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friend help?
ok well when im at school everybody seems to like me and all but there are always rumors going around of bad stuff about me and i dont know what i am doin? is it because everytime i get dumped i go out with another boy? people have been calling me a slut ever since ive been hanging out with the popular people i dont know what to do i bc im never mean to any1 but i dont know what im doing wrong? i know this question is hard to answer but i need help!!!!
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They r jealous that is all. Don't let it bother u at all. It is nothing at all but jelousy
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ok well mah friend is going through the same thing i think u shud just ignore every one and show dat u r not a lsut... liike mayyb ppl r jealous uv u cuz every1 likes u and cuz u hang out with popular ppl u kno? just leave it alone 4 a while if u need more advice u can IM me at AIM "AeRo BaBii oOx"
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This question was made for me. Hun! I know exactly what your going through. They do the same shit to me. Its because they are jealous because your pretty and you can get a new guy everytime you get dumped or you dump them. There jealous. All the people who were jealous of me! Because of that have told me they are jealous and call me a slut. Your not a slut. Your just a nice person and there scared of that. Dont let them get to you. SCREW THEM! You are yourself dont do it to pleas everyone. Its not worth it. I should know i have done some stupid stuff. Dont get all worked up about it okay hun. I get it everyday. If you just ignore and keep your head high and dont listen to them they'll shut up! They know your the heat and they will get over themselves. Trust me its working for me. <3 Sammy Sam<3 hopefully i helped you out. If any good happens you let me know or have any more questions. Im here for you!!!
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Sweetie they are just jealous because you are popular and they aren't and you can get guys. Don't worry about it, the rumors will begin to fade. Just make sure you don't quit hanging out with your old friends from before and don't change who you are either. People will begin to know you really well and no matter the rumors people will begin to realize they aren't true and won't believe them, unless they have no life but to talk about gossip. -Kayla
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Rumors make up a lot of high school conversation and i know this is cliche but it doesn't matter what other people think of you, its what you think of yourself. High school is all about finding yourself and finding out who YOU are. People can talk, let them! i know it takes awhile before you are able to let it slide off your back but be strong and hang in there. In terms of going out with a new boy, your social/sex life is PERSONAL!!! Anyways good luck!!!
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well...i have a freind just like that..she is really sweet...but she has gone out with alot of guys (ALOT!!) maybe you should take a break from the whole dating seene....as for the people prblems....sometimes ppl arnt "secure" with them selves so all they have to do is call other ppl bad things to make them feel good and liked....maybe they are jelous of you...all you can do is be as sweet as possible to everyone..and try to ignore every bad thing that you hear! GOOD LUCK
love/advoce
*emily*
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