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Q: How do you get rid of styes in your eye? I have one in each eye right now and they hurt so bad and it hurts to blink. You can't see them but they hurt like heck. How do you get rid of them and what are they? How do they form and what are some ways to prevent them?? Thanks.
put a hot towel on them. that helps them heal up-trix

Q: What are some cool stuff to do on the weekends? me and my friends need more cool things to do.
thanks in advance.
snowmobiling, skating, ice-skating, arcade, movies, billiards, teen club. anything works-trix

Q: how do i create my own website for free so that i can u know go www.whatever.com or org well u no what i mean please help me i really want to know how thanks alot i rate high
buddy4u.com
xprofile.net

Q: okay, i have no clue how to flirt...i don't know how to go about doing that, i don't know how a guys mind works, and all that. What are some techniques u guys use to catch a guy's eye? I like this guy, i just dunno how to flirt...
You just got to be sweet-talking and touchy feely-trix

Q: ok i like this guy, i mean really like this guy. hes sweet and cute and is always super super nice to me. the point is, hes gotta gf! i really like him and im sorta friends with his girlfriend. but im really really jealous of her! do you think he sorta likes me if he always talks to me and gave me his number?thanks
I wouldnt try and burst into that relationship i would wait for them to break up. Try not to jump to conclusions. I mean i cant say weather he likes you or not. But he might. Just dont ruin the relationship cuz im sure they wont go out for ever unless your like 20 something then if your not then im sure it wont. And you will get your turn-trix

Q: for the last few nights ive been wking up really early for some reason. i havent changed anything at all. ive been going to sleepa t about 11 for over a year now but for the last few days ive been waking up at like 4:30 insteadof aroudn 8 or 9 like i should be (im in college) anyone wana offer an explanation? ill rate high unless you piss me off.
Maybe your stressed out. If you are maybe talk to someone and get that sort of stuff sorted out. Maybe you can get some sleeping pills-trix

Q: im 16.f and my best friend is 13. she likes to boss me around and recently she told me that im so perty and i take everyone away for everyone else. shes not the skinniest person, but hes not overweight. she told me today to gain ten pounds and get ugly or im not realy her friend. im also goin out with her older brother. ( thats not the reason shes my friend tho) and shes told me to break up w/ him b4, but i cant just b/c she says so. she says she gets no attention and nobody likes her. i think i have a future with him and i cant just break it off b/c her. right? thanks..
yeah you are totally right. I would talk to her about it saying tha tyou cant change you are. JUst because 1 person wants you to. You wouldnt even change for her brother (weather or not that is true it will make her feel better). Then you need to talk to your boyfriend/her brother. And let him know whats going on. And hopefully he can smack or talk some sense into her-trix

Q: okay here the thing. im making my xanga page and i have this site i go on and put cool effects on my websites. well the one design is where you can make a box pop up when the person who visits your site enters and leaves. I was just wondering when you copy the link for it, where do you put it in the xanga site? I rate 5's
in your html code part under look and feel-trixxie

Q: My mom is so thickheaded. Once she has something in her mind, she sticks to it. There is absolutely nothing that can change her mind. It gets to the point where I start hating her. Please give me a solution or something to maybe help stop her thickheadedness!!!
just talk to her about it. Just talk to her about how you wish she'd widen her horizons and think about other things rather then just one your mom is kind of like roseannes & jackies mom -trix

Q: My friend has manic depression and I was wondering if any one like knew anything about it or like has it and can talk to me about it because i would like to learn more .
just the dr. can

Q: Are there certain signals that guys do that sort of show he likes a girl? I'm 13/f and I have this guy friend and people say he likes me but I'm not sure. He invited me to see a movie with him but how do I know if it's just "friends".

Well usually movies are more then just friends if its you to. But if its a group then its probably just friends. If you are constantly smiling and he is always starring at you then he likes you-trix

Q: Hey guys, our Sadie Hawkin's dance is coming up, and I want a creative way to ask my guy. We're dating, and I don't really have to ask him, I just kinda want to. Lol. Some ideas have been:
Balloons
Puzzle
Cake (but that won't work because I can't bake...)
Um...I think that's all my friends have thought of. If you guys think one of these ideas is great, tell me, and lemme know if you have any other ideas! Thanks =)
The puzzle pfft I would have never thought of that. Do that!! I like that idea!!-trix

Q: is there any advice on how to gain weight in your legs? I Only need it in my legs no where else. Thanx*-->ME!!
other then implants.. i have no idea. But just try not to work them out as much. Walking is what makes them loose weight but you can also work them out to cuz muscle is big-trix

Q: I have a freind. The other day we went over to her house and it was scarry i didn't know that her brother was the guy i had been hanging out with before i met her. How do i tell her that i know who he is and ahe doesn't have to keep explainig him to me. Irate high!

