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she won't give him a break!
19 yrs old/female.
my best guy friend and his girlfriend of almost 3 years broke it off about a month ago or so. i feel so bad for him though because he want's to have fun, live the single life with no worries. but everytime a girl gets close to him or hangs out with him, his ex girlfriend FREAKS out on the girl.
and one time me and him were watching the movie obsessed with beyonce in it and he was like now you know what i have to go through! and i feel so bad for him because he doesnt have a mean body in his bone and for him to be like "hey listen, we're just friends, i can hang out with who i want" or something of that is something he would never do.
how can i help him? can i even? i feel so bad for him!
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its really mean the way shes treating him..why did they break up?sounds like shes still inlove with him and sounds like hes still inlove with her and under her spell. she needs to know that shes hurting him like this! watever you do dont get invloved because shell manipulate him to stop liking you then your friendship will be broken. thats how it starts!..you need to talk to him and try and make him snap out of her brainwash..whats happening will only ruin him moving on is the best way. tell him how you feel and just let him know that your not attacjking him or want to pick a fight you just care for him and his feelings. dont tell him what to do just suggest it and be really understanding because he probibly wants you to understand him rather than try and make him stop listening to his ex..he probibly doesnt want to let go of her just yet so before you talk to him makesure hes still not hung up on her too much
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I don't think it's really your place to help him. Reading this made me feel bad for him too.
Honestly, I think if you feel the need to help, I'd ask him first. Don't just say anything to her without his permission because it'll cause you to get mad at him. My boyfriend dealt with a girl who would yell at his friends (behind his back) if they said something mean to him while she was around. He HATED it.
Ask first & if he says you can, then go for it. But if he says no, respect his decision because doing it behind his back could hurt your friendship.
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