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okay well i really like this one guy.. and i mean hes like soo soo perfect... and i know hes noticed me and i think we might have a chance of going out cuz were already friends and i just dont know what to do.. i mean i no i cant ask him out soo please help me please hes soo important to me but he just doesnt know that..
signed so so confused..
*I RATE* please answer me soon* (link)
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Aww, well first of all.. since you guys are friends i'm assuming you feel comfortable around each other. Being friends before being boyfriend and girlfriend is always goood because you will feel comfortable around each other and be able to talk about anything
You said he noticed you which is good because it means he's interested
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My best friends friend who i meet on AIM, is now my boyfriend...i havent met him yet but we say i love you and stuff. I'm not sure if i really want to break up with him but i dont want to have my first kiss with him. I mean he's nice but not cute, and i dont know if i should tell him i dont want to kiss him becuase he said he really wanted to,can anyone help me? (link)
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Well, you haven't met him and your his girlfriend!?.. well anyways, looks aren't the most important thing, and if he's nice and everything, then i think you guys should just be friends, i mean you haven't met and you've only talked on AIM.
Your first kiss should be something that you will treasure. It should be something special, and if you don't feel comfortable having your first kiss with this guy, then you should most definetly not kis him.
I'd say that you should tell him you just want to be friends for now.
hope i helped
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i missed last friday's brand new episode of Degrassi! dose anyone know when that episode will play again? thx (link)
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well first of all.. i love that show!!!!!!!!! its amazing.. and they didn't have an episode last friday.. its this friday at 8 p.m. i believe.. and also, they replay the episodes that they show on friday nights on saturday and sunday at 9 pm
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ok this is gonna be kinda long
In the middle of last year my BFF got a boyfriend and i was soo happy for her. But then she stopped hanging out with me. She ate lunch with him,all she talked about was her boyfriend. But then she got new friends and didnt even notice me. At dance she didnt want to talk to me either. So i told her how i felt and she said thats not true!! So then i said i dont want to be friends if u arent going to be a friend. so then her boyfriend said F*** YOU to me online:(
I told my friends and they informed my ex-bff. So she dumped him and her were friends again. The 2days lata she went back out with him. And she started doing the same thing that she did before. On the last day of school she dumped him. We are friends now but all she ever talks about is her ex-bf and she still doesnt talk to me at dance. Ok so here is my question: Should i still be her friend or forget about her?
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Well it seems to me that maybe she wants to be the center of attention at dance and be very social.. or maybe (and i hope you don't take offense to this) she feels embarrased around you when you guys are at dance.. and thats why she doesn't talk to you.. but either way.. she doesn't sound like a good friend. And as hard as it may be, i think you should distance yourself from her.. and if she really wants to be your friend.. she'll notice it and say something about it to you.. best friends are always supposed to be there for you and she sounds like she could care less about your feelings.
SHe's obviously not over her ex so you'll just have to talk some sense into her.. tell her that things obviously didn't work out between them and that there will be an even better guy out there for her.
Since it doesnt seem like she gets how you feel about her leaving you out at dance and forgeting about her and not caring about your feelings, then theres nothing you can do to change her mind.. but once she looses you, she'll miss you and regret being so mean to you.
hope i helped
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ok im going to be having my brithday party at my house this year im gonna have like 12-15 girls. I have a trampoline but thats it... what are some fun cute things to do at a party... (link)
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OK well obviously games on the trampoline..
Heres a few suggestions :
-- Water balloon toss ((but depending on your age.. that could be boring))
-- Water balloon fights ((my personal favorite))
-- if you have like sprinklers in your back yard.. you can turn them on and like run through them.. just to stay cool and joke around
-- music of course
-- decorations are always awesome
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my sis broke up with her bf last night and she is 21 and im 13 and i dont know what to tell her to make her feel better i really want to help her cuz im sure she would help me if something like that happened to me please help me (link)
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Well she was the one who broke up with him.. so why would she be upset about it.. it obviosly wasn't working out for them and just tell her there will be an even better guy out there for her.. ask her if she wants to go to the movies with you or go bowling.. or go to the mall
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I know i already talked about this but i dont care. its REALLY BUGGiNG ME. my bestfriend krystal got a new bestfriend heather. and everything about her just kills me. the simplist things. i dont care if im accting immature. i dont want to make new friends. and i dont want to be friends with heather, the one who's stealing krystal away from me. all krystal talks about is heather this and heather that and how GOOD she is. it gets to me, so much. i cry myself to sleep so much. what do i do? i have already told krystal multiple times that i feel left out and ignored. (link)
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Well since your not willing to do any of these..:
i dont want to make new friends. and i dont want to be friends with heather, the one who's stealing krystal away from me.
