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Q: ok im a girl and i get turned on very easily i guess because anytime i guy touches me in the right way or kisses me or sometimes holds my hand i get really wet "down there".. is that normal for girls to get really wet at the smallest things an to even get wet?!

perfectly normal no need for worrying-trix

Q: Im 13 years old. A lot of the other girls have boy friends and all but ofcourse i dont. ive never even had a first kiss or went on a date with a boy. Its not like im ugly because im not really. i just dont know...it just feels like that time is never going to come??..

Your only 13 give it time and going on dates? I wouldnt worry with that to much I didnt really start until i was 14. And A date isnt really a date until the guy picks u up. Otherwords.. i havent been on one yet just be greatful you dont have to go thru the pain of loving!-trix

Q: hey guys! um me and my twin sister got a postcard in the mail for barbazion modeling. it said that there were open call auditions. i was just wondering if anyone knew anything about it. like how much does it cost? do you need any experience? so, if you know anything ,please help me! thanx! (p.s. i went on their website, but i couldnt find anything!) thanx!

I got that I actually got to of them. One under my moms last name and one under my step dads last name. If its pink bordering and has a girl on it its the same thing as mine. Its fake dont bother. -trixxie

Q: well im goin out with this guy my mom hates and i mean she really hates him.... and she wants me to stop seeing him but i told her no and i got into this big fight with my mom but i really like this guy but my mom thinks hes not right for me.......what should i do??? ive already tired telling her how i feel about this guy but she wont listen

She needs to understand that there will be alot of guys out there that arent right for you and thats how you are going to find out who is right for you by dating around. simple as that and everyone knows that and if they dont then they should-trix

Q: Hey I'm going to New York for my birthday and I want to go shopping there...does anyone know what the good stores are there? Also, I want to go vintage shopping there, but I don't want to spend a fortune..anyone know some good shops there?

I used to live there. Its not like shops its just pretty much random stores up and down the street. You will find bad and good deals here and there you just have to know where to look-trix

Q: my bestfriend always calls me fat and everyone else tells me im not she is just jelouse what can i do to make her quite callen me fat it really bothers me?

shaiina

just tell her shaiina that is all you can do you just got to talk to her about it and let her know that it hurts you and that you dont want her to call you fat because that really damage someone-trix

Q: hey um i was looking at exploretalent.com cuz i want to be an actress and i've had training and stuff. but i dont know if i should have signed up. does anyone know like how often do they call?(if they call at all)thanx!

I dont know much but i'll give that place a shot. If they are making you pay then its hox or w/e its fake. -trix

Q: Lately my hair has been extremely dry. I don't know wether its that I straighten it everyday or that I wash my hair everyday. Are there any products that your suggest to make my hair not dry?

I know this might sound gross.. but just dont wash your hair for 2 days.. skip 2 days without just put it in a hair thingie then get in the shower. Your hair will be soo muc healthier. Make sure you use pantene to. Also straightning it can damage it-trix

Q: hey, i don't exactly want to go into "modeling"...i'm definitley not tall enough, skinny enough, whatever. but i mean...i want to do something with acting i guess. any agencys you know of near washington dc...like how do i get started?

john casablanca

Q: ok well i have had a huge crush on this guy, let's call him bob, for awhile now. i have told him this-anonymously- but i can't get myself to talk to him. i tend to be shy around guys, but i'm definitely not hideous looking either. i don't know what to do. any advice??

I would slip a note into his locker and make sure its the right locker. but just tell him tru a note because that would be so much easier to do it that way rather then in person because that would take some major courage!!-trix

Q: i have this friend who is so selfish. she told me that if i went out with his guy named matt that shed hate me more then her friend olivia. i really like her as a frind..but i want your opinion..thanx

I would just talk to her about it and ask her whats the big deal with this guy named matt and see what she holds against him and if she doesnt give a good enough reason then let her know that you will go out with him if you want to and if things work out you'd like her to be there to help you thru it and support you. Unless she gives you a reason otherwords-trix

Q: OK, I have been on Weight Watchers and I got down to 125 pounds. Well, on Sunday I splurged a bit because I went to the city and I had chinese food and today I went over my points a bit and had a grilled cheese sandwich..alright, well...now I'm 130 pounds. What's up with THIS?! how can i magically gain 5 pounds in 3 days. Is this just a trick of the scale?

Well just work it off the same way you did with the other pounds you lost and you will be just fine trust me. Im sure the scale is telling the truth but just keep working at it-trix

Q: ok well i had a dream and here it is fro all you dream interpretors...:
ok so theres this guy i made out with once and he was sitting next to another guy thats nice (but i dont like him) and i gave this other guy a hicky... but i dont like this guy socould it be that im trying to make the other one jealous? hmm... i rate 5s

Interesting. I would go to www.bored.com and look on there because there is something in there for dreams that you can look at and see what they mean. I think its possibly true that you might be trying to make the other one jealous or that you might have feelings for that guy and not know it because surprisingly that happans... SHOCKING.. haha i know-trix

Q: they guy i like told me that he likes this girl named Kelsea. Kelsea is a slut and she stuffs her bra and flirts 24/7 with guys AND girls... how can i get him to like me and not her?

Uh I wouldnt bother with him. Just try to move on no matter how hard it may be but if you want to make him like you more just talk to him flirt with him and fool around with him-trix

Q: does anyone have any suggestions of what i should get my boyfriend for a valentines day gift. i have no clue..!! :( when it comes to guys and gifts.. well this isnt a good topic for me!! lol!! thanx i will rate all 5's if u actually put some effort into it.. lols!! thanks a bunch!! I REALLY NEED HELP DECIDING!!

good smelling cologne. Box of chocolates. Anything really. If it comes from you he'll like it-trix

Q: ok well my boyfriend Matt asked me to sneak out at like 1:00am to go to his house because his brother is having a party and his parents are not home. Well i dont no if i should cuz i might get busted cuz its sortof a school tomarrow (delayed opening) . But i really do want to go withim! Plez help!!

p.s im 14

I would. But that is just me if you feel like you shouldnt then dont just say you dont feel good or something and maybe another night. If you want to go but dont want to sneak out just stay at a friends house and both of you sneak out or just say you are staying at a friends house-trix

Q: Hey. Umm well I just started cutting and I don't want to cut my wrists because people will see the marks but where else would you suggest??

dont cut yourself!! Get help-trix

Q: i am sort of stuck in the middle. my mom lives in michigan and i live with my dad in california and now that its getting time to go to college i choose 2 really good schools from both states and applied to them and surprizing enough i got into all four ... no problem right wrong i have friends in both states each wanting me to go to the college in their state and i dont want to make anyone feel bad and say NO im not going but im still a little unsure about what i should say to them beccause i dont want to hurt their feelings ???

Well whatever offers you the best then go to that college and just explain that you want whats the best to offer. You need to make sure you get a good college deal. -trix

Q: there was this website that asked you how much you weigh and how tall you were, it told you how much calories ur body burns naturally each day. lol i forgot what site it was, does anyone know? I'll rate 5's

Thanks

Body Mass Index. Also BMI. I did that and it was pretty accurate. If you want to actually make sure its correct to go the GNC. They have a machine there and it works pretty well-trix

Q: Okay....me and my x have been broken up and not talking for about 7 months now....i called him on his b-day and pranked him a few times recently...should i call him and start chatting with him and then be like remember me....I'm your ex and try to get a friendship back up or should i just leave him alone??

I would just leave it be. I call My x bf sometimes like every other 2 months but that is about it and just see how things are going. I wouldnt do that if me and him werent serious when we went out. If you 2 were serious then I think you should-trixx

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"