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What are some good songs to sing as a solo and without accompaniment besides "The Star-Spangled Banner"? (link)
Rain on my parade is a fun one to sing!


this guy really likes me and hes asked me out about 7 times. i dont really know what to do cause he reallt likes me but i dont think i like him. :/ wat should i do to tell him? plz anwser QUICK cause he just asked me out AGAIN!!! (link)
Tell him that your not intrested. But be gentle. You've probably told him no by now, but if he asks in the future, tell him that you think he's really nice but you just don't like him like that and just want to be friends. He should get the point sooner or later.
Good luck!


how do you find out the model number of a dell computer? and also the service tag number? thanks (link)
go to the dell website, which i beleive is www.dell.com
I could be wrong
See if they have a number that you can call to ask questions, they'll know exactly how to answer your questoin.


What can you put on your skin to make it softer?
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Moisterizer and lotion. You can get a body wash that exfoliates your skin. When you get out of the shower..put lotion on. Any lotion is good. Either Aveno or St.Ives. Mostly all the lotion works.
Good luck!
xoxo


How do you know if someone is a true friend? (link)
you know if someones a true friend if they're always there for you and if you need a shoulder to cry on, they'll be there to let you have a shoulder to cry on..a friend isn't a true friend if he/she talks shit behind your back.


I use this lip plumper from bath and body works.

http://www.bathandbodyworks.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2109839&cp&pg=2&origkw=Patricia+Wexler+M.D.&kw=patricia+wexler+m.d.&parentPage=search

The last two times i have bought it i only had to pay five dollars. I wen in there the other day and the raised it back up to 16$. I love this stuff But there is no way im paying 16$ for it.

Is there any other Lip PLumpers out there that work & are cheapish Like less then $10.

Thank you:) (link)
try the mall..that would be my best guess..wal*mart most likely doesn't see that..but they might..not to sure but the mall most likely would
good luck


which colour eye shadows suit green eyes? (link)
Brown..sheer pink almost like a rose color.


Can you please recommened places I can look for a job? (link)
it all depends on what your looking for..these are jobs that most teens work at n its a good place to start..to work at something big you have to start off little
stop & shop
mc donalds
Burger king
sears
a mall around you
dunkin donuts
bakers dozen
those are some jobs to a good start they pay minimum wage but it gets you off to a good start


This is long so be prepared...

I'm 13/f and I'm having trouble with my body image. I used to be overweight (about 2 years ago) but then my mom helped me get into a better diet and now I'm not SO overweight and fat. Over the past few months I've been starting to eat sweets here and there but I'm still exercising a lot. The feeling of "Oh my gosh I've gotten so fat" suddenly came on in the past month. I have even gained weight and I'm really, really close to being over weight according to the weight chart. I will admit that I'm one of those girls who says "I'm fat" in front of my friends and especially my mom and expect to hear "oh no you're not." So when I said "I've gained a lot of weight!!! GOSH I'm starting to get so fat again..." to my mom she didn't say anything like "you're over reacting...you look just fine." She simply said "well, you're going to have to work on that." I was shocked =O I couldn't believe that even she had started to notice (and in a way agreed with me) and now I'm starting to wonder if other people notice. So...I got really depressed about it...and said to myself "if I could just be skinny I'd feel so much better about myself..." I hate thinking that the only way to get thin is to just not eat. I also realize I'm putting how I LOOK in front of my HEALTH and it's bothering me that I am ignoring what becoming a semi-anorexic would do to my health. I'm not exactly "huge" but I do have plenty of extra pounds I want to get rid of. At the moment I'm really upset because I don't know what to do. When I talked to my mom she just said "well, you need to get back into eating healthy" but I am and it ISN'T WORKING. She also says "You are also over reacting about becoming anorexic. you're being such a drama queen." HELLO! I'M SERIOUS HERE!! and i don't plan on becoming skin and bones. I really need some advice on what to do...I'm worrying myself by the way I'm thinking! =[ (link)
If your mom says you look perfectly fine i wouldn't worry about anything, but to become skinnier just eat lost of fruits n veggies and excersize at least 3 days a week..eat a good breakfast..its the most important meal of the day..it gets your motabulism (dont know if i spelled that right) going faster. Some people have a slower motabulism than others which causes weight gain..i wouldn't worry about what other people think about you. in any of your free time do sit ups or crunches and push ups and make sure you get tons of sleep
hope everything works out great


