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Q: hey... well i kiinda have a problem.. well there is this guy dat i like and this weekend we wanna hang out and fool around... but i have my period do u think i shud postpone the hanging out? cuz i dont want 2 give a hand job and than he cant return the favor... like he knoz i have it but i dont want it 2 get carriied away and he 4gets bout it.. i need help ASAP!!!
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i'd say go anyway, but if u guys are planning on fooling around, it might be kind of awkward if your caught up in the moment and then you hafta tell him to stop. listen, if u think you can hang out with him without letting things go too far, than go for it. but if not, i'd ask him if u guys can hang out next weekend.
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Q: ok i sprained my ankle back in september and ive been going to therapy for the past month does anyone know how to get rid of the pain
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i know exactly how you feel...sprained ankles feel like they never go away. every night put ice on it- it seriously works wonders. if your playing a sport, get arch supports for inside your shoe- i did this during soccer season, and it really helped, especially if the pain is in your lower ankle. take aleeve...and i really hope it feels better : )
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Q: Okay there's a school dance Friday night and my boyfriend asked me to go. Heres the problem...I haven't ever been to a school dance and I want to go but yet I don't and I don't know what to wear and everything...I am in eighth grade at weightman middle if that helps any.
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ok well first of all, u deffinitly should go. dances are really really fun. think about it- hanging out with a bunch of your friends, dancing to music, aand having your boyfriend there- it can't get much better. i saw someone else wrote that you can always dress up a black skirt, and thats deffinitly true. find out from one of ur friends if its dressy or not- maybe one of them can take you shopping, or go through your closet with you. dances are the best- i think you'll be happily suprised if you go. : )
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Q: I talk to the guy I like alot on AIM and alot in school. We're great friends but it seems like I always IM HIM! I don't know if he doesn't want to talk to me but when I IM him we usually get into long conversations but he never starts them. It's always me. Is this a hint he doesn't want to talk to me? If it then why do we always talk up a storm? Pleae help!!
x0x0x Hopelessly Devoted
13/F
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i was actually recently having a really similar problem...and i finally just convinced myself that guys are just as shy as we are sometimes, and just as afraid of rejection. one of my best guy friends once told me that its kind of divided up fairly- if you always im a guy first, if u guys talk on the phone, he'll be the one to call. or vice versa... if your having awesome conversations with this guy, than i wouldn't worry about it all : )..leave me one in my inbox if u need anything else
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Q: I have a boyfriend that I've been with for almost two months. I feel that I love him, but I barely see him, and he never openly talks to me. I have three other guys who like me, and I goofed the other day and cheated on my boyfriend with one of them. The guy I cheated on him with I really like, but he's got a girlfriend and can't leave her, or he won't have a place to live. I want to be with the other guy more then my boyfriend, but I can't be. Should I stay with my boyfriend?
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it kind of sounds like your really not happy in the relationship. after reading everything you said, whether u can be with the other guy or not, all of it kinda adds up to the fact that maybe you and this guy aren't meant to be. don't stay in a relationship your not happy in- no matter what you do afterwards, its really not worth it.
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Q: Hey everyone, i was just wondering if anyone had any creative ideas that you can to do make outfits look cute..like ribbon belts,studs on things..things like that..thanks a bunch :)
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try taking a simple black tank top and sewing lace along the top neckline and the bottom of it. then sew some sort of cloth flower on the right side, right where the strap connects with the rest of the shirt. the shirt ends up looking really cute.
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Q: Only answer this if you play an insturment please. I play the violin and after school I always have alot of homework and I can never get practicing in and I'm afraid the teacher thinks horribly of me, but I try on weekends to get some practicing done! Does anyone know a good technique to use so I CAN get some practicing done?
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omg i completely understand...i am terrible at finding time to practice my instrument. the best technique i've tried was to set a time with someone else. what i mean is...alright, lets say your mom was trying to make herself run on the treadmill every night. pick a time where every night at that time you would practice and she would run. or maybe one of your other friends can't find time to practice their instrument...set a time and make sure you guys each practice your instruments- maybe call each other before to complain and then finally convince each other to go do it. its a lot easier when you kind of have a commitment to practice with another person...
