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i am a freshmore(15) any ways moving on i have a boyfriend whome i love very much and i assume he loves me to anyways hes the greatest any ways we had sex recently for the first time and now evrey time i see him he i guess think he want s to go that far evy time but i dont know..... i love him (an dim on birth control and he uses condoms) but im still scared. ami i just over reacting... and i know its not cause im not sure if i like him because i know i would give up every thing for him and he would give any thing for me so what shouls i do.......
apoolgy for it bing so long
~lauren~
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And you mean before you had sex he didnt want to fuck you?
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my best friend had the same problem sex changes everything. it makes your feelings stronger and more powerful. but as lucky for my bets friend they werent honest with theyre feelinds about eachother and were scared to talk to eachother dont make yourself seem easy if you dont want to have sex put it down on the table. my friend was pushed into sex and came back to me crying and how much she wishes they talked they broke up and they talk but they fight way to much just be open to talk and dont hold anything back communication is big in relasionships, and it is key. please tell me how it works out.
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luv Britt
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It sounds like you were ready the first time but with most guys, once they get it, thats all they ever want...so without words, you have kind of told him that he can have sex with you whenever he wants.....if your ready and you have no problems and you are using contriceptives then i dont see a problem. most girls, after sex, feel like you do..dont worry....
hope this helps!
Sarah
ps. what is a freshmore??...at my school we have freshmen and sophmores but no freshmores...
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Oh my god, have you ever reread over whatever you type? Because you should, and fix your mistakes.
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After having sex, nothing is perfect, you aren't automatically happy and everything will suddenly go well. Sex fixes nothing, not even the smallest problems, so what you're feeling is just sad feelings, confused of if you should have done it now, and then you start to feel regretful, so you are feeling temporary sadness, and soon, you'll feel good about the choice you made, if you are scared that you will become pregnant, then you might not want to do it, you're still at risk, but you aren't at a high risk, especially with using the condom and the pill.
-TheTeenGirl
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You are being perfectly normal. Once you have had sex once, you lose a little of the innocence from the relationship. Of course he will be wanting it every time, he's a teenage male. But it is naturally to feel odd if you feel that the relationship has all become about havign sex and lost all of its initial appeal. Just talk to him. Tell him you don't always want to go that far and don't want it all to be about having sex all of a sudden. It wasn't before. Take it at your own speed and he will just have to slow down and be a little more patient.
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If you are scared or having doubts then don't do it.Just because you did it once does not mean you have to keep it up.If he loves you he will understand and will wait until you're ready.
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Your not over reacting at all. Once you do have sex with your boyfriend, they're going to be wanting it more. That's just how guys are and girls are a lot different. Yeah, it's not going to hurt to actually have sex sometimes. But other times you just need time to cuddle and do the things you used to do, before you did have sex. You just need to talk to your boyfriend and explain your feelings towards this. And since he loves you, he'll understand.
♥ Krissy
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with good reason, he does want sex all the time, thats how guys are.
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