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what do with a crazy ex!
My boyfriends ex girl friend will sometimes text my boyfriend and tell him that she wishes things would have worked out differently in their relationship & that she misses him. She'll also tell him that he isn't truly happy with me & that he's just using me as a rebound. He won't change his number due to work reasons, and he keeps telling her that she needs to stop texting. This is really upsetting me because I dont want him to listen to her & start thinking that he really isnt happy with me & he'll take her back. He says that he would never do that to me & I believe him. Its just the fact... Should I confront her myself or leave it to him to handle?
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Im usually not this frank but you need to confront her this type of stuff tends to get way out of line! Although He has free will weather to love you or not that does not mean to let him just slip right out of your life! My suggestions is to get his phone text her and have her meet him somewere for dinner or a date and instead of him showing up you both show up! If That doesent work take it to the dirt whoop her ass haha!
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i think you should tell him how you feel just let it go and if you are the real deal then he will stand by you and you could both confrunt the girl and tell her together as a couple and she should see she is wasting her time and tell her to move on life is to short.
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Believe your boyfriend. Ask him to just ignore her and give him a hug or kiss. Dont let him see it bothers you
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listen if your boyfriend likes you then he wont go back to her. they broke up for a reason i would go up to her and do it nicely saying i dont think you should be texting my boyfreind it bothers us and if you need to text him itll have to be over homeowrk or something but otherwise you have no reason to. if she doesnt stop she probally wont then just ignore her because if you let shit get to you your relationship with your boyfriend will be down the drain before you know it ask him if he can just tell you when she textes you so its not a huge secret. you cant make him do what you want just remember that and stay cool and dont flip out on him always ask him first if you have questions.
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Isn't he able to block her calls and texts?
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Whatever you do, you should not be the one to confront her. Remember... what you want is to be the opposite of what she is. She crazy... you're sane and calm and calculated. That's why he likes you... you're not dramaville.
Check it. Ex girl is crazy because she's the one who's not snuggling up with someone right now. Breakups are usually a two way street so we'll never know the real reasons they broke up (two sides to every story) but he's obviously a nice guy or she wouldn't be trying to get him back.
Eventually she will have to stop. He of course needs to tell her to stop and that if you are a rebound, then only time will tell but she has to respect his wishes now.
And everytime that chick is calling or texting him, don't get mad, remember that she is driving another nail into her coffin of ex-ville population one and driving you two even closer together.
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He needs to handle it.
And it sounds like he is trying too. So give him the space and trust to do so. Remember that he is learning how to handle a crazy ex - it's not a skill you are born with. If he truly wants you, he'll figure out how to stop her, but it make take a little while for him to make it stick.
Your interference would only encourage her and give her more to talk about with him. Stay completely out of it.
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Well, it seems like your boyfriend definitly is trying to handle it. I would just try to forget about it and let him take care of it. You dont want to seem like the crazy possesive girlfriend type.
She likes him still, but he hasnt broken up with you yet, which leads me to believe he wont be breaking up with you for this girl any time soon.
If it gets any worse then you can approach her, but as long as all shes doing is texting him i would just leave it alone.
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