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How do i tell him?
I have a crush on my best friend thats a guy! He doesn't know but I don't know how to tell him and I know he doesn't like me like that...But how should I tell him I like him? I RATE HIGH AND GIVE GOOD COMMENTS!
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Well tell him yall are friends right? Really good friends and he will be like yes we are. Then you tell him theres something you want to tell him that he might like to know. But u dont want to ruin yalls friendship. So sit down talk to him how you feel. Deep down from your heart. Dont lie. Just let it all out when your done youll feel much better. He will most likely be like wow. But it wont change anything. Most people think it does. But they dont. But just be calm about it and just tell him your sorri to tell him but it was just bothering you. Also, dont like feel bad or anything because i know you dont like me like that so its all good. Then he will relize and be like yea okay sure. Then just bring up a conversation. Or he might say he doesnt have feelings and end up really do and him saying he doesnt was his fear that you didnt like him. I hope i gave you enough advice. Im here for you so leave me one. Tell me what happen i like to know things to help people more.<3 sammy sam
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Try what u are good at
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well, if you really like him, then really the only way to go about it is just to tell him flat out, but make sure he knows that you also really like him as a friend, and don't want to put him in an awkward situation, and woudlnt' want to do anything to risk hurting you're friendship. hope that helped! keep me posted
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If he doesn't like you in that way, I wouldn't do anything. You might wreck the friendship that you have. But he might secretly have feelings for you and you just don't know it. You really just have to decide on your own; is it worth wrecking the friendship for something better, or would you rather stay friends and wonder what it could be like? There's no good piece of advice on this, it's just your gut feeling. But if you decide to tell him, just do it in the most comfortable way for you, like over the phone or when you're alone.
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well listen i like a guy too and all of my friedns told me to tell him and i did and know i feel a lot better so i think u should tell him.
hope it works out
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i think that is one of the toughest positions to be in because on one hand you don't want to screw up the friendship and on the other hand you have a strong attraction to this guy who you know really well. Personally i think its a good idea to get your feelings out there and if he's ur friend he'll be able to be honest with you about his feelings. Even though a relationship might not be in the near future, it is still better to be open with him. Hey who knows maybe in a few years things might change and he might like you back! Good luck and let me know how it works out?
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I've been in this situation before. Alot of people have. It's awkward because there is that nervous feeling inside of you: what if he doesn't like me? If you don't feel comfortable telling him all at once then don't. Maybe drop a few hints or flirt a little. You could even have one of your other friends ask him if he likes you. Be careful with that though because I know from personal experience that guys don't like it when girls bombard them with questions about them liking someone. Just be yourself and try one of the things above. Also, be aware that if he doesn't respond to you the same way you do to him, that's normal. He's a guy and they are kind of slow! lol! Good Luck!!
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*emily*
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I had a similar situation happen to me in reverse. I was really happy my friend was honest and open with me. That's what I feel is the most important part of friendship! Although nothing ever happened, we gave it the "good old college try." Don't be afraid to take a chance! I say go for it. If he doesn't feel the same way, you tried, and now you can move on. :) Good luck and keep us posted!
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say. hi i luv yu!
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Chances r he already knows, but incase he doesn't try giving him a hug sometime or if your sitting by eachother put your head on his shoulder.. try acouple little things like that and you'll know if he likes u or not
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I've been in this situation before. Alot of people have. It's awkward because there is that nervous feeling inside of you: what if he doesn't like me? If you don't feel comfortable telling him all at once then don't. Maybe drop a few hints or flirt a little. You could even have one of your other friends ask him if he likes you. Be careful with that though because I know from personal experience that guys don't like it when girls bombard them with questions about them liking someone. Just be yourself and try one of the things above. Also, be aware that if he doesn't respond to you the same way you do to him, that's normal. He's a guy and they are kind of slow! lol! Good Luck!!
xOx Emmz
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Tell him how you feel. If he changes his mind im sure you 2 will make a cute couple! (whoever u r)
but is he says no, you 2 can still be friends.
hope this advice works!
~~**<3**~~
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Get over him. Silly kid.
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Well, if you have a boyfriend already, don't break up with him, unless he is an abusing jerk who controls you. Then break up with him and go for this guy. But, if you are single, just tell him, or tell him on the phone, or even an instant messenger, whatever makes you feel comfortable. You could get your friends to tell him for you if you wanted. Just go up to him one day and tell him your feelings, but not just like out of the blue, just hint towards the topic when you two are alone, or start talking about dating. Then tell him. Hey, it's worth a shot, even if he says no, if you ask him out. Even if he does say no, he will respect you for being so bold.
Good Luck - QBillion
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well there is know right way to tell a guy that u like him. just drop him some hints here and there..and then eventually the right time will come.. good luck
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Just hang out with him alone. When the time is right you will know and just tell him. Say, look I know we are best friends, but I have feelings for you and I'm sorry if this makes our relationship weird because I don't want this to change anything. If you don't have feelings for me then ok, but I just wanted you to know that I have feelings for you. If you can't ask him in person then talk to him about it online or write him a note. -Kayla
Ps. I said this to another chick that asked practically the same thing, hope this helps!
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