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I just got a job and was late on my 3rd day. I am late to almost everything. As you can see I am far from perfect, but I accecpt myself as me. I'm not perfect in school, actually I am going to summer school this summer, but to me, it's not that big of a deal. Things don't phase me like they do other people...
I am a little spoiled. My dad lets me keep his credit card and gives me money on it that he doesn't even have. My mom gives me her debit card way to often and usually is to ditzy to notice what I do on it. I love my parents. My grandmother is pretty rich and gives me money to come visit her...and sent me money to buy stuff for work...she sent me way more than I needed and I love her very much too! =)
I lost my grandpa 2 years ago and i miss him to this day. He was one of those people that you can't forget and no matter how much pain it causes you to think of them, you never even want to forget them, becuase you feel somewhat empty. He was one of the greatest people to me and I love him and miss him very much and cant wait until we meet up again.
When i'm am not working or not in school...i sleep as late as possible and stay in my pj's all day. I am not one of those people that gets dress to sit at home. I will go out in my pjs if i have to. To me, what people think about me is not as important as what I think about myself.
Some of my favorite things:
tv, movies, summer, not having school, beach, vacations anywhere, music (country and alternative rock), my mom (she is hilarious and i couldnt live without her...shes one of my best friends), my job (i love making money), my car, my fanily.
I am very typical but unique in my own way. I can sing very good, by myself in my car or in the shower...thats it! When i get bored I love to color...but i am really 16...not 10.
I have been through so much...my parents were divorced when i was 2 and i lived with my mom...she has had many boyfriends, and we have lived with a few...she has been engaged and married once before. That was really hard on me, harder than she or anyone thinks.
1. i had to leave all my friends and move an hour away to somewhere i had never lived before and move in with people I bearly knew.
2. i am an only child and the man she married had 2 kids. peroid.
Dont get me wrong, I loved his kids but when you are an only child for 15 years then get mixed with a 13 year old boy and a 9 year old girl that are used to getting everything they want and never doing anything....cant be good.
Me and his daughter got really close and as much as I dont like to admit it, it really hurt me when we couldn't be step sisters anymore. and her brother, he and I were alike in some ways and not in others, he was very carcastic like me which isnt always a good thing but sometimes is. We got along but i was shy and he was a little to. But we had just gotten used to each other when my mom told me they were getting a divorce...i wasn't suprised.
There are many other things about me that I am not going to bore you with because I want you to get to the end without falling asleep...if you have even gotten this far...
Now if you have read this far already which i really dont think you have...then you can ask me a question. I like giving advice...it makes me feel wise, and people tell me i am not to bad at it...so go ahead...its its stupid...you will feel the warth of my sarcasim....but its serious...then i will be as serious as my sarcasim permits....so just find out.
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I have this friend and lately her parents divorced. At first she wouldn't tell me but then she did and she started crying. I feel really bad for her, how can i make her feel better? She keeps on saying that people will think that she is a divorced child.. But she really isn't. Shes so nice.
You need to tell her that many, many children have divorced parents. I do. I don't know how old ou guys are but you sound around 12-15 and thats a really hard age to take the divorce of your parents. Tell her that people don't look at her differently because her parents are divorced, it doesn't change her personility. Yes, it will be hard for her and as a friend you need to understand and be there for her because it will be very hard. But life isn't fair and she will have obstacles in her life that she will have to overcome and unfortunatly thins is one of them. Tell her that you are there for her to talk and listen and she will get through it an people won't look at her differently. She couldn't control her parents getting divorced, it happens everyday. Make sure she knows that you are there for her.
Hope this helps!
Sarah
When I'm making out with my boyfriend, he always gets a boner. I'm like right on top of him so it really turns me on. Is this happening to him because I'm turning him on? I'm a 15 year old girl so I don't know alot about this.
Thanks,
~*~Amy~*~
yep...thats pretty much turning him on...guys just show it in a more 'obvious' way then girls...
I'm looking for a nice dress for the end of the year band banquet but i dont know where to do besides Macy's and JCPennys...is there any other store you recommend i can go to for some dresses...i want the nice long dresses, almost like prom but it doesn't have to be fluffy. thanks in advance!
Davids Bridal!
They have very cute prom-like dresses!!!
anyone have any birthday ideas for a boyfriend?
you can go to www.findgift.com and put in some info and it will give you some ideas!!
Hope this helps!!
I have very curly hair. Not like super tight curls but its verry curly, puffy, and frizzy. What can I do to help keep the frizz down?
you can try a frizz-ease sirum (you can get it at drugstores) and put that in before you blow-dry your hair (not very much...just a dab) and straighten your hair with a straightening iron...it does wonders!!!!
Where can i get im sorry greeting cards?
try any store that sells any kind of card!!...they always have some im sorry ones...gosh...its not that hard to figure out!!!!
well i have this problem. my sister and i moved to another country and we left everything behind because she could be with her husband. are there any good sites that i could do a work at home job or anything like that. i really need the money so we can move bak to the states. thanx a bunch.
