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im 13/f and i weigh 135 pounds. am i fat? if it helps, i look like this:
http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j182/Babiixbrunette/024.jpg
i will only rate if you are completely honest.
and be honest because i am trying to lose 10 pounds and i need to know if it's worth it (link)
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you are like so not fat. but if you wanted to, you could lose 10 pounds because 13 year olds are like normally around 110-120. unless your like supertall (its good to be tall)
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how do you have cyber sex? like what is it and where do you have it? also what is phone sex? i dont understand.. (link)
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cyber sex is like talking dirty and stuff online, and pretty much they have like chatrooms for that. (like on aim, the chatrooms are all like uhh lets say NOT pg lol) phone sex is just talking over the phone in sexual ways like saying im giving you head right now hmm i dunno
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hey, how do you put a pic on your advice colum
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the best way is to go to tinypic.com, and upload a pic there. then just copy the url that they give you, and put it where it says url under profile settings.
this way is a lot better that the uploading a pic on advicentators.com, because normally they will say that it is too large or something
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how come advicenators has changed so much? a while ago.. people could ask anyone question they had. now there are all these rules and they really restrict what i am curious about. a lot of serious questions i have, have all been deleted. i dont understand this and i think it should change. (link)
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yea i TOTALLY agree with you. its too serious, and strict, which kind of takes away fun. i also HATTTTEEEEE how you cant talk to other advicenators, its called being social duhh. what is the point of adding friends if you dont talk to them
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im 13/f and i weigh 135 pounds. am i fat? if it helps, i look like this:
http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j182/Babiixbrunette/024.jpg
i will only rate if you are completely honest.
and be honest because i am trying to lose 10 pounds and i need to know if it's worth it (link)
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you are not fat at all...i think you look fine and dont need to lose 10 pounds....if you arent happy with how you look and you think your fat maybe you should just tone up your body and gain some muscle?
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hey guys. okay. me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 9 months now and weve already had sex and stuff. (idk if that will help with the answer or not..) but anyhow things used to be great until a long time ago i suggested that we dont have sex as often and then we talked and then we decided that that was dumb and not to do that. after that day though it seems like we havent really been the same. gradually it seems like we argue alot and get mad at eachother really easily and i hate that; and i know he does too. i love my boyfriend with all of my heart and it kinda seems like we both dont care about eachother anymore. there`ll be days i`ll wake up and think i dont wanna do this anymore but then there`ll be days when i looooove him so much. okay AND get this. when we get in a fight and hes being realy mean and then we suggest to take a break he`ll cry about it and expect me to just say that its okay but im not going to do that anymore. i cant. somedays it feels like we bring out the worst in eachother and i hate that. not to mention i could really do without his trust issues too. *breathes.* okay so i need some help here. what can i do to make things better with us, and get rid of the tension and arguing and crap? and to try and help him get over trust issues? i love my BF so much and i dont want to loose him but that seems my only option other than ignoring him the rest of the night these days. please help! it would be GREATLY appreciated. =)
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Hellooooo. For starters; we fight with the people we care about the most because those are the relationships we're willing to risk. Do not ignore him, try talking. If that doesn't work, then try bringing up old memories, good ones. No one can trust you, unless you trust yourself. Take some time, learn to trust yourself, and strangers. Trust him with your heart, your secrets, and your life, trust he won't drop you. If you love him, you won't give up on this relationship. Talk to him about getting sexual, don't let it get in the way of a wonderful relationship. If worst comes to worst, try counseling, it works, I'm a peer mediator at a local school, I work with these kinds of problems everyday.
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i have had feelings for this guy and my bestfriend has known this for years
i've heard he likes me too but sometimes he's so sweet and sometimes he's an ass to my face and teases me........the only reason i keep having feelings for him is bc deep down i can tell he likes me.
my bestfriend just had her heart broken from another guy and i helped her through everything........i was always with her encouraging her and bringing her flowers and crying with her.
a week later we were at a part.....i walk into a room and she is hooking up with the guy i like!!!
i can't begin to explain how bad that felt. i mean he's the reason i come to that party. he's the person i dress up to impress. i've liked him foreverrrrr! and my bestfriend???
so the next day i talk to her and tell her that she really hurt me. and she says she was drunk and she didn't know what she was doing. i tell her whatever and just move on.
but then the next week. i was at a party and i can't find her again! so i go upstairs and she's hooking up with him again!!!!!
by now i am sooooooooooooooooooooooo mad and sad and frustrated i just leave. i figure she's doing this bc she had her heart broken and she's trying to do it to me so i can feel it too.
the next day i talk to her and tell her she's being so low and i don't know what's going through her mind!!! she says she has feelings for him too. she's never told me that. and there's no reason i should be mad bc he's not my "property" and that when he starts making out with her......should she stop and tell him i can't bc my best friend like you too!
and then she also says the reason he's an ass to you sometimes is bc he just doesn't like you! you need to come to realize he does not like you!
and now i think she's going to start dating him.
she's been my bestfriend for 9 years. and i do everything with her.i don't want this to ruin our friendship. but i think it is already.
i feel like i've lost the guy i've always wanted and my bestfriend at the same time and i have no one to talk about it with.
