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im a female and i live in pa
i have brown hair with blonde streaks and green eyes .. i think
my birthday is Feb. 23

i play basketball.

i luv giving advice. its something i enjoy and im helping people also. even tho im still young i have been through alot; especailly with my family and friends. i will answer your questions to the best of my ability.

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Im 15 and I have been going out with this guy for about 2 days now. i have known him for like 4 months and we just started going out. i really like him a lot too! hes the perfect guy for me! his birthday is coming up this monday which is in about 6 days. but i have no idea what to get him if i should get him anytbing. i was thinking maybe like a picture of me and him in a picture frame that i can go buy. is that good? i need a answer sooooon! so thanks yall!

yea i think thats a great idea!

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i ben playin soccer for 5 years now....im okay...i should be better i want to be better....i just get nervous when i have the ball and i lyke kick it anywhere and i dont have very good ball control....is there ne 1 who plays soccer who kan give me a few tips or excersizes 2 do?? i have practice everyday (i amde the skool team) for 2 hrs...so we do practice ALOT but the season is starting in about 3wks and i wanna get beter...thx

well maybe u can try and play one on one with someone... or get ppl together for a scrimage and just practice keeping the ball and keeping it undersontrol...good luck..

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I have a crush on my best friend thats a guy! He doesn't know but I don't know how to tell him and I know he doesn't like me like that...But how should I tell him I like him? I RATE HIGH AND GIVE GOOD COMMENTS!

well there is know right way to tell a guy that u like him. just drop him some hints here and there..and then eventually the right time will come.. good luck

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i have a friend, and she doesnt relize that all she does is follow one of her good friends around. this "good friend" of hers sometimes ignores her..when she feels like it..other times, its ok to talk to her. she will talk to her if she wants to, but if she doesnt feel like it, she will just ignore her. i tried telling my friend that she shouldnt just follow her around, and maybe shes not a good pick for a good friend, because she doesnt treat her like a good friend. she seemed to listen to me, but the next day, it was pretty much all back to normal. my friend says she likes hangin with me cuz she acts like herself around me..but then she just keeps hangin with her "good friend". it just doesnt seem like i should let that happen to her, but then again, its like its not my business.shood i keep buggin her bout it? or just let it go, and hope she realizes?

well ur being a good friend by telling her that but maybe u need to inform her "good friend" about that and see what the deal is. but it kinda isnt ur business just dont get to into it or anthing..good luck

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lets say i chose to have sex with this boy, lets call him bryan, and in the middle of it, this other boy walks in, lets call him kevin, and he threatens me and yells at me, (i'm still naked) and the next day at school i want to apollogise but i cant, and he tells this other girl, lets call her brittany, what should i say to him and her...?

well tell them the truth about what happend. and just apologize but i wouldnt wait to apologize cuz its better sooner than later...i hope i helped...good luck

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Ok: so i love scary movies... spook houses, and doing the ouiji board. I live down in the basement all alone and after seeing freaky movies... like Saw I can't sleep. I think that there in my basement gonna come kill me.. and even though I'm 16... i still sleep with my t.v. on all night... even though I can't stand a speck of light in the night i LOVE watchinng scary movies... but i get so scared I sometimes cry! What can I do?

just keep telling urself that its just a movie its just a movie..im kinda that same way but usually come to realize that its just a movie and its not realy gonna happen

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well first i lie with my step gradpa and stepgrandma. bc my mom and my stephdad don't wnat me.. anymore. and my g-parents have 6 cats and 4 dogs.. well one day my g-pa was playing with Pimpsey.. which is one of the dogs. and my g-pa trough the ball in the street.. (on accsitdent)!
and.. pimpsey ran after the ball.. =( then the un thinkable happend.. i think you can guess! a yellow car came by and hit pimpsey. and we saw all of her guts fly everywhere! please help me get over this tragity! signed!

NEEDS HELP FROM YOU! BC .. I MISS PIMPSEY

don't make fun of his name please my g-ma named him from her , old parrot that she had when she was a young girl so don't think that its like a pimp thing bc really it ist't.. so anyway. PLEASE HELP ME!

thats sad and im sorry. but try to move on..just remember the good times and not the bad and if that doesnt work try not to remember at all...good luck..

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Agh... I'm so agitated and confused and depressed at the same time I can barely type this...! Anyways... my gf and I have been going out for about 10 days. My friends and I and her hang out all the time. Well it started last night. My friend was just joking around and he said "I'm like a star in the sky!" (Yeah we're pretty weird sometimes.) And my gf said "If you are then I will love you haha" and this kind of got me down, even though she said she was just kidding. Also, the same day, my friend was just like "My butt hurts." Then she says "Haha let me check that out for you then", and she touched it lightly... In a joking way, but it still didn't feel right.Another thing is, today, when my friend and I were walking towards her, she was like "Hey (friends name)!" And I was thinking to myself... "Eh? :( She didn't even say hi to me..." But... my gf said that she is crazy about me and she really loves me and everything like that, and she said that like the 7th night we were going out... but on msn. =\ Anyways, my question is, does she still like me? Or could she be liking my friend, and not me? I mean, she says she's worried that I will like another girl and dump her in the near future, and she also says that she's afraid to get hurt again, so maybe she will hurt me, and everything will be fine for her? I don't know, but we still held hands and hugged and all the normal stuff we do like that, but it still made me sad... please help... and thanks for reading...

yea guys usually do make the first moves..i think..and talk to her about it. if she says that she loves u than she prolly does. talk to her about it!!..good luck..

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my bf and i r in a huge fight ...but its kas he made me upset..i really wanna talk to him about it..but he needs to appologise to me 1st.. should i wait 4 him or should i say sumtin...im 15/f/ if it helps

if it matters that much to u than just go up to him urself and talk things out.

