Question Posted Thursday February 28 2008, 7:19 pm
I have been dating my bf, Travis, for almost two weeks and things are great! Well except for the part where my best friend, Johnny, is incredibly hot and I really like him. He is really nice and I think he may like me, I have been looking for the signs though. Johnny always hugs me and has kinda been there for when I need someone to be there, or when Travis isn't. He is incredibly hot, and despite the fact that all my friends say that he is untouchable because all the girls love him, I think I might have a chance with him. Travis is also really nice and he makes me laugh a lot. But he is a bit immature and that does bother me, plus, he doesn't really...seem committed to the whole relationship. He hugs and kisses and all, but I really don't feel much of a connection. What should I do? I really like both of them, and I can't date them both. And people say that I make a good couple with Johnny but then things are going well with Travis. What should I do?
cheergurl answered Thursday February 28 2008, 11:39 pm: i had this problem myself a little while ago i have been dating my boyfriend for 10 months and one of my best guy friends told me he liked me and i have always like him too so i really considered breaking up with my boyfriend for him but then i thought to myself how do i know that my friend will be the same if we are dating and i am already in a committed relationship so why ruin things. So my advice to you is to find out if johnny really does like and will want to be with you and maybe travis is immature because he doesnt really know how to act around you the first month of dating is always the most awkward one but things do get better once you guys get used to each other but your the only one that make this decision do you want to risk things the way they are you know that johnny will always be a great friend to you and travis is already there for you as a boyfriend it just depends what you really want i hope i helped and if you need anymore advice with this one just let me know this is the worst situation to be in and i have been there done that lol [ cheergurl's advice column | Ask cheergurl A Question ]
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