and have found myself browsing through pro anorexia websites and pictures. I have nobody to talk to about this! What do I do? (link)
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I am the girl that originally asked this question and I want to first of all thank you all for your answers. But I would also like to clear a few things up. I realize that there are people out there that are handicapped or have an actual disease and I'm not trying to make it seem like I have it much worse than them. I know I don't. But it doesn't change the way I feel about myself no matter what anyone says. I have read about eating disorders and I know that they don't just come out of nowhere and that they are usually from an OCD disorder or anxiety or traumatic experiences. So I will let you all know so I can make it clear that I had a horrible childhood with my parents leaving me and my sisters home alone for days at a time when I was just 4 and my sisters were 6 and 9. My oldest sister (who I am very close to now) used to torment me an lock me in my room for hours and hours and she would verbally and physically abuse me. I understand that she was just a kid too and was taking on way more responsibilities than she should have had to and that's why I don't hold a grudge against her. She is now my best friend. We grew up with no food to eat most of the time and we would Starve while my mom went to work and ate there. I suffered from anxiety really bad since I was about 6 years old and used to think that everyone was trying to poison me. I have gotten over that obviously by now but I think it had a big impact on me. Then as I got older I met a guy and had two kids with him (I was only 18 when I had my first) and I watched his mom die from cancer right in front of my eyes which was also traumatic. He was verbally and sexually abusive to me and my children and I put up with that for 4 years. I won't go into details but it was hell. Then we broke up finally and I met another guy an we had a baby together and he started verbaly and physically abusing me. This went on for another 4 years until I finally escaped him. That was only 8 months ago and the guy I'm with now is amazing. He never asks me to change or lose weight. He always tells me how beautiful I am and how he loves every part of me. So I'm not trying to change for him. I dont even know who or what I'm changing for.... That is a question that I don't know the answer to. It must be for me. I have read all the problems that come with eating disorders and although it seems bad, I feel like I'm still willing to do it. If you asked me 6 years ago I would be the one saying that I could never starve myself and that I love food too much. But I don't know what changed or how it changed. I'm more concerned for my daughters picking up on these horrible habits and turning out like this some day. I want them to know they're beautiful and be happy with who they are but how can I say that when I'm not happy with me? It's a horrible situation and it just the beginning for me. I did eat healthy and exercise everyday and I'm just not getting the results that I want. I look in the mirror and I have a warped vision of myself. To the woman that said that she has been through this too, I just want to say thank you and that your words meant a lot to me. I don't want to feel this way. Nobody does. But it's something I just can't help now. I feel like I should go see a doctor before this gets out of hand but that also means that I won't lose weight. It's a lose lose situation for me. I will keep reading your answers and I thank all of you that truly understand and don't judge me.
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How do you dry hump
- anything you have ...tips, good positions anything would help thanks! (link)
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all i know is start out kissin then move to the vagina or penis area suck and or lick it
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My ex boyfriend Nick broke up with me last April. I was left completely heartbroken. One day he told me he didn't love me anymore, that I was too moody for him and he ended it. I was SO upset, I did so much for him.
I started hanging out with a guy called Kyle, who I'd met a few months before just as friends. Any way I ended up really falling in love with him. He knew things ended badly with my ex and he was really there for me. We started dating and everything was so great, my parents loved him and his parents loved me and more importantly we both loved each other. More to the point, Kyle started to question being together as the stress we'd both been under (it started effecting our relationship) I didn't give him much time to think it over, I pretty much ended it straight away.
Now my ex Nick is back on the scene... saying he misses me and that he hopes we can can work things out. Can I really trust him not to leave me broken hearted again? (link)
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No. He broke your heart the first time. Now don't judge all men like him. I think kyle was better for you but he most likely won't take you back. Nick probably got domped by the girl that he left you for. Thats why he's back, not because he loves you.
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Now that Thanksgiving has passed and most companies have their employees for the holidays. When will they be hiring again?? (link)
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well companies hire all the time. The Times when a lot of companies hire is usually:
1. just after the summer, as many employees (especially younger ones) may be leaving the town/city/state for college/university
2. for the Holidays, usually around Thanksgiving and Christmas.
