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I'm confused..
Agh... I'm so agitated and confused and depressed at the same time I can barely type this...! Anyways... my gf and I have been going out for about 10 days. My friends and I and her hang out all the time. Well it started last night. My friend was just joking around and he said "I'm like a star in the sky!" (Yeah we're pretty weird sometimes.) And my gf said "If you are then I will love you haha" and this kind of got me down, even though she said she was just kidding. Also, the same day, my friend was just like "My butt hurts." Then she says "Haha let me check that out for you then", and she touched it lightly... In a joking way, but it still didn't feel right.Another thing is, today, when my friend and I were walking towards her, she was like "Hey (friends name)!" And I was thinking to myself... "Eh? :( She didn't even say hi to me..." But... my gf said that she is crazy about me and she really loves me and everything like that, and she said that like the 7th night we were going out... but on msn. =\ Anyways, my question is, does she still like me? Or could she be liking my friend, and not me? I mean, she says she's worried that I will like another girl and dump her in the near future, and she also says that she's afraid to get hurt again, so maybe she will hurt me, and everything will be fine for her? I don't know, but we still held hands and hugged and all the normal stuff we do like that, but it still made me sad... please help... and thanks for reading...
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well, to anwser yout first question, usually when a girl hangs out with a group of guys, there is going to be alot of flirting. So if you just want it to be you and her maybe you could take her to a movie so you 2 could talk or something.
For your second question, girls like when guys make the first moves. It sometimes lets them know you are intrested. But if you want her to make the first move, the next time you see her just go up to her and say "give me a hug" and she probably will.
good luck!!
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Well to me. As a gurl seems like shes using you to get to your friend. She prolly doesnt want to make a mistake so she wants to go out with you because she prolly likes you more then ur friend but shes not sure. So she kinda knows that she has you wrapped around your finger and that she can just go behind your back and do things like that. I mean i bet she really does like you. But if you gotta make the move all the times most likely she is using you. Making you feel like DIRT by saying things she doesnt want to get hurt. SOmething has to be going on behind your back. No gurl just say's that unless she likes the boifriends friend. I should know i done things like that. She's smart. But kinda dumb to do this to a guy so caring like yourself. If she lost you she should kill herself. The way your wrote this you sound like an AWESOME BOIFRIEND and someone who really cares about there woman. you are a god to all men. (All guys who read this follow after him this is a tru MAN) Well if i were you! Your still young date around. I can tell you now. YOU CAN DO BETTER! and also... You can prolly get a GURL TEN TIMES as better then her. She's just tryin to mess with you. I used to be exactly like her. But i stopped. I know how this gurl is thinkin. Trust me if yuo want to try and work things out with her, then let her know what im telling you and how you feel and just go on from that. I hope i gave you enough advice. If you want to ask me anymore questions im always here and available to help you. MsN my sn is SammySue2827@hotmail.com and if you want to talk to me just let me know! Leave me one. <3 sammy sam
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well, its quite possible shes falling for your bud, but ya know what? I wouldn't worry about it yet. Talk to her, she will respect you more for it, if you ask her whats going on. As far as guys doing everything first....when two people fist start going out, thats normally how it is. She will eventually warm up to you and start doing things on her own.
Take Care,
Chizz
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well it looks to me as though she is just joking around with your friend. you've only been together for 10 days. so it doesn't seem too serious. so i wouldn't jump the gun and think she has the hots for your friend. try not to worry about it. it was kind of rude of her to say hi to your friend and not you. so that seems a little fishy. but i have no idea why she wouldn't say hi. yes most guys make the first moves.
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Yes, guys normally make the first move. And my advice to you would be just talk to her about it. Thats the great thing about relationships, you have the right to confront your partner about problems with the relationship. Im sure she doesnt realize what shes doing. So just talk to her and it should be fine. Hope I helped :)
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well talk to her tell her how u feel...this is coming from a girl ok and if something is bothering a girls boyfriend she wuld rele like to kno...so she can fix it....im sure shes just being nice to yer friend! and if she duz like him then tell her she should go out w. him instead of u...but alot of the times girls like wne guys make the first moves....but just talk to her kay hun! good luck!
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to your first qustin yes she still likes you and ya guys usaelly make the first move but if she ever huge a guy frist then dose not huge you and then stands next to him she propleley likes him !
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What are you complaining about? She obviously likes that other guy. It has only been ten days, you can't be hanging out all the time.
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yea guys usually do make the first moves..i think..and talk to her about it. if she says that she loves u than she prolly does. talk to her about it!!..good luck..
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Hey hun. Okay. I'm not going to say you shouldn't or should be with her. She most likely has feeling for you friend though. You really should bring your girlfriend around your friends unless you really trust her and you know you love each other a lot. But it sounds like she likes your friend. If you want to get her back, hang out just the two of you. And about the first move thing, some girls are shy, and don't really want to do it. lol
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You shouldn't be with her. She doesn't want to get hurt, so why should you? Just tell her that even if she says she loves you like crazy, it still doesn't feel right and that it bugs you. You can still be friends, and maybe one day she WILL like you, just not at this very moment. Also, if she says your going to dump her anyway, then what is the point on being her boyfriend? She doesn't even act like you both are going out with each other so yeah...Dump her.
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My advice to you is to talk to her about how you feel. She may not realize how she's making you feel. Most of the time talking does work. And with the hugging and hand holding, she should also be making an effort to hold your hand and be the first to give you a hug. You shouldn't have to make the first move all the time. Like they used to say: "It takes two to tango", you can't do the dance with out a partner. Hope I have been of some help. ~Candy the Wiccan
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Uhm.. Well.. wow.... yea Guys usually have to do things first... to lyke reassure us chickz.. lol and.. yea i think she likes you. she prolly just doesnt know how to express her feelings for you. She's prolly just nervous... Hope I could help...
.-.Laura.-.
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TRUST ME, the guys alllllwaysss make the first moves..After awhile she will start being the one to make the moves, etc. If shes still with you and acting the exact same way as she was in the beginning, she still really likes you. Like if she is still sayin to this day, "i like you so muich and im scared ur going to dump me for another girl", etcetc then she still REALLY likes you!!! I would talk to your guy friend about it though and be like dude i think my girl likes you..and like hint it alot to him that ur uncomfortable bouT the situation and if hes a go0d friend he'lL baCk oFf. also hint it to your gf cause shes being way too big of a flirt..
love kristin
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