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Are brown eyes even pretty anymore?
It just seems like all these beautiful people have blue or green eyes.

And all the people with light colored eyes are noticed more.

My eyes are very dark brown.

I want to make them look pretty.. :\

I have very dark brown eyes too and I can relate to the not being noticed thing sometimes. learn to love them... play them up with colorful makeup or if nothing else, curl your lashes and put on some mascara... you'll feel better. but really, they're beautiful.. i get compliments on them all the time.

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When guy and girl are having intimate relations what do girls like the most when your trying to pleasure her...

every girl is different so ask her... you'll probably end up getting her turned on with just that and that always comes in handy.

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ok her is the deal im a christian and my boyfriends is not we have promise rings and we really love each other but he is 20 nd im 15 is it wrong?

SO about these promise rings... are we talking "promise to marry you" rings or "promise to wait for marriage" rings?
If you're waiting and that's why your brought up the christian thing, then fine... he's not one of those older guys using younger girls to get ass. If its the promise to marry you kind... that's not a good idea. age is just a number... but it could also be a bad thing so you really have to decide for yourself how good of a relationship you have here.

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Do you think high school students should have to do community service to graduate and why?

No, I don't think it should be mandatory. I think that the students should be informed or even encouraged to participate in service activities but not forced... it takes away the meaning of helping out and making it a pain in the ass for everyone involved.

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Hi! Well I'm 13 and i'm having dance problems. See I don't know what kind of dress to buy?
It's the Valentine's Day dance
PS- It has to be a little red

I was just at kohls today and I saw a red dress on the sale rack and this one black halter dress with red flowers on it... not too dressy but still a dress and it was about knee length and flowy. It was $35 if i remember right. I would suggest that one... it was cute and appropriate.

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I'm switching schools, how long does it take for them to transfer stuff like.. when we'll i start? if my mom calls tmrw. [wednesday] will it take a week? =/ or less... or more. ):


thanksss loves.

Most likely, it will be less than a week. For me it took about 2-3 days. My dad took in a copy of my grades and a booklet of courses so my counselor could put me in the right courses. I chose to start before they got all the stuff from my school. I don't think it mattered to them. ask your counselor. They probably won't keep you out of school too long.

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i live in chile. just moved here and i start school feb. 17. i had something with a boy in my old school in costa rica but we havent really talked about it since. and when i do try to talk about it he avoids it. so we werent going out or anything but we sort of had something. im getting over him but i really want someone for valentine's day. it would be perfect if i started school earlier but i cant. what can i do? im not asking for you guys to find someone or anything like that. just i want to know what can i do to get over WANTING to be with someone. what should i do?

thanks. i hope you understood and are able to help me a little bit?

Well the way i see it is that even if you did start earlier, you wouldn't know anyone well enough to really have someone special for valentine's day... don't dwell on the fact that you didn't. i think you should just embrace the fact that you are single for valentine's day... treat yourself to a treat or something new... buy yourself something nice. that's what i did when i was alone.. you can make it fun. just think of it as one less worry... no worries about what to get your sweetheart or where you'll go that night.

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What are your opinions on Gauchos (the pants) ?

I don't think people really wear them anymore. I have a pair of black ones for special occasions but i wouldn't wear them out or to school.

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alright so this may or may not be a dumb question
but my boyfreind told me that his biggest turn on is when a guy "eye f*cks" him

and i dont know what that is or how to do it...any pointers?

I think you should just ask him what he means by that and possibly demonstrate it for you.

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what are the names of these songs? i've heard them all before but i forget the names.


Oh I feel it comin' back again,
Like a rollin' thunder chasing the wind.

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I believe in you.
I can show you that,
I can see right through,
All your empty lies,
In this world so wrong.

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I wanted you to know I love the way you laugh.
I wanna hold you high and steal your pain away.
I keep your photograph; I know it serves me well,
I wanna hold you high and steal your pain.

I know the 3rd one is "Broken" by Seether ft. Amy Lee. love that song!

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okay. i'll apologize that this may be long..

i have a wonderful boyfriend. we've been together 10 months. for being freshman, we're doing pretty good. we've only gone as far as fingering/handjob, & hes not a pushy guy at all. the only thing is that he gets really jealous. and i "flirt" a lot. especially with one boy in particular named john. well, john and me are good friends. and john likes me but i've made it clear that i love my boyfriend, and he understands but still says he likes me.

now my boyfriend recently said that it seems like i enjoy talking to john more than i like talking to him & thats not true at all but my boyfriend is convinced that i like john. and i dont ! i just can't get him to believe me

i love my boyfriend. and you may think that im just saying love, but trust me. i mean it more than you guys know. he is amazing. but we always seem to end up fighting over john. it'd just be better if he didn't exist at all. but since that's not going to happen, i need some advice on what to do.
* to get my boyfriend to believe that i dont like john
* to stop "flirting" with guys
* to become a better girlfriend, because right now, i just feel like crap.


please&thanks!

sounds like you have a great relationship. I do know a couple in the same situation... the girl kinda leads "john" on and he keeps liking her. I'm not saying block him out completely but talk to him sometimes but not a tonnn and don'tbring up how great he is to you bf. I talk to my ex sometimes and my bf gets a little iffy but i reassure him that it was only for a little while and all the feelings are gone. i just don't bring up what was said unless he asks. you just gotta know how to balance. just don't give other guys tons of attention... give them some to be polite but not a lot. you sound like a good gf and i see that by your willingness to better yourself as a gf.. and it's a reasonable change. just tell him how you feel and let the anger go... it's not worth fighting over.

