what is the hymen? where is it located in or on a womens body? and how do you pronounce hymen? plz help me 13/f/MD
The hymen is a thin piece of skin inside a woman's vagina. It is traditionally broken during sex, but nowadays it can be broken through the use of tampons, sports among other ways.
It is pronounced high-men.
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How often should I change my razor? I have the pink venus and I shave like 3 times a week. Four at teh most, 2 at the least. But in the winter, I only shave like once a week, sometimes two. So how often should I change it?
If you look at the bottom your venus razorblade, next to the actual blades there should be a dark blue strip. When that dark blue strip turns light blue then you need to change it. It usually takes a couple of months.
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What is chain smoking?
Chain smoking is smoking several cigarettes one after the other in quick succession, sometimes lighting the next cigarette with the end of the previous one.
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hey! i had sex for the first time last week. We were safe as i am on the pill and we used a condom. I was just wondering if i should go see the doctor now i have had sex? I heard i would need a smear test or something? also if i do need to go should i go straight away or can i wait?
thanks 15/f/uk
It's a good idea to have a smear test once you become sexually active, however a lot of girls wait for a couple of years until they do. As there is a very slim chance that you are pregnant or have caught an STD then it won't hurt to wait a while.
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whats a clit im so confused
'Clit' is short for clitoris. It is a small mound between a girl's vaginal lips (labia) that is made out of the same tissue that a penis would be made out of had she been a boy. Most girls masturbate by rubbing the clitoris because it has the same amount of nerve endings as in a penis, making it very sensitive to the touch. It is the only part of the human body that has no real purpose.
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Is it better for a guy to have a circumsised penis or non circumsised penis?
What is the difference?
and how do they benifit from a circumsised penis?
Thanks
It is generally more hygenic to have a circumsised penis because smegma tends to build up in the foreskin. Some people get circumsised for religious reasons but others are circumsised purely for hygene reasons. Generally, it's better to be circumsised but it doesn't really matter if you aren't or don't want to.
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Why is it always me that ends up with the no girlfriend at the end of the year I am 14/m and I am in a wheelchair and not sure if that is the problem or what but it has always seemed I end up not with the girlfriend and don't get me wrong I have had them but the last one I had was going on for 6 monthes but she just left me for one of my best friends and it was like a shocker to me and I just went into a deep depression
I know how it feels to be single when everyone else has a boyfriend/girlfriend and I know it sucks. I hate to say this but the fact that you are in a wheelchair might be one of the main reason because a lot of girls tend to be shallow. But what you have to remember is that there are lovely, non-judgemental girls out there who will want you for who you are.
You've already had one girlfriend, which just proves that people do find you attractive and want to be with you. It's horrible that she left you, but what will be will be. One day you'll find someone perfect for you who won't hurt you.
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I'm thinking about going on the Birth Control Pill. I'm not sexually active but my periods are irregular.. and I may begin to be sexually active in the near future. I just have a few questions about it.
-How do I "bring it up" with my doctor?
-Does it actually help make your periods regular, and make your cramps not hurt as much?
-How effective is it against pregnancy?
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We're doing contraception at school right now and I read a leaflet about the pill last week so I've got lots of information fresh in my memory.
It's easy to bring it up with your doctor. Just make an appointment and tell the doctor you'd like to discuss birth control. You have to remember that doctors are used to it and that they'd seen everything, they're officially unembarassable. It's nothing to worry about.
It usually makes your periods lighter, less painful and more regular. However there can be a few side effects and your doctor will be happy to discuss these with you. There are other types of birth control and your doctor can help you choose which is best for you if you don't like the sound of the pill.
It's 99% effective against pregnancy and is the most foolproof method of birth control. However there is always a tiny chance, and alot of people use it with condoms to protect from STDs and to give extra protection against pregnancy.
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my boyfriend is 3 years older than me!! our parents are okay with it
but is it really okay or baaaad having a boyfriend three years older than you??
I think that as long as your parents are okay with it and the guy is trustworthy and decent, and doesn't try and force you into anything, then it's fine. Often older boyfriends can be bad news because they may try and do things that you're not ready for, but if that's not a problem then I don't see why it's bad.