Many companies may hire during smaller holidays. For example, a jewellers and restaurants may hire heavily around valentines. Bars may hire heavily around spring break, or St Patrick's day. Your best bet is just to have a few resumes to hand, and spend a day asking companies if they are hiring and handing them out.
Hope i helped :)
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I'm looking for an Advicenator here who has some basic knowledge in Philosophy and is also able to help me understand how a good, strong Philosophy essay should be constructed. I am in no way asking for you to do my homework, or to explain any philosophy to me. I am only in need for an explanation of how I should structure my essay.
If anyone is interested, it would be much appreciated, and I will provide more information in a private question.
Thank you! :) (link)
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i did philosophy at one time, barely passed, but did :)
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is their anyway to download films and such of tvdex. id rather download them and watch them than online. thanks any advice graciously awarded (link)
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You can download videos from TVDEX by getting their premium membership. You can also download the videos using the DownloadHelper plugin/addon for firefox.
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I went to Google, but it didn't help me as it gave me episodes and wikipedias. Is there any manga sites where they have Hetalia? On a site that's pretty good for a computer running on dial up? (I already checked boxmanga.net) (link)
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I think the best option would be OVGuide.com. Search "Hetalia", and it will show you all the websites that have Hetalia playing on the website.
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can you get pregnant if you swallow sperm? (link)
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No, No you cant.
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How much do you think would be a good down payment on a Jeep wrangler or a Jeep Rubicon. Preferably one with less then 80thousand miles. I live in the north eastern part if the united states, and I would like my payments to be below 350 dollars a month. I make around 320 dollars weekly and I get paid weekly, so how much would I need to save to put down on a car. I would like to get it by the end.of December.
Thank you.
Sorry if I misspelled so.ething or had incorrect punctuations I'm on my cell phone.
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Well the normal down payment is usually 10-20% of the cars value. This usually secures the car to prevent the seller selling it to someone else. So if your limit is 350, so that will be okay for a down payment for a car that's worth £1750-£3500. Alternatively, you can just ask the sell how much will secure the car. Also make sure you get a receipt. :)
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I really want to go to an anime convention but my mother won't let me.How can i convince her to let me go to one?(by the way im 14) (link)
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well it depends where it is. If its out of town, then its understandable. After all, you are pretty young. I suggest you ask if she, or another adult can come with you. Or if a bunch of your friends come along with you, maybe one of their parents, or an elder sibling can take you. If its in the same town, maybe you can ask if she can drop you off and pick you up. If you need any more advice, feel free to ask :)
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ok, i have two dogs, one is a puppy & she is 6 months old. i have another that is 3 years old. they still haven't played together yet.. can a dog trainer help me? i really hate to spend the money on one, if they aren't going to do much, or what they do is something that i could have simply done. especially since its like 100 dollars per 1 hour session :/ my vet told me to wait a few months, because the puppy is very small (3 pounds) and the other dog is 14 pounds. but everyone who has more then two dogs, is saying just to let them play. but i don't think my older one is very well socialized, and sometimes she looks like she wants to play with the little one, but then growls and jumps up on the couch like she is scared of her. what should i do. :( (link)
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im no dog trainer, but i have had a few dogs, and so i guess i have some life experience?
I personally would start by slowly introducing them together. for example, if you have dog cages for both, keep them in the same room while both in the dog cage. Then let the elder out, while the 3month old is still in the cage. This lets the elder observe the younger, yet the younger feels safe while still being in the cage. You could try holding the younger in your arms, while the elder sits beside you, but the problem of jealousy may occur. The changes are, that the elder has good intentions, but 6months is pretty young, and the world can be a huge place for a puppy- an elder scary bigger dog doesn't help. I would say that the best option would be to keep the elder on a lead (giving you full control) while the younger just runs around a little. Keep at this, for maybe an hour a day? or as much time as you have. this will slowly get them introduced to each other, and hopefully be a start of a beautiful friendship.
