okay well this is a long story but ill try to cut it short... it all started last yr. when i was in 7th grade this guy asked me out and i said yes but then this rumor went around school saying i was using him and i only went out with him cause my friend bet me too.. but that was so not true but we broke up and we were still friends and stuff. Then over the summer we got really really close and hung out and talked on the phone like everyday and finally on 4th of huly he asked me out on the phone when i was watching firecrackers in the sky at my lake house (it was so beautiful) but anyways, later on that week we went to the movies and stuff and we make out and stuff.. and we had a good time and then when i got home his fiend called me saying he wanted to break up with me. i was so upset cause i had just had a great time! I cried all night & didnt sleep. his friend said he broke up with me cause he liked this other girl who lives in another city. Of course cause she was beautiful. and so from then on we both like never talked and we hated everother. but now we talk to eachother a lot and were good friends again but he's going out with one my best friends since halloween. and i'm really starting to like him again.. i dont know what to do!? HEELLPP!
silenceINminorC answered Sunday November 7 2004, 4:28 pm: well i get ur problem but really.. u have ur whole life to meet guys. so hes nto for you. sounds like a jack ass anyways. there are so many guys out their and when u get to highschool u will be overwhelmed with how many there are. just wait and have fun. no need to have a bf and no need for him. <3 [ silenceINminorC's advice column | Ask silenceINminorC A Question ]
KiLLeROnDaCourT answered Sunday November 7 2004, 3:11 pm: as hard as this is to get over, u have 2 try to get over him. u can still crush on him, but keep ur options open. u might find someone u really like alot more then him. just keep looking and stay his good friend. if ur best friend and him break up, u always have another chance. [ KiLLeROnDaCourT's advice column | Ask KiLLeROnDaCourT A Question ]
Cath answered Sunday November 7 2004, 2:52 pm: Hi Sweetie,
He's a asshole! (sorry, you had to hear that) But when we get our hearts set on someone its hard to realize it... You're going to have to do an effort to see wh he's an asshole. I don't care if you write reasons why in a note pad. He was probably using YOU all along. You know what? He doesn't deserve a good friend like you. SCREW HIM! Get away from him abd if he has the fucking nerve to ask why just say: YOU'RE AN ASSHOLE!!!
If you MUST feel bettter with a fake possibility then here it goes: Maybe his friend is the asshole who lead you o believe he didn't like you anymore and led him to believe you didn't like him. (Honestly I doubt it.)
I hope you realize you're a good person AND HE'S AN ASSHOLE. Best wishes to you-mayyou find happines in a good guy who actuallly deserves you. Best wishes to him-may he realize HE'S AN ASSHOLE! Hope you found answers. ~Blessed Be... [ Cath's advice column | Ask Cath A Question ]
greekouzo4me123 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 2:21 pm: just ignore him, he wasnt that great of a boyfriend in tha first place. this happened 2 me once but hiz friend was playin a trick on us so that i can get really mad and stuff but this was no trick if u ignore him maybe he'll want you more LOL jk hope i helped
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