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I like a girl, and I am shy, and she is shy. What do I do?
I am in 6th grade, and I would like to know what to do when I like a girl, and I can't talk to her because I am too nervous, and the girl is quiet and shy. What do I do in a situation such as this? Also, she is in my academic classes. She doesn't sit next to me, but in the morning in History class she sits 2 seats away. Another problem is that this girl likes me and she sits next to me, and she sits next to the girl I like. Please help? Also, I am not looking for bad answers such as "You can't go out with a girl in 6th grade it's to early." because it isn't early around where I live. I know a few people in my class that have boyfriends/girlfriends. Also, I am in the pinnacle program which is for smart students.
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You are not too young to have a girlfriend. You are too young to have sexual intercourse or get married, but other than that you are good. I had a boyfriend when I was in the 4th grade. I thought I was totally cool because of it. So, trust me I understand and don't doubt for one second that you aren't ready.
Here is what I would suggest.
1- Let the other girl know that you are not interested in her as a girlfriend because you like someone else, but you would like for you two to be friends.
2- Start talking to the girl that you like. Even if it is for help at school. If you see that she is struggling with an assignment, offer to help her. I would suggest not acting smug though, because that can turn a girl off.
3- Find out who her friends are and see if you have a common friend. If you do, then you can try to see if they can set you up together.
4- Just go up to her and ask her. No guts no glory right? What is the worse that can happen? She would say no. However, it takes a lot of courage to be straightforward and honest with someone.
I wish you luck. Hopefully soon, you will have your girlfriend and you will be asking questions on what to get her for Easter ;)
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become her friend that way you guys can get comfortable around each other and when you start dating it will be alot easier your first relationship can be the toughest if you are shy just make sure you get to know her maybe just casually bump into in the hall and just start a conversation with her and make her laugh girls love guys that can make them laugh.
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