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Hi you guys... i don't really know where to start. i'm head over heels for one of my best friends (my best guy friend). and i don't know what to do. sometimes, when we're talking and it's late at night, i come so close to telling him, just because i'd like to know if i have a chance. but then part of me is afraid. he has a girlfriend at the moment, and i don't want to ruin anything between them. i found out a few days ago that he used to think we had the potential to be soulmates, that's definitely how i feel. and have felt. i just don't know if he still feels like that and i'm really afraid to ask. so, all wise advice givers, what do i do?

he has a girlfriend so just hang low for a little bit..let things play out. they will get better soon! good luck!

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What should I ask first?

a)screen name
b)cell number

Shes kinda, quiet. How do I get her to open up a bit? We both play guitar... I dont know if that owuld hlpe at all.

this situation sounds familar...id say screen name first and then later on the cell number..if u need anymore help just let me know!

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ive got this friend..and we're pretty good friends..but she is such a flirt that it gets on my nerves every once in awhile..mainly when shes flirtin with guys i like..she flirted so much with my home-coming date that he changed his mind and they went together..and any guy i like she flirts with them..in 5th period..the guy i like sits 1 seat away frum me..hers is in the middle..she didnt use to sit there tho...she just now decided she wanted to sit back over by us..how can i get used to her flirting or what can i do?!?!

well u wont exactly be able to get used to it, but maybe just dont tell her who u like

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is it alright to date a guy that is 3 to 4 year younger than you?

well i guess not if u really like him. but i would try to sstay around 1 or 2 years.

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i've had a best friend for a few years now i don't no that much about her(only wut she lets me no) and she noes everything about me and has helped me through a lot of stuff in the past. Despite the fact i only no a little about her we have had a lot of fun times..Lately she's been ingoring me and i feel like she is just slowly pushing me out of her life...i don't want this to happen but i don't think she sees it coming or realizes itz happening. should i try talking to her or just move on and let go to all we had?

definitly, no doubt about it u have to talk to her about it. and dont stop talking to her about it until she realizes either whats happening or u figure out whats going on with her..best of luck..let me know how it works out!

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mi bf dosnt live in the same state as me but the thing is i know him so its not some guy that i met on the internet he use to live here and he went out with one of my friends but now that he lives in a diff state i keep thinking hes cheating on me. there is this other guy that lives here and we like each other and today i got really stressed and he told me i was cute because i didnt know how to do something and he started to blush i talk to him on the phone all the time but i dont talk to my bf on the phone i dont know if i should break up with my bf or not and go out with the one guy thats close by?

shood i

im realli confused

well figure out which one u would rather be wiht? whih one u would be happier with...good luck..let me know how it works out.

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Does anybody know a website that has really good lyrics?
Thanx!

sing365.com has lyrics.

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okay well this is a long story but ill try to cut it short... it all started last yr. when i was in 7th grade this guy asked me out and i said yes but then this rumor went around school saying i was using him and i only went out with him cause my friend bet me too.. but that was so not true but we broke up and we were still friends and stuff. Then over the summer we got really really close and hung out and talked on the phone like everyday and finally on 4th of huly he asked me out on the phone when i was watching firecrackers in the sky at my lake house (it was so beautiful) but anyways, later on that week we went to the movies and stuff and we make out and stuff.. and we had a good time and then when i got home his fiend called me saying he wanted to break up with me. i was so upset cause i had just had a great time! I cried all night & didnt sleep. his friend said he broke up with me cause he liked this other girl who lives in another city. Of course cause she was beautiful. and so from then on we both like never talked and we hated everother. but now we talk to eachother a lot and were good friends again but he's going out with one my best friends since halloween. and i'm really starting to like him again.. i dont know what to do!? HEELLPP!

talk to him about it. jsut dont lie to urself.

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Last night,I was at a hockey game with my dad and my girl (ex girlfriend now) called me and started cursing me out. She said somebody called her house and cursed her mom out,and her mom said it sounded like me,when it wasn't me who really did it. So she broke up with me and Heidi (my ex) is punished for a very long time. Her mom took away her cell phone,and a bunch of other crap,and Heidi simply refuses to speak a word to me. I don't know what to do. Should I:

1) Give her a couple of days and hope she'll listen to me when I try to explain to her it wasn't me that called her house (I have my dad as proof.)
OR
2) Just move on with my life

This girl means everything to me,and I would do anything to get her back,no matter what extremes I would have to take. I love this girl with all my heart and I really want her back. Please help me out. Thanks

see if ur dad will talk to her mom. or u talk to her mom. or something cuz thatreally sux..good luck! let me know how it turns out!

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hey.. my parents r super protective like they wont let me "date" 1 on 1 till im 16 and they have to meet him and all that crap..althou im dating now and its really hard to go out w. him kas i need to have my friends go w. me so my parents dont explode.. what can i do so i can go out w. him but not get in trouble.?

u could go to the movies with ur friends but then go see a different movies with ur bf. or go to the mall or some sport game and hang out with him when ur parents arent there. good luck..that or u could talk to them about it

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ok my bf told me he loves me when he left a mssg on his fone but he wont say it directly on the fone or in person so i just broke the ice n sed if furst last nite when i saw him and he sed it back but i sed it as i was turnin to leave so i didnt see his reaction or nothing n we both sed it like really quietly....but then he called n he didnt say it (i didnt hear my fone ring) so he lft a mssg but he didnt say it....does it mean he didnt m ean it or he didnt wanna say it again or wat? did he only say it bak so i wouldnt get mad or somethin?

maybe he scared to say it or hes not ready to say it..just give him some time

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