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okay whenever i takl to this one kid i always think about doing stuff with him. like having sex any everything. what does that mean

it means you are physically/sexually attracted to him or just like him.

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My boyfriend's birthday is coming up and I want to get him something special. Hes into theater and things but I want to get him something to show how much I love him. Does anyone have any ideas?

get him a soundtrack to a show he likes, tickets to see a show for both of you, or a libretto. if you can give more info, i can give you more ideas.

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ok. my friend told me she had phone sex, and I know this is a stupid question.. but how do you have phone sex? like is it just like regular sex but over the phone or is it just 2 people saying dirty things while they masturbate to each others voices?

If it's like regular sex just tell me its like regular sex. No need for tips on sex, I already made that mistake. But tips on phone sex is a def. yes. :]

thanks.

yeah its basically 2 people saying dirty things while the masturbate to each others voices.
you can look them up online.. i don't have any to give ya.

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whenever i reach my arms up, my bra usually rides up. why does it do that? is it because my bra is too big or too small? i am a 32A.

you might need to loosen your straps of get a different type of bra. you just need a change, it's hard to say because sometimes it is too big rather than too small. try victoria's secret and get fitted. i think their semi annual sale is still going on you you can find a good bra at a good price.

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everytime Im w/ her with no one around she is always throwing sexual geustures, ie hand near my dick, un buttoning my shirt, her shirt and showing me her thong, yeah i get hard around her but I dont want to have sex with her becuase of my religon. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!

maybe she doesn't want to have sex... maybe do other things with you or just get you excited to make out even. tell her you don't want to have sex and tell her what your limits are. like i said, she might just be trying to make something simple like making out really exciting since she doesn't want to have sex either. just talk about it... not when she's making gestures, but on the phone sometime.

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The other day I was at the mall with my friend and we saw this beautiful formal for only 25 dollars, if you can believe it. It was sleeveless and backless, but when the back is laced up it really doesn't show much skin. I have a few standards of dress that I refuse to bend, so I bought a shawl with the dress to cover my shoulders (it's kinda see-through, but it covers up the skin). I showed the dress to my parents and my mom hates it but my dad thinks it's ok (backwards, I know). How can I convince my mom that it doesn't matter what she thinks about the dress because I bought it and I'm the one who's going to be wearing it. btw, I'm 17

Wow my mom would be glad i got a $25 dress! If you like it, that's really all that matters. Try telling her that. since it's only $25 it's not like you're spending a large amount of money on something she doesn't like. maybe you should find shoes that you think go good with it and accesories and see if she'll go for it then.

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ugh this sounds so wrong, and im so embarrased to write this. here goes.

i'm 13, and for a long time i've been.. well.. touching myself, and I guess masterbating. ever since I was like 5 or 6. I have no idea how it started.. and I didnt know what I was doing then, but I felt like it was horrendously wrong. Even now I do. I'm pretty ashamed of it, and I wish I hadnt done this so young, and learned some other things from bad places on the internet. I dont do the other things, but I know they're there. I'd rather be blissfully unaware till I was an adult and could handle it. But apparently I already know, and I dont wanna know any more. anyway, with the masterbating thing, i'd get some sort of object.. like cushions (i'd put them in the washer after), once a barbie doll (yes. i know. but im not a lesbo, I was like 8.), and like teddybears and stuff. It feels good, and sometimes I get horny and feel like doing it. All the time say it will be the last time, but its never the last time. I end up doing it again. So far, nobody has caught me or even known about it for all these years... I've been keeping it a secret. It even feels weird to post it here.. I've never told anyone about this, because I've been afraid... I mean.. how would they react? they'll think I'm some dirty little girl.. which is not how I act, though sometimes I may think a perverted thought.. because well.. I've heard it from other people online and IRL so I knew what they meant. I just dont know what to do.. I dont wanna like confess it to the world.. and im not even sure confessing it during church (which I hardly go to, because of my family's busy schedule.. but I wish I did. and im a christian.). its kinda scary.. because i doubt other kids do it, or even know what it is at my age (except for alot of boys) so at times i feel kinda... like.... wacko, and not normal. i know nobody is normal, but.. seriously nobody else really does this.. unless they keep it a secret, but I kinda doubt it. also, i forgot to say, that i got my period like right after my 10th birthday. I had it like a couple months before we had the talk about "periods and puberty" and stuff.. so I had no idea what I'd done, when I went to the bathroom and found blood in my pants. I thought that I either burst my bladdar, or it was because of me like.. humping stuff. then I had a problem with having really long periods lasting like more than week, so I went to the doctor, and the doctor and my mom asked if I'd put anything up "down there" or anything.. and I'm like "no", but I felt kinda pressured, like at any moment my cover would be blown. its so crazy.. i could go on about that.. but this is getting long already. sorry if i like disgusted you or anything, but like thanks alot for your help with your reply.

also, how do you know if your cherry has popped? could it happen from like.. doing what I've been doing? I hope not! I wanna be a virgin till I'm married..

I guess everyone else gave you all the info i was going to give you but one thing i want to add is that you don't need to tell anyone. it's for you and only you... no need to confess. don't feel dirty about it either but if you want to be "clean" about it, stick to just using your fingers and wash up after.

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Is it ok if I painted my room right now in January? Some people say because of the smell to wait until summer. Which is best? And Can I paint it in the winter?

I just recently painted my room before we moved into my house... I didnt sleep there but after 1-2 nights it was fine and we didnt leave windows open so go ahead.

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Can you cum if your cherry isn't popped? I'm kinda curious, thats the question that actually lead me to find this site...


15/F...

Yes. it's comming from the same place you have your period from and you can do that before your cherry is popped.

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