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I am in 6th grade, and I would like to know what to do when I like a girl, and I can't talk to her because I am too nervous, and the girl is quiet and shy. What do I do in a situation such as this? Also, she is in my academic classes. She doesn't sit next to me, but in the morning in History class she sits 2 seats away. Another problem is that this girl likes me and she sits next to me, and she sits next to the girl I like. Please help? Also, I am not looking for bad answers such as "You can't go out with a girl in 6th grade it's to early." because it isn't early around where I live. I know a few people in my class that have boyfriends/girlfriends. Also, I am in the pinnacle program which is for smart students.

become her friend that way you guys can get comfortable around each other and when you start dating it will be alot easier your first relationship can be the toughest if you are shy just make sure you get to know her maybe just casually bump into in the hall and just start a conversation with her and make her laugh girls love guys that can make them laugh.

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i got a litle dot of mascara on my contact so what do i do? like how can i get it off? its a new one and they are supposed to last me 2 weeks but i have an extra so do i have to just get a new one? thanks :)

rinse your contact off with solution really good and it should fix your mascara problem but if it doesnt then put in a new one but if you rinse your contacts off with solution really well it should clean them of all bacteria and everything.

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I have been dating my bf, Travis, for almost two weeks and things are great! Well except for the part where my best friend, Johnny, is incredibly hot and I really like him. He is really nice and I think he may like me, I have been looking for the signs though. Johnny always hugs me and has kinda been there for when I need someone to be there, or when Travis isn't. He is incredibly hot, and despite the fact that all my friends say that he is untouchable because all the girls love him, I think I might have a chance with him. Travis is also really nice and he makes me laugh a lot. But he is a bit immature and that does bother me, plus, he doesn't really...seem committed to the whole relationship. He hugs and kisses and all, but I really don't feel much of a connection. What should I do? I really like both of them, and I can't date them both. And people say that I make a good couple with Johnny but then things are going well with Travis. What should I do?

i had this problem myself a little while ago i have been dating my boyfriend for 10 months and one of my best guy friends told me he liked me and i have always like him too so i really considered breaking up with my boyfriend for him but then i thought to myself how do i know that my friend will be the same if we are dating and i am already in a committed relationship so why ruin things. So my advice to you is to find out if johnny really does like and will want to be with you and maybe travis is immature because he doesnt really know how to act around you the first month of dating is always the most awkward one but things do get better once you guys get used to each other but your the only one that make this decision do you want to risk things the way they are you know that johnny will always be a great friend to you and travis is already there for you as a boyfriend it just depends what you really want i hope i helped and if you need anymore advice with this one just let me know this is the worst situation to be in and i have been there done that lol

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ok her is the deal im a christian and my boyfriends is not we have promise rings and we really love each other but he is 20 nd im 15 is it wrong?

It's not wrong to love someone, I know that probably in your case everyone is like, "well it's illegal" or "don't do that", but as long as you really do love him and he really does love you then age ain't nothing but number honey. The only thing I would be worried about in a relationship with that big of an age gap is making sure that you respect each others boundaries but I'm sure since you have promise rings that you have already made sure of your limits. Another thing and the most important thing is that since the age difference and it is illegal but as long as your parents and his parents both know and respect your guy's feelings for each other than you've got nothing to worry about! So I guess what im saying is no its not wrong for you guys to be together as long as you are completely aware of what you are getting yourselves into.

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about how much a month does one horse cost? without boarding, farriers and all that. and then with farriers, vets, and dentists added in?

thanks!

I think it mostly just depends on where you live and where you go. There are some places that basically think they are the best boarding place around and charge unreasonable prices, but then there are some that are cheap but are horrible places that you should not place your horse. Depending on what state your in also depends because there are some states that don't have as many boarding facilities so therefor the ones that they do have could be ungodly prices. It all depends on what you want in a borading stable some of them just board you have to go clean the stall feed it etc. but some places do all of that for you. The costs of all this if you only have one horse with boarding, shoes, vet would probably be around $650 - $700 a month, and then if you want training the expenses will go up even further depending on the type of training. Make sure that you check the place out before you take your horse there because you don't want to take them somewhere and then realize after the fact that its an unsafe environment. Also if your in need of a vet or a farrier talk around and find the best ones because theres nothing worse than a lame horse that you cant do anything with or worse one that sick and your vet doesn't have time to come out and look. This has happened to many friends of mine so just make sure for the sake of your horse you have some good ones. If you have any other horse questions at all please ask I have been around my horses my whole life and I will be more than happy to answer any of your questions. Happy trails!!

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i am a good singer (not to brag...) but i am to scared to ever sing in front of anyone. i no if i like tryed out for american idol or something i would make it but i am afraid that if i do sing in public i will not beable to. i cant even present in school without totally freaking out! how do i get rid of the butterflys and not care of what other people think about me?

i used to have the same problems as you and i still do get nervous when singing in front of people but once you do it for the first time it gets easier as time goes on unless its like a small audience there will be bright lights on you and then you cant see the people in the audience which makes it easier but if you can see them just look at the wall or find an enjoying face.

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i made out with my boyfriend last weekend for the first time and then i heard this girl using the term "french kissing"...is there any difference?

thanks in advance =]

im pretty sure theres not much of a difference cause you see making out involves tongue and so does frenching so its pretty much the same

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