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Q: hey every1.okay i know ALLLL the diet tips and the right fo0ds to eat and the excerise plans, etc, alllll of it... Im about 126-127 lbs, and im 5'2..I want to go down to 120 but I dont know how to STAY on the diet..I need motivation..Like sometimes Ill just be like aww screw it and just eat w/e, then right after i eat it i feel really depressed, etc..Any tips on how to STAY on a diet and STAY motivated?? Thanks!
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...buy something, a pair of pants, a dress, a shirt, that you love, and that you know will look fabulous on you after you lose the weight, and put it somewhere so that you see it every day. whenever u start to say screw it...think of it, and how much u wanna wear it.
also...keep things around like almonds, carrots, and other raw vegetables so that when you have the craving to snack on something, you eat those instead of something thats bad for you.
your gonna do great...message me if u need any more tips- my mom is really into health and dieting and things like that, so i've got a bunch : )
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Q: ok lol...well i just started my period today (ive had it for about 2 yrs) but i got it today again....but my ? is i hav REALLY bad cramps today....and like ther extremely bad....is there nething i can do to make them go away??
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in all honesty, when i get really bad cramps, i make a cup of tea, take some aleeve (works wonders) and curl up into a little ball in the corner of my couch...it sounds stupid but the pressure on your stomache really helps them go away...
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Q: ok my bf told me he loves me when he left a mssg on his fone but he wont say it directly on the fone or in person so i just broke the ice n sed if furst last nite when i saw him and he sed it back but i sed it as i was turnin to leave so i didnt see his reaction or nothing n we both sed it like really quietly....but then he called n he didnt say it (i didnt hear my fone ring) so he lft a mssg but he didnt say it....does it mean he didnt m ean it or he didnt wanna say it again or wat? did he only say it bak so i wouldnt get mad or somethin?
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just take it slow and don't overuse it...maybe this is a bigger situation for your boyfriend than you know, and he needs time to figure how he reacts. im sure he loves you, guys just aren't always sure how to deal with all the emotional stuff.
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Q: how do u loose the flab in ur legs? besides running, because that just seems to make mine musclier (and bigger) so if you have any good leg workouts that would help~thatd be great!!
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Try these..
Lie on your back. pull your right leg into your chest, flex it back out, lift it up, and then slowly bring it back down until its right above the ground...and then go back into your chest and repeat. Do about 3 sets of 10 reps of those on each leg.
go down into a squat and hold for 10 seconds. stay in the squat and go up onto your toes, and hold for another 10 seconds. then back down for 10, back up for 10, back down and stand up.
If you need more message me, i've got a bunch.
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Q: ok i been with my boyfriend for a while n we have alot of ups and downs...i really love him...and i no i do...but he is confusing me with this whole "i love u thing" i really wanna say ti to him soooo bad! and he sed it to me first....but it was n my voicemail...he left a mssg for me and he was like i love u..bye and like when we talk on the fone he wont say it....only on mssgs! and in person he dont say it either....its really confusing me! what can i do? do i say it first? helllpp wat does this mean
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listen, if you feel ready to tell him you love him, say it first. just prepare yourself for all the responses he could have. if he doesn't answer with what you had hoped he would, remind yourself that guys are shy like that, and just because he can't say it doesn't mean he doesn't feel it.
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Q: I have this boys number and i am afraid to call him.
what should i do? call him?
if i do call him, what do i say?
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oh absolutely call him...guys like girls with confidence. put your radio on and have a station or cd you like playing in the backround...when your on the phone, bring it up. music is an awesome conversation starter.
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Q: I'm going out w/ the greatest guy ever, but unfortunately he lives like, 45 mins. away. so anyway, there's this kid, matt, at school who's always kinda had this crush on me. well 2day in school, i hugged him like usual, cuz we're such good friends, and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. i just wanna know if this is ok, cuz i would never wanna cheat on my bf.
thx
Erin
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it sounds absolutly ok with me, as long as both you and matt know its out of friendship...my guy friends and i kiss each other on the cheeks when we say goodbye to each other. don't look too much into it- i deffinitly wouldn't consider this cheating.
