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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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Hi, My name is Brittany well i wanna have sex with my bf he is so omg cute when ever i see him i feel nervous and i feel like ima have an orgasm just from looking at him and we spend a lot of time togehter alone cause no ones home or is sick and we kissed once but it was on accident and i wish it wasn't and whenever he just pokes me i wanna jump on him and rade though his parade and omg like i belive in marriage before sex.what should i do before i reveal myself in so many new ways to him.

Please i need advice fast!

Don't do it.

You're way too young, he'll use you & it'll completely change your relationship with him. Chances are you could get pregnant, or develop an STD or acquire the AIDS virus. I definitely suggest you don't do it.

Sex is an act that only adults should be doing. You are a child & you are not as ready for sex as you think you are. You are mostly hormones right now, and that is no good.

Wait until you're married. That's what you believe in, so stick it. Guys like girls with morals.

what is the best non painful way to commit suicide?

We honestly cannot give you that type of advice. No one here will tell you how to commit suicide, whether it's painless or not.

I think if you have a problem, you need to talk to someone about it. Suicide is very much not the answer. It may seem like a solution, but it's not. It's a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

I suggest you get some therapy. Talking about your problem & being able to find a solution will definitely help you. Suicide won't.

which std's does a condom NOT prevent?

http://www.fda.gov/ForConsumers/byAudience/ForPatientAdvocates/HIVandAIDSActivities/ucm126372.htm

I was just wondering were dragons ever real? Ha I was just thinking about that and I just wondered because I've never heard of scientists digging up dragon bones or something ha.

Dragons are mythical creatures.

Keyword in that sentence is: mythical.

So, was Michael Jackson's death ruled as a murder or what? I'm curious because some people at work were saying how they just KNEW Michael Jackson's doctor, Dr. Conrad Murray,killed him. I didn't know if they actually had an official ruling or not...anybody know?

RIP Michael Jackson (August 29, 1958 – June 25, 2009)

No. It's been ruled as a homicide. I'm pretty sure Dr. Conrad Murray is a suspect but he hasn't been charged with anything.

how did he die?

The media says it's a drug overdose as of right now. I'm thinking it's suicide though. DJ AM had a very ridiculous life & was a recovering drug addict who had very high chances of relapsing.

what happened to this show exactaly? I heard somebody on it killed someone, but does anyone know for sure? and why isnt it airing anymore?

Ryan Jenkins (one of the millionaires) was accused of murdering model Jasmine Fiore. He removed her teeth & fingers so the police could not identify her. They used the ID # from her silicone implants to make the identity. She was found naked, & folded in a suitcase. Her Mercedes vehicle was missing, but was found.

Ryan however disappeared to Canada and was found hanging in his hotel room. It has been officially canceled I believe, and they are in talks about whether or not to show I Love Money 3.

If a girl has sex with a guy who has hiv/aids, and he uses a condom and does not even ejaculate at all, can she still contract the disease?

Yes. It's a very slim chance it'll happen, but it's still there. Condoms can break, expire, have holes in them, etc. A lot of things can happen so remember that there is no full coverage when it comes to that type of thing.

The best way to not contract the virus is to either stay abstinent, or do not have sex with someone that has it.

Does anyone know where I could find a licensed nail technician for my sweet 16? I live in New York. I really need one. I checked craigslist and so did my mom. All we seem to find is Spa stuff. And all I want is someone who would just do nails (painting them)! No spa. Does anyone know where I could find somewhere that would only do nails and not the whole spa things? Just please help if you can. Thankyou.

You can go into a spa & only get your nails painted. You don't need to have any other treatments if you don't want them. They only do what you're paying them for.

so i really want to have sex. i have never done it so it would be my first time, but i dotn know what to do. like what are the steps of what you do or idk.
help me please?!
:)

I suggest you stick with abstinence. You know nothing about sex, therefore you're not qualified to participate in it.

It'd be a bad idea. Your side profile also says you're 13. Stick to cheerleading & slumber parties.

is it technically african asia europe or a little bit of all three? What is the Official oppinion?

I'm gonna have to say it's Asia & parts of Africa.

OUT OF THESE TWO GIRLS [CHOICE A & B] WHICH ONE IS OVERALL MORE ATTRACTIVE AND WHY? THANK YOU!

CHOICE A:
http://i30.tinypic.com/kyv5e.jpg
http://i31.tinypic.com/2nkuut1.jpg

OR

CHOICE B:
http://i28.tinypic.com/11bn0ci.jpg
http://i26.tinypic.com/20fqqaa.jpg

Choice B.

Because you're asking me to pick a choice based on looks, and choice B is prettier.

i had this big on this really cute guy but then he said he did'nt like me but he acts like infront of everbody he says were just freind on a school trip that i am going on i am in the same room should i have sex

No. You shouldn't have sex.

He doesn't like you, and he told you he didn't like you, so you need to leave it alone.

If you have sex with him, you're going to regret it & he is going to use you. Please quit while you are ahead.