I RATE HIGH
there are these sites with surveys on them that if you do them, they send you checks in the mail. you can just go on google and put in surveys for money or something like that and it will give you some information on how to do them!!
Hope this helps and good luck!!
Sarah
im so sick of not having a bf. im 13, 5'1" 128 lbs. blonde perfect teeth, no braces. anything a guy would want! the thing is i have NEVER had a bf. my frend has and she is really really unattractive. she has hideous crooked yellow teeth and puffy frizzy hair. i dont mean to be mean but i really hate the fact that an ugly grl has had 7 bfs and i had none. please please help!
wow you are a bitch...that is probably why you dont have a boyfriend!!!!!
Most real guys dont date you because you look good...they date you if yall can get along and have common interests...
you havent had a boyfriend because you are mean and conceited and guys dont like that...unless you can get over these facts then you will never have a boyfriend because if they know you at all they know what you are like....rude, mean, conceited, cocky...which are all turn offs!!!!
and you say this girl is your friend and yet you say so much shit about her...maybe guys like her because she is nice and doesnt make fun of her friends.
I dont really give a shit on what you rate me because i am speaking the truth and people know it...the people that answered nice to you only want good ratings but i dont care!!
you are a bitch and i would feel very sorry for anyone who had to go out with you!!
Sarah
okay, for all you iditos who anwser questions with rude anwsers..go away now..because you arent wanted..
this one i would probaly like a girl to anwser..but hey, i dont care
okay, im 6th grade(girl of course)..corny but hey, and i like this guy..everyone says that we would look really good together, and i know him well. this is my 3rd year of being in the same class as him, we hang out together sometimes, and we basically sit next to eachother. well, his gf just broke up with him, althogh it wasnt a real relashonship..they never really liked eachother..well, i don't know if he likes me or not..we get along great and all..and well, i really want him to ask me out! he is so nice and funny, caring also..i always said that i would never have a bf until like 7th or 8th grade..cuz the relashonships are never real..but how can i clue him to like ask me out? or how can i get clues as to if he likes me or not? i really need help on this one..sorry for the length
signed..
need help!
why dont you just ask him out...i know sometimes its hard but he may think it is really cool that you have so much courage to do it. (btw- just because you LOOK good together, doesnt mean you will be good together...its not all about looks...but yall are only 6th graders...have fun)
Hope this helps!
Sarah
My mom doesn't want me to get braces because she thinks my teeth are fine. But I think I do need them because there are like 3 teeth that aren't straight. Well we had a huge argument over this and now she's mad at me. But anyhow, I got my seperators today and they are really annoying. Do they hurt the day after? And when I get my braces will they hurt? Also, what should I do about my mom-situation?? She's not talking to me and she's very pissed that I am getting braces.
the separators are just the begining. but yours won't be as bad as most people's because you will only have them for 6 months on only 6 teeth...they will hurt at times but not to bad for u...try having them for 2 years or more and on every tooth...it gets annoying!!
If your ortho says you need them and you want to get them (dont know why anyone would want to...but) i guess to make your self feel better about your look (eghhh...everyone cares about peoples look!!) them i dont understand why your mom has such a problem with it...she should want you to be happy and you should tell her that...ask her why she has such a problem with it and whats so bad about it...you will only have them for 6 monthes...i have had mine for 2 years on every tooth but i am getting them off in 14 days...i am very happy about that...
but just talk to her and tell her this is something that you really want and it would make you feel better about yourself...
hope this helps!
Sarah
hey. okay i have some stretch marks on my boobs, and im very slef concious about them. none of m friends have them. my boobs arent even that big either! why did i get them, and what can i do to get them go away? i'm afraid to do anything sexual witha guy because im embarresed. i cant wear low shirts because of it. what can i do to maek this go away?
i know a lot of girls who have them and it is very normal to get them...i have them...=/
try using coco butter even though i have heard it doesnt work for some people...also try vitamin E oil, i have heard that works!
They will never go away completely but they will go down a lot!
Hope this helps!
Sarah
i am a freshmore(15) any ways moving on i have a boyfriend whome i love very much and i assume he loves me to anyways hes the greatest any ways we had sex recently for the first time and now evrey time i see him he i guess think he want s to go that far evy time but i dont know..... i love him (an dim on birth control and he uses condoms) but im still scared. ami i just over reacting... and i know its not cause im not sure if i like him because i know i would give up every thing for him and he would give any thing for me so what shouls i do.......
apoolgy for it bing so long
~lauren~
It sounds like you were ready the first time but with most guys, once they get it, thats all they ever want...so without words, you have kind of told him that he can have sex with you whenever he wants.....if your ready and you have no problems and you are using contriceptives then i dont see a problem. most girls, after sex, feel like you do..dont worry....
hope this helps!
