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hi; i'm haleigh and an eighteen year old college student at keiser university with a major in crime scene technology. i'm naturally blonde, i'm not super skinny, and i'm way too pale. i almost always screw things up and i'm nowhere near perfect. i've begun to accept myself for who i am and i'm not going to change for anyone. i was born in ohio and there are times that i miss it there. i love animals, i have four cats and two dogs. i hate spelling errors and chances are i'll correct you if you spell something wrong. my favorite television show is ncis and my favorite movies are rent, twilight, and jawbreaker. i don't read very often, but my favorite series is the twilight saga. i love the internet and i'm probably online more than i should be. i've been single for almost two years, and i hate it. my major celebrity crush at the moment is michael weatherly. i've been through more than anyone my age should have to go through, and there are very few people that i will tell about it. i can come off as a bitch, but if you get to know me and don't lie to me, i can be an amazing person. trust doesn't come naturally for me and it's hard for me to let people in completely. i'm just an average teenage girl trying to get by. if you want to know anything else about me, just ask!

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How long does a girl have her period? like how many days?

Usually somewhere between 3-7 days.
*-*Haleigh Ann*-*

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i have really small boobs *34A*and im 18 is there anyway i can make then bigger *not padded bra or fake* thx

I saw in a movie ((Sixteen Candles)) that if you eat carrots it makes your boobs bigger but I am not sure. I think its true cuz when I was little I would always eat carrots and I am 13/f and i have *38C* so yeah.
*-*Haleigh Ann*-*

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tell me your experience piercing ur own ear cartilage! please! thanx!

I wouldn't do it yourself cuz I got mine professionly done about 1 year and a half ago and it was infected for like a year and a quarter just recently has it not been infected.
*-*Haleigh Ann*-*

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This is a REALLY stupid question but, do you know those iPod commercials where the silouette of people are dancing around...well anyway, there is this one song that they have been doin latley and it sounds really cool, BUT I DONT KNOW THE NAME!! its a kinda rock song and its really fast. Does anyone know this song??? Thanks, ill rate.

I think that it is something like Walkie-Talkie Man.
*-*Haleigh*-*

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i NEED a date for homecoming and no one has asked me!! all mah friends have dates xcept ME!! i really like this 1 guy and i dunt know if he likes me!! i wish sum 1 would ask me out but i dunt know how to tell them i like them!!
HELP!~ im in seventh grade!!

Try like writing him a note and telling him that you like him and that you were wondering that if he didn't have a date for homecoming if he could take you.
~*Haleigh Ann*~

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I NEED HELP!!!!!...Ive Been Goin Out With My Bf For Like 2 Weeeks But we Knew Each Other Like 1-2 Weeks Before He Asked Me Out...Well I Talk To His Cuz A Lot(Ive Known Him For Like 6 Months) And He Told Me That His Cuz Has Another Gf Besides Me...So Last Night I Called Him And Ask Him If That Was True And He Said, "Yes , But I Didnt Kno"...(How Can You Dont Kno If Your Goin Out With Sum1????)...Well I Asked Him If He Likes Her And He Was Like, "Not As Much As I Like You....Once I Get Here From Camp ill Cut Her"...All My Friends Are Telling Me To Cut Him....But I Love Him Soooo Much To Let Him Go....What Should I Do???...Should I Cut Him???... Dont Wanna Get Hurt!..Can sum1 PLEASE Gimmie Advice...Thanx...

Well if he is cheating on you then I would cut him because he isn't worth any pain. I understand that you love him but sometimes you just have to let go. I am sorry.

*Haleigh Ann*

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Hey I am 13 and I haven't had my first kiss yet...Am I weird(sp?)

No! I am 13 too and I haven't either.

*Haleigh Ann*

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Ok, here it goes

I have pale skin and dirty blonde hair, and some freckles. What are some good make up tips for me to use?