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omg she is a bitch! i seriously dont think you two need to be friends anymore...or at least have some time apart for a while. and i honestly think that you should talk to that guy and just tell him how you feel. if you need anyone to talk to please feel free to email me at browneyedgurl_1015@yahoo.com
i am so freaking sorry about what happened i cant even imagine how you are feeling right now.
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http://www.xanga.com/LYKEWOAH_AiMPROS
can someone tell me the name of that song? (link)
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It's forever (or 4ever) by The Veronicas.
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My mom told my dad three days ago that she wants a divorce. My mom is unhappy and our family is nothing but fighting. My mom told my little brother who is 13 about this today. he is taking it pretty hard. He is also blaming me when i have nothing to do with it. it rally upets me because my brother is saying this whole thing is my fault. well my dad wants to do counsling. he thinks he can change everything but he cant. my mom doesnt want to live like this. so im supose to move out with my mom and my brothers supose to move out with my dad. Im not sure what the question in this is but ive never moved before. my dad mentioned couple years ago that he was going to leave and me my mom and my older brother cried about it. my little brother was to young to understand. im just looking for advice please help (link)
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Hey there. Keep up hope. It's about the only thing you can do in a situation like this. Counseling does work though. I am a peer mediator at a local school, I work on friendships/boyfriend|girlfriend relationships/family fueds/enemies. It really does work, so give it a shot. Things will eventually work out. It maybe confusing to you now, but you just have to wait it out. Don't worry.
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My life pretty much sucks all thanks to this one girl Linda. This is why ; In 3rd grade she took my #1 best friend away from me. Soon, I got over it. Now all thanks to her I met this guy Paul. I can hardly even stand him. Because May 30, we went out, and then he broke up with me 5 days later. I was crushed. July 21, he fell back inlove with me. [Again], 5 days later he broke up with me
Here is the worst part. Today was Linda's party. I tried and tried to loose weight, but my stupid body is to fat. Anyways I went to her party. Amy was there. Amy is really pretty. I really dislike Amy. She was like "ooh, i hate fat people, thats discusting" infront of my face. Paul was there. Paul did not speak to me at all, but he kept starring at me. He is really cute.
Linda's away message [on aim] said she`s going to the movies with Amy and Paul. They were making fun of Paul before.
Sometimes I feel like there is noone to talk to but god. I don`t know why that whatever I say everybody thinks it`s pointless. It has a meaning to me.
Anyways my mom doesnt seem to care about me, at all. But im fine i guess. My father passed away about 5 months ago.
I woke up today at 1. By 2, my day was ruined. Well, I imed Paul, and he blocked me. I was talking to Tyler & Tyler was like now he knows your fat.
Well guess what the 1st day of school, [Aug. 15] I am going to wow everyone. They are going to wish they never made fun of me. Nobody knows how bad I feel. It seems like nobody on this planet loves me. Also, I feel like I cannot trust anyone. Anyways, I fouund out Paul & Amy made out in the movies for 30 minuetes. Oh, how I wish i was Amy. Kyle said Linda was hot. I have to agree with him. Everyone is hot, but me. I am deffently going on a diet. =]
Right now, I don`t know how I feel. All I know is like I hate Amy. Yesterday and today were the worst days of my life. Right know it seem as if my mom hates me. Whats new? I really need to improve my life. One day im going to snap.
Right now im pretty cheered up. Guess what! Paul hates Amy! After she made out with Paul she made out with other guys. Paul apologized to me.
THIS WAS IN MY JORNAL EVERYTHING UP THERE.
Now this is just me typing. Everything seems to be so confusing. I feel unloved by everyone. Please do not recommend conseling. [sp?]
Sorry it was so long. ! (link)
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forget paul! he is a jerk....and for that amy and linda girl forget them they seem like they are just trying to make you mad because they have no life of their own...well you should hang out with some other friends or if you want you can go and make some new friends....like when school starts up you could maybe join some after school activites and meet new people.
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Ok. Im thirteen years old and I'm around 125-130 lbs. I'm not sayint i'm fat, I am just really muscular in my legs. Although, I do have alot of, un-wanted fat in my stomach. My mom says I don't need to loose weight, but that is what moms are supposed to say. I look at my friends, or family, and they are so much smaller than me. Me and my best friends share clothes all the time. But my clothes seem to be a little baggy on her. I always feel so bad. :( My question is, what are some ways I can loose weight? I would like a detailed answer please, not just "eat right and work out." thankyou so much in advance. :) (link)
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Hey!