Then theres nothing you can really do but try and hang out with krystal more.. do something fun that you know she would love.. so basically just try to steal her away from heather.
Since you've told her many times how you feel.. then don't be a nag and tell her again.. because that will most likely lead to a fight and then she'll really be closer with heather.
But really, you should try being friends with heather.. i mean at least you'd get to spend time with krystal.
And you should also try to make new friends.. doing that could make krystal feel the same way you do.. and then she'll realize how you felt with the whole thing with heather.
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alright.. i've been like.. in love with this kid jimmy we went out for a while but we broke up and i havent gotten over him for like 3months and im still not over him it sucks i try and try like.. he hates being around me cause he feels like he has to be careful i mean seriously there was nothing wrong in our relationship we never fought always saw each other always talked and this was all on a daily basis, and i cutt and shit alot now because of him i mean seriously i know its bad.. and i have therapy and everything just i dont knoww i cant stop thinking about him and my friend amber ( she is my bestfriend and his too) well she thought something up and it like makes all sense she says that he is just scared that he is falling for me and that he is just scared because he never has fallen for someone like me and that im perfect for him becausei m everything he wants and im just like him and the perfect girl for him..and it makes me sad because i cantt stand knowing that im perfect for him and lets just say im sick of crying
sorry it's soo long =/
please help
thanks alot
i rate high
brooke (link)
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Well since you haven't really said who broke up with who.. i get the feeling he broke up with you.. if he broke up with you.. then you aren't perfect for him. So lets see.. he says he hates being around you.. well that probably means he's over you.. and you say that there was nothing wrong in your relationship and you never fought and always saw each other and always talked.. but there could have been something wrong, such as... that he didn't feel the same way you did.. and that really sucks because i can see how much you like him.. well you will get over him eventually.. but the way i got over my ex was just going out on weekends with friends.. and we would have fun.. and i wouldn't think about him.. over time you will loose interest in him.. you'll realize that there will be another guy who you'll think about all the time and wanna be with.. and that guy will be better than jimmy because he would feel the same way you do.. i know the truth hurts.. but after three months he's most likely over you.. so you've gotta go out and have fun and eventually you'll be over him and a new guy will be in the picturee.
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i wrote this poem for my boyfriend and i need some help and advice on how to make it better...
Ever since I meet you
You have been all I think about
You have been all I talk about
Your all I want in my life
You stole my heart like no other
Nobody will ever have my heart like you do
Sometimes you think I don’t like you as much as u do
You will never know how strong my feelings are for you
I don’t know if I will ever be able to explain to you how I feel about you
Day by day my love for you grows
I know I cant see you all the time
But just because I cant see your gorgeous brown eyes doesn’t mean I am not with you.
You will always have my heart with you to cheer you up
I would do anything for you
I just want to be in your arms now and forever
And I just want you to know that
No matter what happens between us weather I am your girl or not
That I will always love you
can someone help me out.. thanks (link)
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awww thats adorable.. its great... he'll most definetly love it!!!
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Well, I met my boyfriend a couple of months ago. We hit off quite well :) And just recently, this 5th of August we decided to "hook up", become an "item", whatever, we're together.
Anyway, we've never really talked as much as I'd like to. I've told him that and I've said I miss him and talking to him when texting with him. But that doesn't seem to be working... we talk around... 30 - 60 minutes a WHOLE WEEK. If that much too. That would be a good week!
I don't know what to do anymore. We're both on the nervous side when we meet and rather quiet but I don't know what to do... I don't want to lose him, I think there's potential. But, he doesn't seem like HE wants to put any effort into it. So I was wondering, what should I do, seeing as I'm the one concerned about the relationship in the first place,?