Sarah
ps. what is a freshmore??...at my school we have freshmen and sophmores but no freshmores...
20, male.
Okay, the girl I'm going out with and I are sitting watching TV. We've only been dating for a few days, but I've been her friend since before elementary school. She mentions a mutual friend was talking about a movie that we passed. So I, the idiot that I am, accidently call her by the friend's name. She pulled away from me for a few seconds, and then went into my arms again.
I explained that it was only because she mentioned her name seconds before, but is that enough? Should I try to explain in detail that I have no feelings for this other girl or should I drop it?
I think that if she dropped it, then it's okay for you to do the same. If you notice her acting differently and she says thats the problem then yes, you should explain how it happened. But I think as long as she is okay with it and knew it was a mistake then I think its fine.
i've been using this 3step acne thing called proactiv. i'm sure most of you know what it is, theres alot of infomercials on tv about it. anyway, i've been using it for about 2 weeks now and it dries up my face alot and it makes my face sting or feel numb and makes it extremely red. does anybody know how i can get rid of this? because i dunlike my newfound redness on the face. please help! thanks in advance
I use proactiv and sometimes it does make my face dry. When that happens, i use less of the #3 bottle. But it should not be making it very red. You may be allergic to this product. (i am allergic to many chemicals in make-up and face products so i have to be very careful about these things but i have never had a problem with proactiv)
You may want to see a dermatoligist if it doesn't go away.
Hope this helps!
--Sarah--
i think I'm pregnant... my preganancy test came out negative but i have the symptoms. Im 15, and i dont know who the dad is. And i dont want a baby... what can i do?
no rude bitches....
Take another pregnancy test. If I were you I would take it two more times. If they are both negative then wait a while. You can't really see symptoms of pregancy until you have been pregnant for about 2 weeks. If it has been less than 72 hours since you had sex then you can go to an ER and get an emergency comtriceptive and take it. That will keep you from getting pregnant. Also, if it has been longer than 72 hours then take the test again. Then, see when your period is supposed to come and they have those tests where you can take it like 5 dyas beofre your period. Try everything to find out. And I would recommend not having sex so much with so many different guys (since you dont know who the father would be) because you ronly 15 and you have your life a head of you and it would be so much easier to live it without a baby right now. And also, what 15 year old does want a baby.....??
I hope this helps and i hope a wasn't a "rude bitch"
--Sarah--
EDIT: if you were raped you should really tell someone...and if you are pregnant, you could think about adoption if you dont want to have an abortion...there are people out there that cant have kids and want to and you could make a family very happy. But you deffinitly need to tell someone, anyone!
I watched Man on Fire a few hours ago, and after crying really hard I started crying even more when it said Mr. Creasy died on 12.16.2003. Now I'm confused, is Man on Fire based on a true story or not? If it is, I think I'm going to cry again. Thanks to anyone who helps.
Yes, this movie was based on a true story.
O.k. I have a.d.d. and all my teachers Know it, but they push me to hard. I told them about my issue just in case they forgot, but they still push me to hard. Should I tell my parents? One of my teachers was going to give me a d-hall for talking, which iz stupid. Wat should i do about all of this? Sighned, Confused
Well I think you should definitly talk to your teachers and your parents, but you need to know that you can't use a.d.d as an excuse. I know that it can be bad but its just another obstacle you have to overcome. Everyone has different things wrong with them and some are worse than others, but its definitly something your teachers need to know and remember about you. I hope this helps!
--Sarah--
Ok, there is this boy named David in 1/6 of my classes. He sits in the last seat in the row next to me. My friend sits right behind me and whenever I turn to talk to her, I catch David staring at me and we suddenly make eye contact. Out of that infomation ( I might add more ), do you think he likes me?
umm...it may just mean he was looking at something close to you an dwhen you turned he just looked at you as an instinct...making eye contact is not that big of a deal....
Can anyone give me step by step instructions on how to make home-ade brownies. Please include ingrediants. Thanks.
get in car, go to store, get brownie mix in box, get bowl and spoon, mix the mix with the ingredients on box, most likely eggs and oil, pour in pan, bake in oven for hte temp and time on box, take out of the oven with oven mits, place on counter, wait to cool, cut into squares, eat!
Hey...
I was wondering how to get summer-ready when you know that you'll be around guys! I mean everything from the perfect bikini that's sexy but not slutty, the perfect exercises to make me tight and toned, and how to get invited to the best parties...most of my friends are having beach/pool/waterpark parties and I often see *really* hot friends fro school at the local pool, and I want summer love (lack thereof) or a fling or something that can boost my reputation and gain me some friends...aka get me into the popular circle...since I'm friends with like half of the popular people! Anyway, also, if it helps, I'm just under 5 feet am 13 and have an 'A' cup...and I'm thin except for my inner thighs and my abs...I'll rate high...
Amy
*WOW* and your only 13?!?!?! and your not even 5 feet
what is the world coming to!!