ok well i just woke up and i cant get the fact out of my head that i me me! is are might be in love or im just like crazy i dont know the difference.?! well lastnight i had a dream he was in it! he was iin my school and we would hang all lthe time there was on part where we like cuddled and i loved it it fellt soooo rite i know i wrote like am i in love b4 but is this reaelly showing that i love him when i can get him out of my head shoud i ask him if he loves me back should isay i love him??? just so you know that we tell eachother everything like if we were acting weird lets say he and i would tell eachother! so am i rreally in love i mean when you cant get them out of your head and wake up at 6 iin the summer time i didnt have to either! so am i i n love or just crazy about him? there is a dif. between those! (link)
by the way it sounds you are in love..i've been with my bf for 14 months and everytime we talk i get butterflys in my stomach..and you know your in love if he's always on your mind and you cant stop thinking about him and if you get butterflys if you talk to him



this summer i want to read a bit more. (about 15+ books.) so far, the only book i have is TWiNS by William Morrow.
anymore books? thxxx much (link)
You could try:
A Million Little Pieces - James Frey
the Gossip Girl series - Cecily von Ziegesar
Summer Boys series - Hailey Abbott
The Earth, My Butt, and Other Big Round Things - Carolyn Mackler
The Year of Secret Assignments - Jaclyn Moriarty


well theres this girl and she said she wants to kill me. what do i do. im scared he means it. HELPPPP!! we really arent friends but idk if she was jk or is serious. ive heard stoires like this b4 where people dont take it seriously then like, get killed. what do i do? (we are 13) (link)
idoubt she'll kill you. you should ask her friends if she says that a lot(like, me, im always like "omg, if you do that i am going to stab you" but i dont mean it) so find out from her other friends if she was serious. *also, did she just say that randomly, because if so, that is realy wierd


when you lose 5-6 pounds you dont really notice it do you?

*i weighed myself today cuz im dieting and trying to lose weight but i noticed i was 5-6 pounds lighter but i dont look it at least i think* so do you think you should see a difference? (link)
i dont think losing 5-6 pounds is very noticeable. normally under 10 you dont notice too much


how do i put the backgrounds that advicenators has to offer onto my column? (link)
you go to the pictueres, and right click them, and find the address/url. you copy that, and put it in you profile settings


Well my knee hasnt been like acting right. If i keep it in place for a long time and move it, it feels like a pulled a muscle and hurts a lot! Or if im squating and come up it hurt really bad. And like I'd be laying on the floor on my back. with my legs in the air. and i'd make my legs straight and then bend the over to see the difference in my knees. and the sore one like cracks after a while.

Does anyone know what might be wrong? (link)
yea i have that. my knees are very weak, and ttheyll randomly crack. you HAVE to go see a doctor, and they will give you excersizes, because all that it is, is while you are growing, your knees got too much pressure on them.


Hey what is spooning? (link)
when one personal cuddles the other but like tightly. think of grinding but laying down


ok i'm 14/f and im 5'5 and i weigh like 110 pounds. am i like fat for my age? be honest. and dont say that its whatever i feel comfortable with or muscle weighs more than fat. i do gymnastics but only like once a week but i practice on my trampoline a lot so i do have muscular arms and some muscle in my legs.

thanks (link)
thats a good weight because 5'5 is on the tallish side. stay like that


what are some dream sites that explain what your dreams mean? (link)
There might be. Go to yahoo or google and type in like dream translator. If you can't find anything i know there are books at like boarders or barns and noble, i've read them before.
Good luck ;)


I started my period on the 6th of July, a Thursday, and everything seemed normal, red blood. Then on the Sunday, as instructed by my doctor, I started my birth control pills (for the first time). Since then, my period blood is dark brown, almost black? And I doubt it is just dried blood, seeing as when I wipe, the fresh flowing blood is the exact same colour. What's going on? Is it related to the birth control pills? If it helps, I still have my period at the moment, and it's showing no signs of stopping, and I'm 15 years old and have been having my period since January 13th 2005, not regular. (link)
Call the doctor that gave you the birth control pills. Ask him if your blood should be brown. Sometimes its normal for it to be brownish, but i'm not sure about almost black! Your safest bet would be to ask the doctor!
Good luck!


okay so if anyone knows if i should do this or not..

well i have been thinking about it but i got this scar when i was about 4 & im not 13. its going away so what but its so noticeable & i dont like it. my mom tells me i can go into surgery for it & they will make it gone. does anyone know if that will be painfull. should i just let it stay there. cause its not like really really noticeable only a little.. plesae help me thanks. (link)
Crack a Vitamin E pill in half and spread it on the scar. I've heard A LOT of people do this and it goes away.
Good luck!




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