Note; I'm 13 & female. (link)
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guys are shy.. i had the same problem with my ex boyfriend.. i know how you feel that he seems like he doesn't want to put any effort into it.. but guys are wierd like that.. i felt like i could never start a conversation with my ex because he was shy and that made me shy.. try spending more time together.. since he's to shy.. then you'll have to be able to start a conversation.. talk about something funny and interesting.. get him to laugh.. make jokes... the more you show him your comfortable around him the more he'll be comfortable too.. if he still acts like he could care less about your relationship.. then i don't think he's the right guy for you.. hope i helped
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okay.. i met this guy a couple of weeks ago. his name is adam and hes my sisters friend.. well i really like him alot. but the thing is im 13 and hes 17.. is that wrong? but he has a girlfriend and last night he tried to kiss me! but i turned my head and i said dont you have a girlfriend and he said yes but he doesnt care.. but i wouldnt kiss him because he has a girlfriend and i think thats wrong to cheat. but he always hugs me and comes to my house and stuff and we hang out alot.. and he keeps asking me out too.. but i say no bc "he has a girlfriend" well my question is is that wrong to like a 17 year old and also i need advice on what to do about this situation.. thanks.. i rate 5's for good answers (link)
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well most girls go for older guys.. but sometimes the only thing older guys want is sex.. its good that you think cheating is wrong.. and that as much as you like him you won't go out with him because he still has a girlfriend.. well right off the bat i can say that if he is willing to cheat on his girlfriend that he has now.. then he will probably cheat on you too.. i mean now that you think of it.. would you really be able to trust him??.. as much as you like him.. i suggest you find a guy your age that is single.. but if you really do like him.. then talk to him and say.. "i like you.. but you have a girlfriend.. and if you really like me.. you'll either have to break up with her.. or don't go out with me." guys are guys.. they will cheat.. and they will lie.. they will use you for sex.. and break your heart.. hope everything works out for you =]
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hey ..alright my name is ashley ..and im 13..i weigh about 130..im 5'5..but my upper legs are HUGE......... but no one really notices..like..last year i wore pants size 1/3/4..i cant even wear a 5! and its making me very upset..iv gained almost 15 punds since school got out..and school start august 26...but im also very tall..my height is around 5'5 5'6..and i also got a big butt..how can i lose between 10-15 pounds? i hate exercising..and i crave for food everytime i try not to eat alot...please help me......- tear -
xoxo ashley (link)
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well even though you hate excercising.. your going to have to do it.. the cravings for food are normal.. running is the main way to loose weight.. just eat healthy food.. and just try having only one snack a day.. instead of pulling out a candy bar.. pull out a nutri - graine bar.. if you really want to loose weight.. your gonna have to work at it even though its tough.. don't worry.. everything will be fine =]
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Im going into 7th grade and never had a bf!
Everyone tells me im pretty and I've been popular and everything at my school. Im even a model!
But I dont brag or anything
But anyways theres this boy I like and I really want to get closer to him. Once he tried to kiss me but my mom walked into the house and he stopped. And now were kinda like friends. Is there anything I can do to get him to like me again? (link)
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well first of all.. its ok not to have a boyfriend if your only going into 7th grade.. i know people going into 8th grade who haven't had boyfriends and they are very pretty.. well just hang out with this guy a lot.. be yourself around him and make sure that he can be hiself around you.. flirt a little.. i mean he did try to kiss you.. so he probably still likes you =]
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well me and this guy were together.. but i never kissed him bc i didnt think i was ready.. now i just found out that he was playin with my head the whole time and that he has a gf... i wanna forget about him but he just stays in my head! all the things he told me and everything is stayin in my mind! i cant stop thinkin about him even though hes a scumbag! wat do i do??
