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I'm going out w/ the greatest guy ever, but unfortunately he lives like, 45 mins. away. so anyway, there's this kid, matt, at school who's always kinda had this crush on me. well 2day in school, i hugged him like usual, cuz we're such good friends, and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. i just wanna know if this is ok, cuz i would never wanna cheat on my bf.
thx
Erin
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That's okay. He kissed you, not him, you can't help him liking you, and it seems like it was just a normal, everyday thing for this guy. You didn't cheat your bf at all. ^_^
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your didn't kiss him back, so i guess its alrite
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well since its nothing serious and just a friendly kiss i wouldnt consider it cheating (check my column out and rate me..good luck;) <3)
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Its ok. As long as it was like a friendly kiss its not that bad. But just think...if someone kissed your bf on the cheek, would you get mad? Just let your friend know you guys cant be anything but friends for now.
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Well, it is ok...if and only if you feel that you are doing nothing wrong. You feel that you two are friends, just make sure that you make it clear to him that you guys are JUST FRIENDS. I hope that the relationship that you have with your boyfriend is going to go well...take care. Tommi
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I dont think its cheating/ I mean you giyz are good friends, some countrys kiss when they greet each other. I mean talk to your boyfriend about it an make sure its okay. But it really should be if he trusts you. If he doesnt trust you then maybe the relationship isnt worth it. Trust is everything.
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a kiss on the cheek is fine especially if its just a peck. its when he kisses you on the lips and you kiss back taht you ahve a problem. cheek kissing is no big deal. i mean come on french people do it all the time and tehres nothing wrong with them. ok, fine bad example. jussst kidding.
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it sounds absolutly ok with me, as long as both you and matt know its out of friendship...my guy friends and i kiss each other on the cheeks when we say goodbye to each other. don't look too much into it- i deffinitly wouldn't consider this cheating.
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Wow, it's good to know that you respect your boyfriend so much and would never wanna cheat on him! That's definitely a good thing. =) Now with the whole kiss on the cheek thing... well as long as it didn't mean anything to you, I don't really see it as that big of a deal. But I would tell your bf about it to prevent any future problems. Just tell him once and don't talk about it again cuz then he might think you enjoyed it. Good luck!
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Hi Sweetie,
Aww, that's cute! (About you wanting your boyfriend to live closer and not wantig to cheat on him and saying he's the greastest guy ever...)
Back 2 your concern. Well if you aren't attracted to this OTHER guy romantically and you're secure about your relationship with your boyfriend then its NOT CHEATING. HOWEVER you sound a little bit insecure about your behavior (I'm only assuming...). What I would do in your place is bring up this other guy and mention the cursh a little bit. Say it however in a way that will assure your boyfriend you like him and only him. Something like "I was telling one of my friends about how much I liked you in class-you know, that friend who everyone said liked me." ...Not THAT exatly but something like that.
Let your boyfriend know this guy and you are friends. This guy likes you at some point (possibly still does... "at some point"). You're faithful to your boyfriend. You think you're boyfriend is the greatest guy ever (aww...). (let him know all that stuff)
I wish both you and your boyfriend a looong happy relationship! Best wishes Erin! Hope I was of help. ~Blessed Be...
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its alright, just tell your bf what ur crush did, and tell ur crush that you have a bf and dont feel right with him kissing you like that
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You're still safely at friendship level with this kid at school. Your conscience is telling you that if you go any further you would be violating your current relationship. Keep it where it's at, but don't lead matt on either. You're okay!!
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It's ok...he kissed you...you didn't kiss him...just don't let him do it again. Tell him you have a boyfriend and even tho its just on the cheek and all...hugging is more on the friendship level then kissing on the cheeks
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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i would say its not ok. would u like it if u found out ur bf had other girls kissing him on the cheek? i wouldnt. i think its not right and u need to put an end to it b4 something else happens, he obviously likes u so u need to talk to him and tell him u have a bf and tht it doesnt feel right to have him kissing u. hope i helped ~stef~
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