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I`m Desiree

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I am 29 years old. I met this guy who is 35 years old. Both of us are single.

I have known this guy for three months now. We always sms to each other. I spent some time with him at a forum. He was always talking to me about stuff.

I caught him staring at me when I was with my friends. When I had a cough, he was caring towards me and asked me whether I was fine or not. He bought me cough drops.

Recently he sent me a chinese new year card.

Does he like me?

What should I do?

Regards.

Yes it def. sounds like this guy likes you in some sort of way obviously.. I would think if he`d go out of his way to take care of you then he probably cares for you.. It could be just in a friendly way but then again more.. Maybe he wants to start out slow like being friends at first then see what happens.. I mean he`s 35 so he`s probably mature enough to wait and see what happens..

I think you should ask for him to do something with you.. Maybe something small and simple at first and then see what happens from there.. Like going out to lunch or coffee.. Hope i helped.. ♥ Dez

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Well, i just became a goth and my mom made me a deal that if i message her i could get some gothicwear. I was wondering what i should get? Any ideas?
all 5's

Shop at the store Hot TOpic.. Pretty much anything you buy there will be fine.. They have the Baggy pants,Chains Black band shirts and stuff.. ♥Dez

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Hi 15F. Just because im a girl means that im supposed to have a BF. and i dont by choice and becuase im ugly. but that still doesnt stop
family or friends from asking if i have a
BF.
usually when they ask i say no and leave it at that but they still ask other questions like why not? or do you think your gay?
its sooo annoying!
is there a way to say something that will make them stop asking these things i want to be polite yet firm.. i rate 5s. thanks.

~~No Boyfriend. No Problems.~~

Well i know that must be annoying..
tell them you don`t have one by choice.. Tell them you don`t want one and your not looking for one..Mention that just cuz you don`t have a boyfriend doesn`t mean your gay.. Maybe even lie a bit tell them that your school work is more important or a sport.. *thats completely up to you* ♥ DEz

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I'm turning 14 and for my birthday I'm having a dance. I've been going out with guy for a while now but we don't go to the same school so we haven't had any dances together. What are some good love songs that would be good for a first dance. I need as many as you can give me. This would mean a lot to me. This dance is really important. Thank you so much! I'LL RATE YOU!!!♥

Kci and Jojo-Crazy,All my life
Amanda Perez-Angel,I Pray
Monica-Angel of mine,For you i will
Tyrese-Sweet Lady,
Ginuwine-Betta half,Differences
Joe-I wanna know
Mary J.Blige-be without you
Ray J-One wish
Mariah Carey-We belong together,My baby..
Hinder-By the way,Lips of an Angel
Brandy-have you ever?,That boy is mine
Aaliyah-One and a Million,Miss you,Four page letter..
Destiny child-Cater2U
Phophet Jones-Lifetime
112-Peaches and cream,You already know
Jagged Edge-Walked outta heaven,Hard,
Jaheim-Put that women first,Backtight with you..
Ciara-And I
Hope these help.. ♥Dez

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I want to buy some lingerie for my girlfrien, but am unsure what will suit her. She is quite tall, 5' 11" slim and athletic, UK size 12 with 36B breasts. Any advice on what she will look good in and where to get it from in the UK?

Well i`m not sure what she`ll look good in.. But check out Fredricks.com or Victoria Secret.com.. Its kinda expensive but its real sexy and cute.. Or you can try any local department store.. ♥Dez

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I'm looking for a good shaving creme, one that smells really nice and thats gonna make my legs feel soft and silky. Also,looking for a good lotion.Thanks

Skintimate.. They have an after shaving gel that i think would make your legs smell nice and feel good.. ♥ DEz

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Ok I know whats wrong with my eye. I have Sinuses and it's putting pressure on them and it hurts so bad. What can I put on it to make it hurt less?

Take some sort of sinus medicine.. Try Advil,Tylenol or Benedryl.. ♥ Dez

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Okay so im 15/f and ive got stretch marks on my upper thighs and hips and also on my bum and i wanted to know if there is anything i can get to fade them? i no i cant make them dissappear forever but i just want to make them less visable

can any one help? also im from the UK ENGLAND

Try Palmers coco butter its a lotion.. Yea your right it won`t make them disappear but it will lighten them hun.. ♥ Dez

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okay well im wearing the pink pants from victorias secret that say pink on the butt tomorrow to school, they are light pink and have rhine stones all on them and they are really cute and they comes a little below my knees ..well i need help trying to find a pair of shoes to wear with them, i have uggs but they arent long enough, like when i put on the uggs and pants my bare legs are sticking out. i was wondering if that would look stupid? or if its okay? and if it wouldnt work what else should i wear? i have clogs, but they have green trim on them and dont look match. and i have completely white adidas.. but i dont know if it looks good or not. so if you couuld help me really soon that would be great
i rate..
thanks

I think the White adidas would be the best to wear with your pants.. And yes they are very cute.. ♥ Dez

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OKay im 15/f and im between 7-15lbs over weight and i want to loose a bit of weight off of my upper thighs, stomache, hips and lower back and maybe tone my upper arms up a bit?

i eat pretty healthily now its just the excercises im stuck with
but also diet plans might help?

i no u get questions like this all the time but i would appreciate your help! websites also help

