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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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well i was raped when i was younger and i just wanted to talk to someone who has been raped before as well... is there anyone out there that wants to talk? it would help both of us...

I've never been raped. But, I am here for you if you EVER need someone to talk to. ♥

i was wondering if anyone knew of any programs or how to make certain items in black and white photo's colored.

IPE (I use this program!) and Paint Shop Pro are great programs. You can download them at the following website: http://www.downloads.com ♥

would it be wrong to date a guy a year younger than me. the thing is he lives in my neighborhood and me and his sister and others all hang out. would that be wrong.

No. That wouldn't be wrong, at all. He's only a year younger then you. My boyfriend and I are 4 years a part. So, age really doesn't matter. If you like him, go for it. ♥

So I haven't started my period in nearly two months. It can't be stress, diet, or lack of exercise. I exercise, eat right, and I am happy-as-can-be. What could be possible things that could be wrong?

And if it helps I last started early June.

And also, please don't guess, or tell me you don't know. And please write with good spelling and grammer or I will take off. Thank you.

As long as you're not pregnant (which I'm guessing you're not), you're perfectly fine and have nothing to worry about. A lot of girls have this. If you're going a month without having your period, you're just irregular. Meaning, sometimes your period won't come when it's suppose to; you'll skip a month, or two.

Consider yourself lucky, though :] I would LOVE to have my period every second month. ♥

I tried to dye it back to my natural hair color and the people who did it made it red and it was supposed to be brown. How long will it take for my all of my hair to grow back with my normal color?

It really depends on what type of hair you have and how long it takes your hair to grow. Usually hair growns anywheres between 1-2 inches per month. So, depending on how long you hair is, it'll take awhile for all the dye to grow out.

I suggest actually dying your hair again. Try to get the dye close to your natural hair color. That way when it does grow in, you won't be able to see your roots. ♥

do guys only find skinny girls with absolutely no fat on them attractive? is just a little bit of fat okay do you think? what else do they find attractive personality and looks?

It depends on the guy. Different guys like different things about the girl they're with, or they're liking/in love with. Some guys like super skinny girls, others like average sized girls, while some like girls with a little meat on their bones. It just depends on the guy and what they like most. ♥

well, i'm almost 14 and i've never used a tampon. i've had my period since i was 11. i always wear pads and i almost put a tampon in once but i got scared that i wouldn't be able to get it in. is this weird? should i try again? and isn't it true that some girls just can't get it in because their hymen (or something??) is too tough? please help me!!!

A lot of girls are scared to use tampons, especially if it is their first time. Nothing to worry about. Usually they have the instructions on the back of the box. So, just read them and you should be set to go. Make sure you're relaxed when you're inserting the tampon. If you're still having trouble, ask one of your family members that are a girl. I'm sure they'll help you out. ♥

in your opinion, is "pissed" a curse word? i am 15/f and my friends and teachers say it, and i was just curious. for example, "that really pissed me off."

It depends on the person. Some people do think it's a curse word, while others don't. However, I wouldn't consider it a curse word. ♥

when a woman cums, and the guy is eating her out is it normal if the guy doesnt like the way it tastes?

Yes, it's normal. Sometimes girls don't like the way guys taste. ♥

Can your period make you light headed or dizzy?

It sure can, hun. ♥

this is for everyone to answer.

what age did you have your first boyfriend? and what age did you have you first kiss?

i just wanna get some ideas. thanks.

I had my first boyfriend when I was in grade six. But, that was just a silly little middle school crush. Where, everyone had boyfriends because it was 'cool' :] I'd say my frist REAL boyfriend was when I was in grade 8 and so was my first kiss. ♥

OK WELL in my about me on my myspace i want to make my text like even on the right side so its like

hey
whats up
like that?

if anyoen knows how id be so thankful also just amazing websites that have lots of codes.

also i need a code for like words you can click and you go to anoyther page.

and where you can hide your song and contact box

please help! thanks

When you want to make your words under one another without a space in between, just put < br > infront of the word. Here's an example:

< br > Hey!
< br > What's up?
< br > Byeee.

But, take the spaces out between the < >'s.

