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Hey!My name is ashley.I'm 17 and I live in Michigan!My friends always come to me for adive and i LOVE giving it.Feel free to ask me anything, i'm open minded on most issues, so I won't judge you!If you ever need more help, dont hesitate to im me!Also,rate my advice so i know how im doing and how i could improve.and if u want add me on myspace myspace.com/x0xfuturemrsgottix0x.thanks!







[A]ge~16
[B]est Friends= Kayla,vera,toni,angie,amy,crystal
[C]olors~ Pink
[D]ream boy~ JOHN GOTTI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!mMmMmMm
[E]yes~ Green
[F]avorite food~ My grandma's italian cooking
[G]reatest thing~ Friends and Family
[H]obbies~ Hangin out with friends, shoppin,parties, and having fun!
[I]'m alwayz~ Smiling and having a good time
[J]ob~ Hopefully NEVER!
[K]razii~ Sometimes =)
[L]ocation~ Harrison Township,Michigan
[M]ovie~ Scarface,a bronx tale,heat
[N]ame~ Ashley
[O]bession~ Music, boys, and clothes
[P]arty?~ Love to!
[Q]uote~ "Chi troppo vuole nulla stringe"-One that wants too much holds on to nothing.
[R]ace~ Italian and Swedish
[S]creen Name~ sp0iled shedevil
[T]alent~ I just have so many ;)
[U] suck?
[V]ery best thing about me~ im fun!
[W]orst thing about me~ I can get a lil wild
[X]treme sports~ Love em!
[Y]awns?
[Z]odiac~ Cancer
















advice

as u know by now my grandma tried too kill herself.she was nerly dead but my uncle caught her just in time.i dont know what im going to do now i feel angry,upset and cheated.im angry cos shes so selfish how could she do that.i cant face her nad i cant talk to her anymore.any know how i can start talking again?i want to cos i know she hasnt got long left.plse reply swn bfor its too late.xx

Well you have to understand alot of elderly people attempt suicide because they feel alone.If you don't talk to her it will just make it worse.Remember she's your grandma and shes loves you, and you should love her no matter what.



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Every time I'm at a wedding or see a wedding on t.v., it's always a religous wedding.


So my question is, what happens at a no religous wedding?


Thanks.

At a non-religious wedding they dont have the same vows, and they arent given by a preacher or a priest.besides that its pretty much the same.



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I'm really confused, and surprised. I talked to my friend today, and we were talking about how I'm interested in Witchcraft, and then she said "Are you telling me you're a witch?"and I got kinda uncomfortable and Was like,"not really"cause I'm interested in it but I'm not one..yet. And then I asked what she thinks a witch is, and she rattled off all the storytale things, and I was really surprised. I'm trying to explain to her what modern "white"witches are, but I'm doing the best I can, but I dont know if thats good enough, I cnt eactly tell her to go look it up online.

Okay first of all it's none of her buisiness what you're into.If you're interested in witchcraft ,then so be it!If she can't accept you for who you are ,then she isn't a good friend.



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ok... i am a little overweight and I like this guy who is really cute. and my parents own a pizza joint so everytime we get in a fight (which is like everyday), he says that i get loaded from my parents shitty pizza... and i get really offended and i still really like him... should i still be his friend? should i block him from my screen name? help please

Well that is rude what he says,but people say alot of mean things when theyre mad.Give him another chance.If you tell him that offends you and he still does it, forget him.



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what are the major symptoms, and is there any physical appearance with a yeist infection?

It will itch alot down there, and you'll get a weird discharge that you've never had before, that color and texture is different than the usual.Also it might smell funny down there too.



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Is it neccesary, in Witchcraft,or Wicca, To cast a cirlce even while doing a simple spell??Please answer, i need help.

I have a friend who used to do that,and yes you always have to cast a circle before every spell,its supposed to protect you or something.



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I'm looking for an online forum/bbs/message board that is for teens that has like fashion, trends, recipes, pixels, etc. I rate 5 everytime someone posts a forum! Thanx

MYJELLYBEAN.COM!!!!!!!!It's an amazing message board you'll get addicted to it!


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Ok, my head hurts really bad. Its not a headache ( I know when I have a headache) and Its kind of a weird feeling, like my head is a melon and everytime I lay down or bend over, my head feels like its goign to fall off. My nose is all stuffy and I have no idea if I am getting sick or what. What do you think this is, the flu? What should I take (over the counter) to help me get better? Thanks

It sounds like you have a really bad sinus infection.Just go to the doctors and he'll prescribe medicine and it'll go away soon!