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awww thats so sad.. just keep yourself busy,.. go out with friends to enjoy yourself so you won't be thinking about him.. trust me it helps.. its hard to just forget about a guy that you really like.. and i understand what your saying that even though hes such a jerk you can't get him out of your head.. thats ok.. but as time goes on.. you'll get over him and find an even better guy
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I swear I'm not trying to brag, I'm 13 and only like 70 pounds, I sit in front of my computer all day, I eat a bunch of crap food, I go to McDonalds all the time, but you can still see my spine through the front. How can I gain weight? I rate high usually, but smartass answers will just result in me asking "Why do you suck so much?" as one of those personal questions. (link)
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i have the same exact problem.. i eat watever i want whenever i want.. but don't fill up on junk food to get fat... im 13 and im 90 pounds.. but its mostly muscle.. try building muscles and you won't look just like a stick.. you'll have some tone on your body.. hope i helped
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ok...there's this guy that i might hook up with but i'm still not sure that i will but he was asking me if we hooked up if i would ever have sex with him and i said i didnt know...i dont know what to do because i dont think im ready for sex yet and honestly im scared...i want to tell him that im not ready but i dont know how he will react.. (link)
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ok.. i perdonally think that 14 yrs old is too young for sex.. if your not ready for it than don't.. there's so many consequences from having sex.. since it would be your first time.. wouldn't you want it to be with a guy you REALLY like??.. if this guy really likes you then he won't pressure into it.. if your not ready then you have to tell him, don't worry about his reaction.. if he gets all mad and starts to pressure you.. well then he's definetly not the right guy for you and there is someone better out there for you.. hope i helped.. don't worry.. you'll be fine
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i have a friend, and anytime we are hanging out alone or with other GIRL friends..shes normal and acts herself. but whenever we're hanging out with guys..she acts like a complete idiot, saying stupid things, acting stupid...just making herself out to be the stupidest girl ever!! and shes not stupid at all. after a party last night me and another friend told her and she was just like "you guys do it too and i don't care what people think" we do act dumb sometimes but we never take it a far as she does and after seeing her act so stupid- we will never do it again. she does it to get attention from guys and she gets it but its totally negative attention. its funny for a while, but then it gets annoying and everyone knos shes putting on an act. how do we get her to realize what shes doing is annoying and looking bad on herself? (link)
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well this is tough... she's in denial of acting stupid and i think that you should just keep trying to tell her how stupid she acts... i don't know if you'd like this idea.. but if she won't listen to what your telling her about how stupid she acts.. then if you have a digital camera that takes videos you can videotape everything she does around guys and then show it to her afterwards.. but if you don't want to do that.. then just keep telling her.. tell her that the guys aren't giving her good attention and its all negative.. tell her she should be herself and have a guy like her for who she REALLY is... hope i helped
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okay. im growing hair around like my vag.
and around there and a little above it.
what does this mean??
+ if it means im getting my period soon i keep
seeing in my dark colored underwear. white gooey
stuff that dried up. is that normal? and if it
means im getting my period soon, when am I going
to get it? Any advice? ill rate for decent answers.
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well these are all signs of puberty.. the white gooey stuff is vaginal discharge.. ive been getting vaginal discharge for like 5 months now and still haven't gotten my period.. the hair is just pubic hair.. its all normal.. maybe you should start carrying a pad in your purse so if you get in while your out.. you have a pad... your period will come when your bodies ready.
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ok this is my first time having my period n ive had it for 5 days already and my mom told me its only suppossed to last 3-5 days and the longest shes ever had it was for 7 days. please help me , clue me in on whats going on!!!!! thanks sooooooooooo much
sincerely,
troubled girly (link)
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well i know someone who has it for 7 days.. its just how your body is.. not everyone is going to have their period at the same amount of days.. it depends on your body.. if it goes over 7 days then maybe you should be concerned.. don't worry its only your first time.. and its going to be different each time until your body gets used to it.. hope i helped
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how do you get your boyfriend to stop cutting..? please help me..=( (link)
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wOW. the main thing to do.. is show him a good time.. take him on more dates.. get him to laugh and enjoy life.. always tell him you love him and make him feel special.. maybe you should talk to his parents about his cutting or another adult so that way they can make him stop.. take him out with your friends and his friends and just have fun.. having a conversation about how he shouldn't cut could make him even more upset.. just tell him.. you belong here and alot of people would miss you.. especially me.. and then say.. cutting isn't the answer.. and then end the conversation unless he wants to talk more about it.. just help him have fun and enjoy himself.. hope i helped
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