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Q: When i was really little, i was raped by my cousin, someone i thought i could trust. i can no longer trust people anymore, it is very hard for me. What do you think i can do to help me cope with this and how can i explain this to my friends, who always want to know why im such a cold, hard shell of a person?
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go talk to someone- it doesn't nessacarily even need to be a therapist or phsycologist, but someone you feel comfterble talking to. If you don't feel ready to tell your friends, thats ok. just let them know that you're going through some hard emotional things now, and that what you really need is just to know that they're there for you. if none of this works, going to a therapist really helps. trust yourself, and eventually you'll trust others
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Q: I have a scrapbook that I'm making for my Junior/Senior year..I'm really into decorating..but I was just wondering if anyone has any cute ideas for me to add to it..or maybe some stores where I could go to find some cute things..besides Walmart..and Joanne fabrics..are there any other places? thanks!
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Go through all your old magazines that you've gotten over the years- they have quirky and clever titles in cool looking fonts on almost every page. If you cut them out, they're awesome when used in scrapbooks.
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Q: Ok, don't think I am crazy or anything, I just DO NOT like scary movies. I end up thinking about them long after I have watched them. Now, I know the best idea is not to watch them, but unfortunatly I don't always have that choice. Any good techniques besides the simple "Remember that it is fake?" Thanks
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After you watch the movie, have your friends act them out for you- tell them to be as stupid and funny as possible. Then afterwards when you're thinking about the movie, your friends funny versions will be whats stayed in your head.
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Q: I like my guy friend, but he has a girl friend. Well last night i went to my old private schools football game. I go to a public school now so i havent seen my old private school friends in over 5 months. Well i saw them last night, and my guy friend from the school (ryan), who ive been talkin on the phone with all summer, has a girl friend. Well last night went ok, ryan and i hugged and then his girl friend got jelous and didnt want him around me. Well i texted him last night telling him how hott he was. He told me that i was really hott to. We started talkin and i really do want to go back with him. What should I say to him, cause i dont know if he wants to still be friends or maybe be more.
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tell him that you felt some chemistry between two of you at the game last night, and that you hafta know what the deal is. let him no that you've got some feelings for him, but at the same time, make sure he knows ur not the kinda girl thats gonna try and break up his relationship, or be screwing around with him while hes still with her.
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Q: last night my cousin died in a car accident because someone cut her car breaks off. we dont know who but i am soo sad all i can do is cry, please someone help me to get over this horrible loss
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i am so incredibly sorry. you, your cousin, and your family are all in my prayers. crying is absoluty ok to do if thats whats helping you right now. Don't shut yourself away from those who love you, talking to them and being with them is really what you need right now. looking at pictures or talking about memories might be painful at first, but soon you'll be laughing about all those funny things you and your cousin used to do. this may sound cliche, but ALWAYS remember that your cousin herself might be gone, but in your heart she'll stay forever.
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Q: ok... our school is one of 2 high schools in the district... and srry if this is long.. but.. the other one had a "silently loud" protest the other day b/c the principle said they couldn't wear white, black, or pink t-shirts anymore... and the guys had to cut their hair... and the no one can wear black makeup....... like eyeshadow, lipstick, etc..... and now they wanna do that to our school... we are havin a protest on monday and everyone.. well.. mostly everyone.. is wearin black... everything black...... is there any other way to get them to realize that we mean buisness.???? thnx much.... i rate.. InsaneSanityBabi
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just make sure no one's gonna back down or back out at the last minute...all those new rules sound completely crazy and i hope u guys win on this one.
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bio
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Hey...im risa, known to some as Reeses : )
I love the feeling of knowing that something i said helped someone when they were feeling confused, upset, or just in need of hearing someone elses point of view. i know it sounds corny, but im always here if you ever just need someone to tell you your not crazy. : )
Because maybe...your gonna be the one that saves me.
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Gender: Female Location: New york Age: 15 AIM: Member Since: October 25, 2004 Answers: 93 Last Update: May 9, 2005 Visitors: 6743
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