A great way to avoid stubborn belly fat is to avoid all foods that have High Fructose Corn Syrup and Partially Hydrogenated Fats. Those really can help put on the weight, so cutting them out is really good for you.
Get out and swim! Swimming tones muscles really good and gets fat away after 30 minutes.
As with all exercises, you need to exercise 30 minutes plus to start burning fat.
Biking and running are great ways to help burn it off too.
Subsitute unhealthy snacks with healthy ones, like pieces of NATURAL REAL cheese, like mozzerella, not anything that comes out of a can or like that! Eat pieces of fruit, like strawberries.
Do abdominal exercises, like crunches, situps and the bicycle. Plenty of websites can give you ideas on those!
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I am going on vacation for a week and my neighbor has offered to water my garden and vegetables while we are gone. She is an older lady, not elderly but older. She lives next door, but we have a lot of land so it will be a hassle for her to come over and get out the hose, then roll it up again...but she offered and I need the help so I accepted.
My question is, I want to do something nice for her in return but I don't know what. I was thinking maybe a gift card to a grocery store or Wal Mart, but how much $$ is appropriate? Thanks for your advice! (link)
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First of all, that's really sweet; both on your part and hers.
For the gift card, it depends on how much you're willing to spend. I was going to say maybe like $45. I think that'd be how much I'd get her.
Something I'd suggest is you could try cooking her dinner to show her you appreciate what she's done for you. Cookie baskets are nice too (or a basket of body wash things).
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okay well.. when i get a boyyfriend.. or someone i like and things are either good or end up being bad.. i always as them stupid little questions.. and i ususally always like try and base my life on like a movie and i think about what will happen and what i want to happen so it ussually never does.. and its weird and i dont like it.. how can i stop? im 13 and a female
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Hello,
I believe all you need to do is just tell yourself everything will be Ok in the relationship. You probably get pretty nervous around people you like, which is totally understandable! You also need to tell yourself to be yourself. When you find yourself doing it stop, and start talking about something that interests you or the person you like. Don't pay attention to the movies, they are Hollywoodized and not real life. Be yourself and when you don't like what you are doing stop, and eventually it will go away.
Take a few deep breaths too, so you can stop getting nervous and relax yourself in the situation! You are 13, so have fun in your relationships!!! Be yourself, and have a great time!!!
Good Luck! I know you can do it!
P.S. Please rate!
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Dear Genevieve,
My dog keeps on jumping up on people and my guests are getting really tired of it! What should I do? I am afraid he is going to knock over my grandma!!!!!
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Hello,
This is quite a problem. The best solution to this would be to greet your dog on the ground, kneeling at his position, because when dogs jump up they are just trying to lick your face. Also, for cases like your grandma, when he jumps up, just camly grab his paws and hold him straight up. This will cause him only slight discomfort. You don't have to discipline him, just camly stand and when you see him starting to wriggle, let go. Greeting your dog on the ground is the best solution, or you can be sitting on a chair and pet the dog!
Good Luck and Keep on being a great pet owner!
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What is carpal tunnel? How do yu get it? (link)
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carpal tunnel is when your thumbs, fingers, or wrists have too much applied stress. ways you can get it are from over text messaging, using a BlackBerry too much, etc.
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what are other ways i can get rid of body hair other than shaving and waxing that won't cost much?
thanks in advice. (link)
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nair or veet are pretty cheap and good. you can buy them at any drugstore like cvs or riteaid
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how do u make the little hearts thing where you can actually see the heart???
thanks in advance (link)
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& hearts ; without the spaces
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i have this cousin who is 15 and im 13 and he is so hot and he has been checking me out and i was wondering (we are blood related) what would happen if we made out or worse. (link)
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that is sort of really wierd, but i guess you guys could make out, as long as it didnt mean anything, hmmm i dunno its just like kind of retarded. if you guys go farther than making out that is illegal.
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Me and my friends are hanging out tommorow since we havent seen eachother in a while. We want to go to the mall and buy a couple of things (not like 10 outfits because I just bought tons of clothes last week.) I will mostly just buy 1 cheap shirt & a few bracelets and accessories like that. And then we are eating at the mall probably at Subway. Then we are seeing a movie which is $10 and I might want to buy a popcorn or a drink. I don't know how much money to bring with me. If I bring too much money, I end up spending the extra money on junk that I don't need and if I bring too little, then it screws everything up. About how much money should I bring tomorrow? (link)
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a shirt should be 15-25 dollars, subway, about 5, bracelets and accessories, $25 (because neclaces normally cost about 7 dollars for one), and movie, 10
that adds up to around 50-60 dollars.
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hi, i have limewire. and i was just wondering if htere is any way i can transfer that to windows media player or to burn a cd from it?? (link)
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Yeah, go to PROGRAM FILES -> LIME WIRE -> and then shared music? or something. then find where your music is & drag it to where you want.. & there you go.
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