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i always cum in my unda wear (im a girl 13). and im still a virgin, idk why. i feel like there must be sumthin rong with me. cuz i heard its hard for a gurl to sum in sex. but i havnt even had sex but i still cum. why do u think so0o.
help me. plz (link)
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I answered a question almost exactly like this one not too long ago...it is totally normal for you to have that in your undies! All girls have it! Some days it may even be more than others..it just means you are a healthy maturing young girl. Nothing bad at all. There is nothing wrong with you though! All girls have it. If it bothers you that it always gets in your undies, you may want to wear a pantyliner. You can't even feel it and it'll keep your undies dry. Also, read this same question posted on my advice column..I believe it was the first question asked. Don't worry! :)
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The guy I REALLY like, loves to drink :-/ He gets drunk all the time except NOT when I'm around because I hate it! Should I still like this guy or move on? It's really hard to move on though... =( (link)
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Well, first off I can TOTALLY relate! My sorta boyfriend and I just got into a fight about this on Friday night! And, we almost broke up! So...you can't boss other people around or make their choices (good or bad) for them. You have to let them on your own. Also, you don't want to make this guy think that you're mad for the wrong reasons. To him, he's prolly just havin' fun with his buddies. And, to an extent you totally have to respect that. You don't have to like it, or agree with it, but you need to respect it. You're concern for him, shows you do truly care, and his choice not to drink around you shows his concern for you. So, if you really like this guy and want things to work out, I suggest you tell him how you feel. BUT do not do this when he is drunk..because then you will both say things you don't mean and you'll end up in a fight and/or losing one another. Wait until the next day or so and tell him that it upsets you that he drinks and gets drunk and that you do want him to have fun..but you don't think that it's healthy that he drink so much..Tell him that it scares you and you don't like the person he is when he is drunk. Tell him everything you are feeling. DONT yell at him for doing it, just tell him how you feel. If he really likes you and cares about oyu he will agree to stop or at least try to stop..((my sorta bf said that I was just what he needed to stop drinking and that he'd never do anything to jeaprodize our relationship because I mean too much to him)) If your guy gives you that kind of response, then just be patient with him. But, if he doesn't seem to care about how you feel, then yes you should move on to some1 who is going to care about you and respects you. It may be hard..but you gotta do it! Good luck! :)
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ok, im 12 and im so flat! is it possible to grow boobs over 1 summer? im going to a new school and itd be cool if i had achest
am starting to grow. will i be able to grow in time? if so how big?
i know looks shouldnt matter but every girl i no has a chest
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Okay, well first of all you have plenty of time! You are only 12...you're boobs can even grow more when you are in college! So, don't worry you are not fully developed yet, and you have plenty of time. Some girls grow fast than others..and yes it is very possible your boobs may grow over the summer..but don't dwell on it too much! It isn't that big of a deal. If you are worried about boys not liking you because you are flat chested, well then you're thinkin' wrong! The kind of guy you REALLY want won't care about your chest..they'll like you for who YOU ARE, not for what you have!! If you do end up "growing" over the summer, it's possible to grow a lil' or even a whole cup...or more. It really just depends with each different girl. If you have yet to start you're period, then totally relax because once that happens you'll get some growin' action! hehe. Just be happy with what God has given you thus far, and like I said, you have PLENTY of time!! :)
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How modestly do you think people should dress? How do you determine what is modest or not? (link)
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Well, this specific question tends to vary from person to person. But, in my personal opinion I would say that it's okay to show a lil' skin every now and then or wear sexy clothing every now and then. With that said, you don't want to do this too often, because people may get the wrong impression of you. Here's a good rule of thumb to go by: If you can go out and wear what you are wearing knowing that your mom/and/or dad wouldn't have a problem with it, then you're dressed just fine. Like with skirts, sure sometimes our moms think they are a lil' too short...but if your ass cheeks are hanging out then obviously your momma is right!! Also, another thing to consider..think about if another girl your height and weight was wearing that exact same outfit..would you think...wow she's dressed too inappropriately or would you think..oh that's cute! Also, you need to consider the type of atmosphere you are going to be in. Say you have to give a huge presentation for the school board.....would you wear a really short skirt and a halter top??? I think not! But most importantly, make sure YOU are comfortable and confident in how you look and what you are wearing..you are your own worst critic so you be the judge!! :)
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My best friend has a lot of shoes. all of them are really cute but every time she wears a pair they never match her outfit. how do i let her know w/ out hurting her feelings that her shoes dont match. signed,
out of style (link)
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I had the same problem with a friend!! Well, she's your friend so you dont want to offend her or upset her. So becareful with how you go about doing this. You may want to go to a bookstore like Barnes and Noble and get one of those fashion books that tell you what shoes to wear with what bottoms nad what tops and what colors and everything! They are so fun to read about. And you could tell her " Oh, I saw this awesome book the other day at the book store and thought you'd love it since you have such cute clothes and especially shoes" The y'all can look @ the book together and maybe next time y'all are getting ready you could nicely suggest she wear the other shoes with this certain outfit like hte book said! Just be nice!! :)
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well, there is this guy im crazy about and he "says" he doesnt like me, but its obviouse he does!!!and its driving me insane!!like now everytime i think about him i wanna throw up!idk y?well HELP ME!!!plzzz (link)
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Well, it's hard for me to agree with you that he may like you, but I am guessing that through his actions around you and by the things he says to you you have come to that conclusion. So, with that said, I think you should kind of act a lil' less interested and a little less "crazy" about him...this way..if he really does like you he'll chase after you and feel like your more of a challenge rather than having someone already googoo over him. You know? Also, if he doesn't show any interest then you know that his actions were not sincere. Guys don't always like the type of girl who is all for him..so just be more laid back and cool around him. Still be nice though! And the throwing up thing..that's just mixed emotions!! You'll be just fine! Good luck! :)
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How many people regret their time having sex?
