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im christian and my boyfriends not
ok her is the deal im a christian and my boyfriends is not we have promise rings and we really love each other but he is 20 nd im 15 is it wrong?
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Well i can't agree with alot of the other answers, There are many issues with Him not being a Christian. For one the bible says we are not to marry out side of the faith. It tells us that for good reason.
now it is possible that He could become one but in most cases I have seen the christian partnet compromise their beliefs for the other.
in a relationship compromises are made but, are you willing to compromise your walk with God?
And if you do are you willing to accept the conciquences for that choice?
That is between you and God.
The age difference does bother me however, your parents are responsible to decide what is right for you not me. If they are saved, they should know what is best. follow their guidance unless it conflicts with the doctorine of the bible.
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I do not think that being a CHristian should affect the relationship, but I am a Christian and my boyfriend isn't and its beginning to present problems. The age difference is illegal, but besides that big roadblock, i don't see much of a problem.
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It's not wrong to love someone, I know that probably in your case everyone is like, "well it's illegal" or "don't do that", but as long as you really do love him and he really does love you then age ain't nothing but number honey. The only thing I would be worried about in a relationship with that big of an age gap is making sure that you respect each others boundaries but I'm sure since you have promise rings that you have already made sure of your limits. Another thing and the most important thing is that since the age difference and it is illegal but as long as your parents and his parents both know and respect your guy's feelings for each other than you've got nothing to worry about! So I guess what im saying is no its not wrong for you guys to be together as long as you are completely aware of what you are getting yourselves into.
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ok dont listen to the commment below me (sorry) age is just a number! love is love and just cause hes older than you doesnt mean you should ditch him! you have someone special dont trow that away cause of age!! as for religion, religion shouldnt stand in the way of love eather, as long as you really like him, and you may not agree with his relighion but think, is his religion bad? no religion is bad (unless its something evil) but just cause of age and religion shouldnt stand in the way of love, cause think about it, if you really like eachother then you should take it for granted!
as long as your comftrable arround him and your parrents approve
--ashley
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Religion shouldn't tear a relationship apart. But in your case, you two shouldn't even be in a relationship considering the fact that it's illegal. Thankfully you guys aren't having sex.
Why would a 20 year old date a 15 year old? He obviously isn't planning on keeping his promise, so ditch the promise ring and ditch him.
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normally id say age doesnt matter but in this case it illegal and you need your parent consent.im not going to just assume hes a creep because every one and situation is diffrent...but he could get arreseted. i dont think religion matters either if you love someone..just make sure its love and hes not taking advantage of you. im not going to slap your wrist and say bad girl because i dont know the full situation how you know eachother or how long either but i do know if your not 18 or older you need your parents consent or this could be trouble. if it wasnt illegal id say age doesnt matter but in this case it might.just be careful and if this guy really is a good guy and your really mature enough then it shouldn't be hard to confront your parents. and if they dont like and it really is love then he should be a gentleman and wait until its legal and if he doesnt then its not truly love.
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Okay their is nothing wrong with you being a christian and him not. Well you being 5 years younger than him can be a problem. There is nothing wrong with it but you won't get anything out of it.
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SO about these promise rings... are we talking "promise to marry you" rings or "promise to wait for marriage" rings?
If you're waiting and that's why your brought up the christian thing, then fine... he's not one of those older guys using younger girls to get ass. If its the promise to marry you kind... that's not a good idea. age is just a number... but it could also be a bad thing so you really have to decide for yourself how good of a relationship you have here. <3
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A- Just because you're a Christian has NOTHING to do with the relationship.
B- He's 20, for crissakes. 5 WHOLE YEARS. The problem isn't religion, the problem is age. This guy is a CREEP. Get rid of him!
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by law yes.. only because you are not legal. If your happy then i suppose its okay but yall get caught and your parents have no idea he could get in alot of trouble.
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