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what exactly is an orgasm and how do you know when you are having one? also are they hard to get or do they come easily during sex?
An orgasm is the peak of sexual excitement where your muscles contract and you feel a wave of pleasure. Most people experience their first orgasm through masturbation and you definitely know when you're having one. Usually guys find it easy to orgasm during sex, but girls sometimes find it more difficult as most find it hard to orgasm without their clitoris being stimulated.
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Which do you prefer, iPod or MP3 Players?
I have an iPod Mini but I wish I'd got a good MP3 player instead. iPods are bad value for money and often break, so I'd go for an MP3.
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I am 18 and my girlfreind is 13 but will be 14 in 2 weeks. We have tried to have sex on a nuber of times but my problem is after pettin and stuff as son as she touches my penis i cum. We have been unable to even try to get to putting it in becsue it cums right away how can i stop this from happening
You shouldn't even be attempting to sleep with her if she's only 13 and I can only hope that you're using contraception and staying safe.
Your problem is normal. I suggest you correct it by masturbating then stopping right before you orgasm. Do this a number of times and eventually it should take longer before you orgasm.
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Well, you see, I'm really scared about IT. You know, the category. I mean, I don't know why?
I'm going to assume that by 'IT' you mean sex.
It's completely natural to be scared about it. It does seem a very scary prospect but it's similar to your first kiss, before you do it you get scared and worry that you'll do something wrong or whatever but afterwards you'll wonder what you were scared of. You're probably finding it scary right now because you're not ready for sex. When you are ready, you've sorted out contraception and you trust the other person involved then it won't seem half as scary.
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What are the odds somebody gets pregnant if you use a condom and shes on birth control?
It's very unlikely but of course there's still a tiny chance. Condoms are about 97% effective and pills 99%, so the chance is literally like 0.something%. I wouldn't worry about it.
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I am a guy and would like to know which is better shaving my downthere and legs underarms etc. Or waxing my body parts. I am a crossdresser and want to be hair free. Also would a salon wax a guy in theses areas
I also crossdress in really girly clothes from the inside out panties bra everything. I am really shy and really submmisive to girls if a girl orders me to do something i do it even if it is something they want to laugh at me about as it humiliates me. I still do what she says cause she is the boss . I am not sure why i let girls make fun off me
If you want to remove large amounts of hair I'd say that waxing is definitely the way to go. It lasts longer, is easier and prevents razor burn etc. Salons will wax anyone anywhere, so the fact that you're a guy shouldn't be a problem.
The reason why you let girls humiliate you is probably because you're insecure. The only thing I can suggest to improve things is to stand up for yourself. Don't do what girls tell you to all the time and turn the situation around. Also, try and do things to improve your self confidence.
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All my friends told me their boobs got bigger after having sex for the first time.. and mine did too... dramatically... once a b. now at a comfortable C. but i am worried that i am pregnant because that is also a sign of pregnancy... what do i do because i really can NOT get pregnant just because of the life i carry on..
~so worried~
I've never heard of boobs getting bigger after sex and it's probably just puberty. If you're worried about being pregnant then it's probably best that you take a pregnancy test. If it turns out that you are pregnant then there are people who can help you figure out what to do.
Good luck.
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stupid questions but many people write xoxo under there names . what does that mean?
'X' stands for 'kiss' and 'O' stands for hug. So when people write 'xoxo' it means 'kiss hug kiss hug'.
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Can you shave your legs using soap and will it give you razor burn?
You can but it probably will give you razor burn. My best advice is to shave with lotion. It's much better than anything else I've shaved with, including shaving foam, and it always leaves smooth, razor burn free skin afterwards.
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i am not pregnant, but i havent had my period since february, and before then i didnt have it since september, whats wrong with meeee?! HELP
When you're going through puberty it is completely normal to have irregular periods. It's common to get a period then to not have another for several months. As you grow up, your periods should even out and become more regular but some people are always irregular and that's nothing to worry about.
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Is it possible to have a STD if your a virgin?
Yes. You can be born with an STD if one of your parents has one and you can also contract them through other forms of sex such as oral. That's why it's always important to use a condom during oral sex unless you and your partner(s) have been tested.
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