* raises hand * (link)
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It's quite often that people regret their first time. Not everyone, but a good majority. The kinda cool thing is...that you actually do regret it. It shows that you are mature and capablle of making good choices. Take this not so much as a regret that must loom with you forever but a lesson learned. Now, you know to be more specific next time, or to wait til marriage. :)
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If you cut yourself once...then realize what you've done is stupid..should you seak help? (link)
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Well, the fact that you have only done it oncei s a good sign. But, at the same time, if you had the notion to do it once you may do it again and the next time it may be deeper and that becomes more addictive and dangerous. The fact that you see it as stupid is good, but you still should seek some help. You could just maybe tell an adult like your parents. They won't misjudge you like you think they may...they are there to help. Talk to them about your problems..it's okay to be emotional and cry but it's not okay to cut..if you need further help, there are doctors who specialize in cutting. Best of luck, and I'm always here to help, guide, or listen. :)
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what is spooning? (link)
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Spooning is like cuddling..like where say the guy is laying there and you are laying really close to him with your back like touching his front side..you know? But basically its cuddlin'. Hope this helps :)
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I want to earn money and I'm really smart so I figured I would tutor people since my mom wouldnt let me babysit. Can anyone help me with tips on what I need to get started? (link)
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Well, that's great that you want to do this. You could post a little space in the newspaper or some neighbor hoods have a local magazine or you could print up some flyers and post them or put them in peoples mailboxes or you could make a webpages advertizing it. I hope one of these was of some help. Good luck! :)
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Does anyone out there have any good recepies for someone trying to eat right? I hate the way I look, Ive been told that everyone does, but I cant wear any of my old clothes, and my stomach is an eyesore. My dad buys junk, and it is hard to stay away from, when I need something quick to eat. We are going to buy better stuff, but I need a way to cook it first. Im 13, 5"11, and 180 pounds. Only 5 pounds away from a healthy weight, but it sure doesnt look that way. Jenny Craig didnt help me, but maybe you can! (link)
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Well, first of all you're tall so it's okay to be a lil' heavier. But, if you are truly uncomfortable with things, make a change. You can buy boneless skinless chicken breast and cook it in a lot of different ways. It's very healthy. Also, you should go grocery shopping with your dad so you can buy healthy snacks (like fruit). If you are interested in going on a diet I would suggest the South Beach..they have books too that tell you great recipes..if you can't afford it i have copies so i could tell you some recipes/ good luck :)
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I want to get a cellphone but my parents wont let me!..Um..What kind of cellphone do you have? And how many minutes do you have each month? And if someone calls u how long do you talk? (link)
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Well, it's natural for you to want a cell fone. I am assuming that you are at least 13. Your parents may not want you to have one because of the extra expense or maybe they just don't think you are ready. These questions that you have asked about what kind and how many minutes...you should look all those up like on different cell phone providers and do some research. Then tell all of it to your parents, they will be very impressed and appreciate your maturity. Also, if it is a financial problem you could offer to pay like 10 dollars or so a month..Good luck :)
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HI MY BEST FRIEND WANTS TO BE A SINGER WHEN SHE GROWS UP AND LATELY ALL SHE HAS BEEN DOING IS SINGING AND ITS DRVING ME CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT DO I DO?????????????? (link)
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Well first of all, you have to admire your friend for having a goal and really going after it. If she sings all the time..it's probably not only because she wants to be a singer but singing is a part of who she is. You said she's your best friend..so support her. I'm sure you do something that drives her crazy. We all have our quarks. You could even sing with her..and if she's like dude u suck! yall can laugh about it and just let the good times keep rollin'. But, if you really can't stand it..maybe you should talk to her..and tell her you know i respect and admire u for wanting to be a singer..but you sing all the time..and it's starting to get to me. but be careful with how u say this you dont want to offend her! :)
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HAS ANYBODY EVER HEARD OF THE MOVIE ENVY IF SO COULD YOU PLEASE TELL ME WHAT IS ABOUT (link)
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Ben Stiller and Jack Black star as Tim and Nick, best friends, neighbors and co-workers, whose equal footing is suddenly tripped up when one of Nick's harebrained get-rich-quick schemes actually succeeds: Vapoorizer, a spray that literally makes dog poop, or any other kind for that matter, evaporate into thin air -- to where exactly is anyone's guess. Tim, who had scoffed at Nick's idea and passed on an opportunity to get in on the deal, can only watch as Nick's fortune -- and Tim's own envy -- grow to equally outrageous proportions. When the flames of jealousy are fanned by an oddball drifter (Christopher Walken) who imposes himself into the situation, Tim's life careens wildly out of control ... taking Nick's with it.
