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im not sure. this guy really likes me and hes asked me out about 7 times. i dont really know what to do cause he reallt likes me but i dont think i like him. :/ wat should i do to tell him? plz anwser QUICK cause he just asked me out AGAIN!!!
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tell him you dont like him that way or have your friend tell him if you dont wanna hurt him or give him a try he might be a nice person because if he likes you when you get to know eachother you might like him also later on ]
Go out with him. If he's a loser, then don't see him anymore. But if a guy's gunna ask you 7 or 8 times, at least give this cat a chance. ]
Hi, just say something like "oh, sorry I can't do it because I'm too busy". If you keep on saying that everytime he asks you, then he should be able to figure it out that your not interested. Daniel. ]
tell him no because you dont want to play with him because you dont feel the same way he does and if you go out with him now hell just like you more and that you dont like him.you have to tell him the truth or eles youll be hurting him big time,the more you say no to him bout going out or saying later you give him hope that one day youll say yes and youre gonna bring him down like *BAM*the more you keep it from him the more you be hurtin him.what goes around comes around and you wouldnt like it if you asked a guy out and he did this to ya.good luck and dont be scared to say the truth...not like you lying ]
Just remember: Honesty is always the best thing when you are dealing with your feelings. If you go out with him just because he keeps asking, then you are going to be unhappy in your relationship. Then you will feel bad for breaking up with him because he'd be really hurt.
You could tell him something like "I'm so flattered that you think so much of me, but I don't know that it would work out between us."
Since you say you don't "think" you like him, maybe it would be something that would work out at a future time. ]
If you don't like him, then don't go out with him. It's as simple as that. I know you don't want to hurt his feelings, but that's the way it is. ]
oh. that sux! i've had troubles like that too. This guy asked me out, but I said yes cuz i didn't want to hurt his feelings. I went out with him for like 3 days, then i broke up with him cuz i couldn't take it. Big mistake!! Well what you can say is don't take this the wrong way, but i don't like you like that. Can we just be friends, if it's ok with you? If he's a nice guy he'll understand. ]
Just explain to him that you really aren't interested in him right now and keep on asking you isn't helping tell him you are really sorry and you just want to be friends and make sure you sound truly sorry even if you aren't ]
The same thing happend to me I just broke it down to him softly and told him I wanted to be just friends. ]
Tell him that your not intrested. But be gentle. You've probably told him no by now, but if he asks in the future, tell him that you think he's really nice but you just don't like him like that and just want to be friends. He should get the point sooner or later.
Good luck! ]
Be gentle with the poor guys feelings! I'm sure you would be anyway, but just to mention that! Anyways, here's a few good ones:
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"I don't feel ready for that kind of relationship yet."
"You're such a good friend to me, I wouldn't want to risk losing that."
"I really like you, but I just can't see you in that way..."
"I think there's someone better for you out there than me."
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Cheesy usually works ;)
Good luck, God bless. ]
tell him that you think he is great and all but you have already answered his question and its not going to change becuase you take him as a friend and that it and that your not interested ]
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