-Haley
Well you just tell her that you didnt know. It shouldnt be a big deal. You might got yourself in to tight of a ball of yarn then you really should be. Just tell her and chances are she wont freak out I know I wouldnt if someone was friends with my brother. If her and her brother are pretty close then it would be even more better so just tell her -trixxy

Q: Hi, I'm a 17 year old fmale and I'm trying to lose weight. I'm not overweight officially, I'm a size 12 (UK), but I do look really chunky next to my friends who are all like size 8/10. I've been dieting really hard for a fortnight and I walk 2 miles once and sometimes twice a day and do sit-ups every day but it's not working at all! I don't feel any better, no-one has commented and my clothes all fit the same. If it's really not having any effect then should I stick at it or try something more drastic? It's just I'm hungry all the time as it is and I'm always going faint or dizzy between meals so I'm not sure I'm eating enough anyway. Help me!! xxx
south beach diet works really good so give it a shot. Its a aqua looking book.

Q: hey! i really need to lose weight b4 spring. i am 13/f and i weigh about 95 pounds. i know this isnt like overweight, but all my friends weigh 80 pounds. whenever we go shopping, i feel like a freak. does anyone know any good tips to quicly losing weight? Thanx!
south beach diet thats a good diet

Q: Hi, I'm a 14 year old, girl Freshman. Recently this guy moved to my school. He is a Senior and he rides my bus on the way to school and from school. After a few weeks of being here, he started to talk to me. He got me to write him notes and I only like him as a friend. But quickly after that he began asking personal questions like, "Are you a virgin?", "What have you done with guys?", or "Do you want another guy to do that to you?" He doesn't want me to go out with any other guy. He wants me to go out with him. It is getting really annoying. He is the most perverted guy I have ever met and everytime I wear a skirt he is always peeking up it! I can't stand him! Now he wants me to sit in the back of the bus in the morning so he can do stuff or whatever. I said, "No!" of course and made up an excuse. Then yesterday he told me to skip 3rd and 6th period at school so he can 'do' me ith the bathroom. I am only a virgin and he is 18 I think! I don't know what to do. I tell my guyfriends and they say 'smack him', but I'm not violent.
Please help! This guy is so annoying. I don't like him anyway. He does drugs, smokes, and drinks. He is not my type and he has sex with all these girls! I don't want to have sex until I am WAY older! What should I do? Will this turn into something bad later? Thanks for the help!
You need to tell the bus driver. You can get him kicked off the bus. You cant just say he is assualting you. Then tell the school cousolar he is being sexualy assaulting. YOu can get him into major trouble-trix

Q: I'm really scared bcus i'm only 14 and i've found out i'm pregnant. my ex doesnt know bcus we had a really bad fallin out and my mom wud totally freak if she found out. Wt shud i do. i'm scared to tell enyone even by best friends! i just act normal but i can nevva take my mind off it!
Wow totally ignore P4TH3T1Cx1426 that person is mean. but yeah I can say I wouldnt be able to take my mind off that either. You need to tell the daddy of your baby. And you both need to work thru this. And you need to tell your mom no matter what. No matter how hard it is you'll live thru with it. Chances are your mom will help you out and be there for you no matter how mad she is. Trust me I have 2 friends that are pregnant and 1 cousin who was 15 when she got pregnant and now my 2nd cousin is almost 2 yrs old and her parents LOVE hannah to pieces. So just know that you'll make it thru no matter how hard it is-trix

Q: I'm 17 and I really like this guy, he's 2O, but age isn't the problem at all. We went out like three times, & it was tonsa fun. But then I picked up my cell when my ex called one night & that pissed him off, which is understandable. But, he's really attractice, so he has no problem finding other girls. I really like him, so I want to "win" him back, but how should I do it? I think it annoys him when I iM him too much, I'm not going to call him, so.. what could I do? =\
You have to call him. I mean if he doesnt trust you talking to your x.. then i think he isnt worht it you want t a guy that can trust you and ect. But just you have to call him or text him. Either way works-trix

Q: ok @ lunch there r 5 of us @ the table..today were just 4 of us...i have this lil habit if something says somethinf funny while im drinking it sometimes comes out..well this girl is always a bitch like if i step on her boot or something she says shell smack me or w/e , today we some how got into the subject of how much we weighted n we were guessing n she got mine right and i was taking a drink and she said it n then had this funny face expression and i actidently sprayed it all over her face and bc i was laughing so hard n she ran into the bathroom n washed it off then came back n 1- threw my snapple out on me, 2- smacked me, i smacked back bc of it and she said dont fucking touch me and im like well then dont fucking smack me! 3- she took my friends notebook and smacked me with it..and then 4th she took my friends water bottle n dumped it on me so i was went all next period..and i had 3 ppl laughing at me...shes such an ass...and being of the year she dumped this minted stuff in my snapple and dared me n my friend to drink it...which we did...we always try to get her back and she refuses to do it...wut the hell do i do?
Find away to get her suspended. I no this is just gunna be a very lame answer but im letting you know the truth. I dont know what grade you are in but im betting younger then me. There is always going to be that one bitch in your life and you think that she is always just out to get you and only you. Well as you get higher in grades that wont seem like that anymore trust me. Anyways just go thru with it. Fight back if you have to. I can see where she got mad at the fact of being sprayed on but she wont a bit overboard. She might be looking for attention to. But dont give it to her-trixxie ((sorry i didnt help much i just went for more of the comforting idea that this will be over sorry!!))

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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