Also, maybe watch some dog based television shows? Its like, free dog training classes. For example, 'the dog whisperer', or 'its me or the dog'.
If you need anymore advice, feel free to ask. Hope i helped :)
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um i was just wondering what a prostituet is cos im aparently one and it doesnt sound very nice.
thanks
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also, am i a prostituet? (link)
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um, well a prostitUTE, is a female who sells her body for sexual acts.
so she may perform certain sexual acts such as blowjobs, handjobs, or sex, for money.
hope i helped?
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I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. I've never been with a guy this long, so I was wondering what kind of changes are normal when you've been with someone this long. It seems like the romantic and honeymoon stage is over. He doesn't say most of the sweet things he used to. He doesn't tell text me good night or good morning like before, or even text me very often. Is that normal? He used to talk about us being together in the future..like kids and a house. And he used to say how he wished we could live together and that he wants to spend all his time with me. But he doesnt tell me any of this anymore. Is this normal? What kinds of things changed in your relationship after a year? Thanks. (link)
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O Girl let me tell you this is a very prominent stage and it can be the last stage that you go through i suggest trying to add more spice to the relationship also just be the best you can be you are a good girl I can tell by the way you type! Be very aware of how he talks to u if hes voice is more snappy and smart that means something has changed about you that he does not like! If he voice seems more cocky and he seems like he thinks hes better then you then he (MIGHT) NOT feel the same about you!
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When my boyfriend gets mad he gets really really mad. He hits me and has choked me twice before. I don't think he'd actually kill me but he does leave a lot of bruises and I'm really tired of it. I can't talk to him about it because he's just going to get mad. I don't want to leave him because I love him with all my heart and soul. I'm just tired of having to hide bruises and cover them up with make up and clothing all the time when I go out of the house. We live together right now and I just don't know what to do. My friend has seen the bruises and got worried but I told her it's no big deal. It is a big deal. What do I do from here? how can I make my boyfriend stop hitting me? (link)
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You do love Him trust me I know I can feel it but you have to stop and ask yourself does he love you! There are so many women right now in your shoes that cannot walk away from this but you have that oppurtunity! EXAMPLE Muslim women they are abused and branded and treated like toatal animals do they love there husbands yeah Im sure they do and apparently till death does them part! I bet they would be happy to switch places with you and with that being stated just think about how serious this can get stastics show that this type of behavior is gained and can get worse in no time going from anger levels 7-20 in 3 days I suggest you get out of it before He does kill you But I suppose if you do love him! Cook breakfeast for Him! Get you some grits and when they start boiling like larva you throw them on him and you get somethig and beat his ass let him know you love him but you will not take his lashings honestly this may sound harsh or obscene but its better then getting hurt or even killed! If you dont wanna go to those limits I suggest getting a tazer and putting it to good use! Defend ur self God was a man of war! do what you have too!
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My boyfriends ex girl friend will sometimes text my boyfriend and tell him that she wishes things would have worked out differently in their relationship & that she misses him. She'll also tell him that he isn't truly happy with me & that he's just using me as a rebound. He won't change his number due to work reasons, and he keeps telling her that she needs to stop texting. This is really upsetting me because I dont want him to listen to her & start thinking that he really isnt happy with me & he'll take her back. He says that he would never do that to me & I believe him. Its just the fact... Should I confront her myself or leave it to him to handle? (link)
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Im usually not this frank but you need to confront her this type of stuff tends to get way out of line! Although He has free will weather to love you or not that does not mean to let him just slip right out of your life! My suggestions is to get his phone text her and have her meet him somewere for dinner or a date and instead of him showing up you both show up! If That doesent work take it to the dirt whoop her ass haha!
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If I have sex before marriage, even if it's with the man I love and no I will marry and spend the rest of my life with.. where would that leave me with god?
Hell?
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The key to that is asking for forgivness If God were to send us to hell for just that there would probally only be 23% of the world population left! Our god is a man of understanding Remember that! and always ask for forgiveness if you know you have done something wrong!
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