There ya go :)
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Hey! my name is soulsista. I need some good advice on this situation.you see, my friend is going to junior high as a seventh grader. She has only dated twice.Once from kindergarten to 1st grade and another in about 4th or 5th grade.
she really needs to know if she should start dating again or just stay single for now. (link)
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Well, first of all I'm not quite sure you can call it DATING if you are only in kindergarten-1st grade and 4th to 5th. Where would they have gone on a date? To Mcdonalds accompanied by their mom who drives a minivan? But, I'm sure your friend had a crush on these boys and liked them. Junior high is a great time to start getting more comfrotable with hanging out with guys. I would suggest your friend hang out with guys and other girls in groups. Like go to the movies with like 5-10 people. And if she likes a boy well, she can be with them. But 7th grade is really too earlier to call it serious dating. :)
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Does anyone know of anything that can help get rid of or hide stretch marks that I have aquired from the ten pounds that I randomly gain and lose? (link)
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Hmm, well this is kind of tough. I would say you may want to try Cocoa Butter lotion. It's not too expensive and they also have a more specific one for pregnant ladies to help PREVENT stretch marks and keep them under control. Go to your local drugstore and look at all the different Cocoa Butter lotions. I'd go with the Pregnancy stretch mark one. Good luck! :)
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ok ive only had sex with 2 guys but im always doin stuff with guys. like with the guys that havnt gotten hand jobs or fingered girls, stuff like that. ive only done this like with 6 or 7 guys.. am i a slut? (link)
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Okay, so the fact that you are taking the time to ask people if you are a "slut" shows you do care about what people think and you truly are concerned with your actions. I wouldn't call you a slut. A lot of other people have done a lot more and with many others. But you really need to watch out because at the rate your going and the path you have chosen you will soon get the reputation for being a slut. All guys talk..even if they swear they aren't going to tell about what you've done..they do! And girls also..so be careful. It's okay to do sexual things with boys..but maybe wait a lil' longer that way it will be more special! :)
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Hey y'all, Newayz im going out with this guy named Damion, and we've been dating for about a year and he likes to talk about other gurls in front of me and i dont really trust him. I truley think he is cheating on me, but i also love him to pieces,and i kno he loves me alot to and i jus cant give up on him because we already been through alot. Got any suggestions?? (link)
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Well, if you love him and you really want to make things work..the first thing you need to do is communicate. You need to tell him exactly how you are feeling. And tell him just what you posted..that you don't trust him and it hurts you that he talks about other girls and ETC. If he truly and sincerely cares for you and loves you, he will immediately make some changes in his behavoir. If he doesn't, you need to drop him..because if you don't that's just going to tell him that how he is acting is okay and you'll let him treat you like a dog. Don't ever let any guy think that. Stand up for yourself. I know it's hard cause you love him..but if you love YOURSELF you'll take a stand! :)
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Do guys prefer girls who shave "down-there" , and to what extent ? (link)
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Well, MOST guys do prefer girls that do shave "down there" as you said..but honestly it varies with every guy because they have diffferent things and ways that turn them on. But I'd say 98% like a girls pretty well shaved if not all the way. But always remember, it's YOUR choice what you do with your body..not a boys! :)
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There is a guy I like his name is PJ but Im not sure If he likes me.WE hang out together we share snacks we are both afraid to go off the highdive and we always want to sit next to eachother are we better off as friends or should I start flirting more?? (link)
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This is kind of a hard postion to be in because you don't want to like flirt too much and scare him off and lose a good friend. I'd say though from what you have said, that he MAY be interested and you'll never know if y'all are better off as friends until you give it a chance. I wouldn't like totally come on to him, but you can say flirty things to him to kind of get the idea across..like you could say JOKINGLY (but really to you its sincere) PJ ur the bestest boyfriend ever!! and if he's totally weirded out oyu can be like ya you're a boy and you're my friend! duh! You can just say playful stuff like that..that way he'll get the idea..but if you see that he's totally not interested then cool it! :)
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