I am the same and I wear a lightish brown eyeshadow mascara powder to cover any pimples and lip gloss and thats it
*Haleigh Ann*

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ok i have a BIG problem and im sure that it happens to a lot of people.. but whenever something happens that makes me mad i always want to kill myself and its scary cuz sometimes i almost do.. i dont no wut to do and i need some help before i actually do!!! does this mean im like mentally ill or something?? should i see a doctor or anything?? thanks..
xox manda

I wouldn't say mentally ill and I wouldn't see a doctor. Maybe a guidance counselor, social worker, or pchiatrist(sp?). Or go to church and accept the Lord into your heart.
*Haleigh Ann*

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My friend smokes..and hes 13. Im trying to ask him to quit and i give him my point of view. Ive tried almost everything in the book..so dont say talk to him. i have.

Why don't you try talking to an adult and have them talk to him that helps sometimes.

*Haleigh Ann*

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My parents wont let me get the 2nd whole pierced in
my ear but I really wanna do it. So i have dicided to do it on my own! Does any1 know how,and what i should use?? Pleaz dont earase this cuz i wanna make sure i pierce them the right way !!I'll rate high..I promise!!

You should listen to your parents cause if you do it yourself it could get infected and that would suck. Try talking to you parents again. I had to talk my mom into letting me get it done but she eventually gave in.

*Haleigh Ann*

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Hey! I have a problem....okay..I told my best friend to tell this guy that I like him and now he is nervous to even talk to me...and now I feel the same way about him.....I'm confused! What do I do?

Sounds like what just happened to me last week. Just talk to him like on the phone or online. thats what i did.

*Haleigh Ann*

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A boy deep kissed(first kiss) me and i am very paranoid about catch HIV through kissing, but should i be worried?

You can't get HIV through kissing unless his gums were bleeding or anything in his mouth was bleeding.
*Haleigh Ann*

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I was wondering if there was any way that you can see who rated you and what they rated you. I appreciate the help! And if you just want to drop in and answer this to say hello that's great too! I rate.. specially for nice people =c)

Love, RacheL
((xoRachel))

I don't think you can tell who rated you but if you go to your advice column you can click feed back and then u can see what they rated you.
*Haleigh Ann*

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My friend Harmony is always telling me that I need to let God into my life and look to him as a source of comfort. I believe that God exists, but I have doubts about whether he really cares or not. I feel like she trying to force me to believe like she does. I respect the fact that she is strong in her faith, but I don't neccesarily want to talk about it with her. She gets really offended when I say something that she doesn't think is right. When I told her that I didn't want her to tell me to go to God for guidance, she got angry and told me that at least she knew that she couldn't be open with me anymore. Am I wrong for asking her to not talk about this? How to I tell her that I would rather not talk about God without offending her?

Though she has a point about letting God in your life she had no reason to get upset with you for not wanting to talk about it with her. But God does care...
*Haleigh Ann*

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hey I was wondering if you knew where to put the codes in on your column..I have the codes I want but I just dunno where to put them...thanks !

You put it where it says other information

*Haleigh Ann*

I was rated a 2


how do u add more then one pic ??? thanx

You can't. Sorry
*Haleigh Ann*

I was rated a 5


ok, well this is long so i'll rate good.

I'm going in 2 the 10th grade this year. Last year was not the greatest for me. I had some problems with relationships and i just wasnt happy, and my grades dropped. I'm not the prettiest grl at all, and i had sum people talk about me behind my back. This year though I just want things 2 b different. I want 2 make more friends and be well liked and pretty. i just dont no how. any advice?

Just be yourself, be kind and sweet. Wear some make-up not to much though...
-*-Haleigh Ann-*-

I was rated a 5


okay.. you know some shows like 7 heaven, boys meet world, sister sisters well any ways show like that haves people tell them what to say and they read lines and bord or something.. i was wondering
like Mad tv, whoe line is it anyway and opera and trl just say things when ther on live or they read cards to?? i know sound stupid but i not it just i touhgt give me idea becouse i taking drama i agoing do something in class where you come up with somethin and make up when there word u have to be or somthing. i have lot of my mind today and asking lot of stuff see other people optaon

I think that they do read cards but I am not sure.
-*-Haleigh Ann-*-

I was rated a 5


about how much does contacts cost?! and how easy are they to use?! i rate high!

I am not sure how much they cost but there is a site where you can get free colored contacts. I don't remember the site but try a search
*Haleigh Ann*

I was rated a 5




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