I'm looking for the best Verizon phone, based on your opinions. I've had the Chocolate 2 for three years now, and I'm done with it. I do not want the Chocolate 3 as my mom had many problems with it. Which phone do you recommend as the best buy?

I wouldn't exactly recommend the Chocolate 3 because you said your mom was having problems with it. My aunt got the Chocolate when it first came out & she hated it.

Verizon has a lot of nice phones. I would definitely recommend the EnV phones. There are different ones, and they're all very nice. I have friends that have them & love them.

I would also recommend the Voyager. This is a really nice phone too, so you may wanna try that. There's also the Versa, the Dare & the Blackberry. Why don't you look through the Verizon site & see what you find?

www.verizon.com

Click 'Wireless' & type in your zip-code. :) It'll let you know what phones the stores in your zip code are carrying.

how do you do it? I mean what are you exactly supposed to do with your tongue? And what does it taste like....Detail would be very appreciated, and tips too

We can't give to detail on how to give oral, so I'll just refer you to Google.

i just came on here to be assured by somebody. i know the way to *not* get pregnant is abstinence, but that's not the point.

anyway, i'm sexually active. he pulls out before he cums (while wearing protection) and then after he does, he always offers to check for holes - by looking then *blowing* into it, like a balloon. this is very sweet, i just wanna add :]

so yeah, basically, i just wanted assurance from a stranger saying it sounded pretty safe. i get nervous with things like this. thanks.. :]

If he's wearing a condom, there's still a chance to get pregnant. It's very small, but there's a chance.

But, I think you should be okay.

16/f
alright. yeah i have a boyfriend, yeah im pregnant (you cant tell still).

buuuut, theres this real cute girl that goes to my school. shes a 'dyke' if you call people that. but anyways, i really wanna get to know her but everytime i wanna talk to her i get nervous. i dont wanna hook up or date her but i just wanna be her friend but i get sooo nervous since shes so cute when i wanna try to be her friend.

what are some good ways to not get all nervous ? thanks

Just say hi to her. I'm sure she'll say hi back. Just talk to her. :)

And just so you know, you definitely do not call people dykes. Especially lesbians, it's very insulting.

why do men like a woman to put her finger in his ass while having sex

I can tell you that not all guys like that. My boyfriend certainly would not enjoy it.

However, the guys that do like it either:

A. Think it feels good.
B. Like that it's kinky.
Or
C. Both.

Not every guy likes it though.

i hav a 16 yrold daughter who has been living with me for 2 mth,and she tells me last nite she is 5 months preg.she is a below average student,with out a plan for the future.she wants to keep the baby and i am against it,i have told her my reason.i also told her she cant live with me with a baby.was i to hard on her?

While I agree with the your house, your rules thing, I don't think you'd be right to kick her out. She is too far in to have an abortion, but she can give it up for adoption. So yeah, you were a little hard on her.

I don't like assuming, but I'm going to have to with this one. Did you by chance tell her NEGATIVELY that she is out if she keeps it or did you tell her calmly? If you told her negatively, chances are she is going to disobey you because for one, you're screaming at her and not listening to her side.

You need to sit her down calmly & explain anything you think you need to say, and let her know how you feel. Chances are, if you tell her calmly what's up & then listen what she has to say without screaming at her, she'll be more likely to listen to you & see your side.

I think you need to re-think this whole thing though. I understand that your daughter has not made a smart decision with unprotected sex & whatnot, but you cannot penalize the baby for your daughter's mistake. The baby is not at fault & kicking your daughter out would also put the baby out onto the streets. Is that something you want for someone who's innocent? Maybe there is a way that if she cannot/will not give the baby up for adoption that you could help her raise it? I know you're not entitled to because it's not your doing, but I think at least trying to help her (but not doing everything for her) will make things a little better.

Also, do not assume that just because your daughter is slacking in school that she is not going to make it in life. I was the same way your daughter was (except I wasn't going out & getting myself pregnant), and I've completely turned my life around. So, it is possible for her to turn her life around & shock you - do not doubt her. I know the chances are slim, but there's always that possibility.

19 yrs old/female.

my best guy friend and his girlfriend of almost 3 years broke it off about a month ago or so. i feel so bad for him though because he want's to have fun, live the single life with no worries. but everytime a girl gets close to him or hangs out with him, his ex girlfriend FREAKS out on the girl.

and one time me and him were watching the movie obsessed with beyonce in it and he was like now you know what i have to go through! and i feel so bad for him because he doesnt have a mean body in his bone and for him to be like "hey listen, we're just friends, i can hang out with who i want" or something of that is something he would never do.

how can i help him? can i even? i feel so bad for him!

I don't think it's really your place to help him. Reading this made me feel bad for him too.

Honestly, I think if you feel the need to help, I'd ask him first. Don't just say anything to her without his permission because it'll cause you to get mad at him. My boyfriend dealt with a girl who would yell at his friends (behind his back) if they said something mean to him while she was around. He HATED it.

Ask first & if he says you can, then go for it. But if he says no, respect his decision because doing it behind his back could hurt your friendship.

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