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when it comes to tryin to get a guy...how do know when ur tryin too hard, or not hard enuff.Or wen u should give up...??

You know you're trying to hard when you repeatidly call him,follow him around and get really annoying with questions lol.You should give up if you've let him know you like him and he shows no interest.It saves the heartache.



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I have a friend who I want to take on vacation with me thi summer. Only I don't want my other friends to be hurt and mad. I have some friends who are very tepermental and stuff. Don't tell me not to tell them, because I know the secret will get out. What should i do???

Who cares if they get upset.There is no reason to be upset because they should know you can only take one friend with you.Just tell them, and if they get pissed about it tell them if you could take all of them you would but you cant so deal!lol



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is it okay to wear a black hat (like the french type of hats) when you're wearing a black dress, black sandals, and nude tights? and the dress is like 3 inches above the knee...

Well always remember wear what you like.I think that sounds really good together,try a silver necklace and matching earrings it would look so cute!


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I just started at this new school, although i;ve been there about 2 yrs ago. I met up with an old friend and we feelin eachother. But me..i aint the type of girl who haves boyfriends in school cuz they be acting immature. He's a year older then me....But im trying to see if i should give this a chance. holla back

I think you should give it a chance.You never know,he may be different than all the other high school guys.Good luck!


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hey i had my period and i dont wanna tell my mom. but how do i get the pads and tampons and stuff? and how do i explain it when i get cramps and stuff


help meeeee

Well why wouldn't u wanna tell your mom?But yeah u can buy them anywhere pretty much, tampons are usually $4.99 a box at CVS.



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ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a grade younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..

im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals

he seems to flirt or whatever with me...like he will sometimes hug me or hell run from me n make me catch him..idk

i will most likely see him 2morro @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off?

So you want him to know u like him without saying straight up that u like him?Well first ask him if he likes your best friend, and if he asks why be like oh i was just wondering, and if he says no be like is there anyone you like?keep talking like that with eye contact and maybe he'll catch on.sorry if i don't really make sense its kinda hard to answer but i hope i helped!and to let her know ask her if she would get mad if someone else liked him, and just go from there.


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i am 13/f, and i know this sounds really gross. but can you have a pimple on your (down there). when i was putting on my jeans the other day it started to hurt. and when i got out of the shower there is this big bumb down there. its kind of white on the top. which to me looks like a pimple. what can i do? i'm scared. how can i get rid of it? I RATE 5's!!!

ps. i am not a virgin, but its just now showing up and the last time i had sex was 3 months ago.

You should go to the gynocologist.I don't wanna scare you or anything, but it could be an STD.It may be a pimple too, but just go to the gyno to see if its serious.



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hi i hav never worn fake nails until today. I like wearing them but they feel sooo weird. Does the feeling go away or does it stay?

It goes away after a few days.I was the same way when i first got fake nails.



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I'm 16 and a serious over-talker, especially when I'm excited or nervous. People get very irritated with me, and I don't know how to stop. Please help me break this habit.

~Gabby

BREATHE!relax when you're talking.try not to get too excited.


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I broke up with my girlfriend last summer and i cant let go of her. I dont know what to do but I love her and i dont know what to do. HELP!

Awww well it may be you still have feelings for her, and you didn't really want to break up.Take a while and think about everything,and decide if you want her back or not.And you should talk to her to see if she feels the same way.


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im REALLY tiny, only 5'1 and 120 lbs. i have HUGE boobs, and they keep getting bigger. im a size 34 DD, and i cant even buy a shaped cup bra cause they dont even fit. my bra rides up my back from my boobs pulling down on it. theyre so big that i have to wear two bras just to keep them up. i dont even know where i can find a bra that will work for me, because the cups kinda cut thru my boobs and give me "bubble boob." im a size 5, and i had to buy a size 12 formal dress just to fit my boobs, and it was WAY too big. my boobs pop open the buttons on button up shirts. SERIOUSLY i know this is a dumb question but what the hell can i do?

I think there are stores or catologs that have clothes just for girls with your body type.Look it up on google.


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how do you get music on your column?? Please answer as soon as possible. Thanx.

Go to starlightmks.com and click on music.when you find the song you want press ctrl then c to copy it, then go to your profile setting and under where you wrote the information about yourself, paste that link in there,put a few spaces in between tho.need any more help leave it in my inbox!=)


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