Try running,walking or swimming for your legs.. you can do crunches and sit ups.. do lots of cardio workouts.. You can look this up on Google for more exercises.. Well i don`t know any diets i just say eat smaller meals but eat like 6 meals a day.. Make sure their pretty healthy and watch the calories.. You can also look up diets on Google too.. Best of luck.. ♥ Dez

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okay well for a snack everyday during one of my classes i eat fruit snacks because they are small, clean and dont leave my hands sticky at all. well i know that they arent that good for you and my doctor doesnt want me eating them anymore and i was looking for an alternative. any ideas

it has to be

~ crumb free
~ not stick
~ fit in my purse
~ not too expensive
~ somewhat filling (more than fruit snacks)
~ wont crumble in my purse
~ wont make my hands sticky
~ can't need refrigeration
~cant use a spoon or fork
~ cant be destracting or take a long time to eat
~ etc




How about granolla bars or some sort of health bar,Nutrigran bars would be good.. But i guess that might have crumbs.. What about an apple or banana.. Thats healthy you`d have to throw the remainigns away tho.. Hope i helped.. ♥ Dez

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ok well theres this boy i like alot and well he likes this other girl but last year he told me i am hot so than i started to like him but now he told the other girl he likes her and she doesnt like him but about every 2 month he says it hoping it will change but she not going to change her mind every time he says i like you to her i get so mad/sad cause in those 2 month i try to get him to like me my question is should i get over him or keep trying and if its keep trying what should i do.

You should def. move on.. He sounds like a waste of time maybe try just being friends..You shouldn`t get so upset..your gettin your hopes all high for nothing hun.. ♥ Dez

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okay so i went to the doctor and i have a problem with my knee and have to wear this huge ugly brace over my pants, its big ugly and soo bulky looking. i want to know if people will like point and stare? and will people think its ugly? and is it stupid to be like nervous to wear it in front of people?

You shouldn`t worry about what people think.. You have something wrong with your knee.. I doubt people will like stare but some people might ask whats wrong or what happened to your knee.. Which all you got to say is what is wrong..Then they`ll probably leave you alone after that.. People will most likely show they care or they just want to be nosey..You shouldn`t be nervous this is normal.. Maybe you can try wearing it under your pants and wear baggy sweat pants or something if your that uncomfortable.. ♥ Dez

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I just inserted my very first tampon. I felt fine for the first few minutes but every few minutes I can feel my tampon like when I walk. I was expecting pain, so idk if its just my mind playing tricks on me or what but what should I do? Any things I should know about using a tampon.

You might of not put it in far enough.. You shouldn`t of been feeling it.. try pushing it in farther if possible and maybe re-read the directions hun.. ♥ Dez

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I used a tampon for the first time tonight. I began to feel a little discomfort afterabout 30minutes to I took it out. However it hurt to take it out; I had to pull pretty hard. Is this normal?

Yes this can be normal.. I would recomend Tampax Pearl their easier to get out or Kotex their easily take out too.. ♥ Dez

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how can you ask your boyfriend for money without him thinking you are a golddigger?

I would think if you need it for a good reason it shouldn`t be a problem.. Explain what you need it for..But if your just wantin money to get it then i would consider you a golddigger..I wouldn`t reccomend asking for it alot either.. ♥ Dez

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ok i am a cheerleader and my cheer grope is not getting better at alland we have some really really bad cheers and the head cheerleader is not letting us give her the cheers we know what do i do? i cant stand being a cheerleader any more but i want to still do it

If you know of another cheerleading group to sign up for maybe do that..You can always get with friends and cheer for fun..Just put up with it if you don`t want to quit and find a new team..Sorry i didn`t help much.. ♥ Dez

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Well ive had a b/f for 11 months now and i do love him or else i wouldnt be so confused....Theres no spark anymore because hes so up my butt lol...He doesnt leave his dark room to hang out with anyone else because he said he might miss my call and he hates everyone because he said he doesnt need friend he only needs me and im only 17 so i dont want a relationship like that. and there is this guy and when ever he flirts with me or even talks to me i get excited.....and smile but i know if i break up with my boyfriend he'll fall hard and cry n stop going to school and do stupid things and i wouldnt be able to handle that! what should i do?

Wow so if you would break up with him..You feel like it would be your fault if he did all those stupid things..

You could get excited about this other guy because he isn`t up your butt..Its something that happens uncalled for.. Its not an everyday situation..Maybe thats what you need with your current boyfriend..Talk to your boyfriend tell him how you feel about this..I wouldn`t bring up this other guy cuz it def. sounds like you want to make things work with your boyfriend your with now.. Tell him to go out and do things and that he does need friends.. Tell him to not make you his only thing in life cuz thats not a garantee..*He might think you don`t think you`ll be with him forver or not want to last a long time*but mention thats not it..Tell him your only 17 and your not thinkin about things like he is.. Hope i helped.. ♥Dez

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im 15 ilbs over weight i want to lose those FAST how can i?

Running/Walking or even swimming would be good exercise..
Crunches and Sit ups would be good also..
Eat healthier hun.. try eating smaller meals too.. ♥ Dez

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i used to give head to some guys and i quit because i thought i might have caught something. could there be a chance i could get something? or i would have to get that checked ..since some stds show no syptoms?

i also heard that if the guy had some std and i swallowed the std or whatever would die cause of the acid in my stomach or something? is that true

Yes you can get STDs even by Oral Sex.. You would have to get checked to find out if you have something..

No thats not true.. ♥ Dez

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