For more codes and such, just check out the following websites:

-- http://myspace.com/xohromancex
-- http://www.profiletweaks.com

Hopefully this helps you out some. ♥

This may be a dumb question but is it possible to get pregnant when using condoms, and they have no broken nor slipped off..and there is no sight that the condom is faulty? just wondering

Yes, it is still possible. Something can still go wrong, even if the condoms isn't broken or hasn't slipped off. ♥

ooow I have molars growing in behind like, my 3rd molar I think? well they're growing in on both sides on the bottom and they hurt really bad. i thought they were wisdom teeth but my friend said those dont grow in until you're like, 20.(i'm 13)theres like, a flap of gums that i can lift up with my tounge and it hurts. soo first of all, what teeth are these, and is it supposed to hurt bad?

They could either be your molars or wisdom teeth. Your wisdom teeth can start growning between the ages of 13 and 18. I got mine out when I was 17. So, it might be your wisdom teeth. I suggest going to see your dentist, just to be on the safe side. ♥

This has been bothering me for quite a while, what does the symbol with an "A" with a circle around it mean? I know it has something to do with punkish stuff, but what does it actually mean?

thanks!

It means anarchy. Criss Angel uses this sign on his show 'Mind Freak', also. ♥

i know im not lik FAT, but im fatter than some people, and i keep eating and eating but im working at a camp where i waslk lik all day bt i dont seem to be losing weight, and my thighs are fat majorr turn off..any ideas>

All you really have to do is just watch what you eat and go out for walks. That will help you stay in shape and keep healthy, also loose the weight you want off. Eat foods that are healthy for you and aren't high in fat and calories. Don't eat after 8PM. ALWAYS eat breakfast. Drink a lot of water; anywhere between 6-8 glasses, a day. Then, after supper (everyday, or so), just go for a little walk. Then, before bed, do some excercises. Push-ups, sit-ups, crunches and squats would be good. ♥

How do you know when you should go out with someone?

When you start liking eachother more then friends. When you both want to take your friendship to a relationship is a sign that you should go out with the person. ♥

im not fat, i just want to work out. i dont wanna get skinnier, maybe 1 or 2 pounds would be good but i just want to be healthy and excercise. im about 75 lbs. and i dont know what kind of exercises i should do, any suggestions?

All you really have to do is just watch what you eat and go out for walks. That will help you stay in shape and keep healthy. Eat foods that are healthy for you and aren't high in fat and calories. Don't eat after 8PM. ALWAYS eat breakfast. Drink a lot of water; anywhere between 6-8 glasses, a day. Then, after supper (everyday, or so), just go for a little walk. ♥

i havent even made out with a guy yet. like ive been planning on to, but i guess it just hasnt happend. a few times i got peer pressured into it, but i would back away cause i dont wanna everyone there watching. i just get uncomfortable. i just want it to be the right moment with the right guy. and im only 13. is that normal that i havent hooked up with a guy yet?

Lots of girls your age haven't had their first kiss yet, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time to have thier first kiss. Some get it when they're 12, others when they're 16 and some even only get their first kiss when they're 18. It just depends on the person and if they're ready or not. It doesn't really matter if you didn't have your first kiss, yet. You're only 13, hun. You have tons of time! When your first kiss comes, it should be with someone special that you care about and you want to kiss. You always remember your first kiss. So, don't get pressured into it. Make sure you're 100% comfortable with the person you're kissing. Give it time, though. You're first kiss will come and it'll be that much more special when it does. ♥

I have gotten so many comments on how big my eyes look. I don't really know if this is a good or bad thing....but i would kinda like ur guy's opinion. Also, Is it because i wear eyeliner??? will that make it look bigger? some people say it makes their eyes look smaller...but i dunno. I use a dark brown eyeliner and i only do the bottom...not the top. (i have fair skin too)

A person saying you have big eyes is usually a compliment; that's how I would take it. Depending on how you do your eyeliner, you can make your eyes appear big or small. Mostly when you put eyeliner on the bottom, it won't change the appearance of your eyes, since you didn't do much. Big eyes are beautiful. So, I think you should embrace that. Put some black eyeliner (or, which ever color your prefer) on the top of your eyes. This will really make your eyes pop and will make them even more gorgeous. ♥

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