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does anyone know any good sad quotes about drinking and driving, death, losing someone, cutting yourself, someone cutting or hurting themselves, suicide, ect or anything else you can think of thats sad

http://hellz-angelz.cjb.net
^^Go there they have tons of sad quotes. If you go all the way to the bottom of the website they have suicide quotes. They have tons of quotes!

xoxo Kourtney

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ok. i have blonde, sort of curly/wavy hair and its a little below my shoulders and im starting to change my style a little bit into EMO, i have glasses and i wanted to get like wispy bangs like hilary duff. would i look completely stupid with bangs or would it look good?? PLEASE help me!!

I think you'll look cute! But, try straightening your hair. That'll look cute! You can get a straighener at a salon.

xoxo Kourtney

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ok furst of aLL....here thes short ?.....what do you do if a guy you really like who is usually always sweet to you and acts like your boyfriend suddenly starts treating you like you dont mean shit to him??.....and second..my best friend (FOR 10 YEARS) got in a arguemnt and just stopped talking about 2 months ago.......we havent spoken since......she is s0o different now.....she has changed physically like dresses diff and wears sluttier clothes every since she has hang out with this group of people who dont really like me.....and she acts like she hates me and the arguement was so stupid we just got sick of being together 24/7 and stopped talking....now i really miss her and i want to be her friend bc after we gradu ate 8th grade in 8 dayz......i wont c her agen since she doesnt live nex door to me nemore....her family moved to cypress so they live in a diff city but she finishing the rest of this skool yr up and she isnt going to my highskool.....wut do i do since we hav been best friends for 10 years?? i thought our 10 years ment something to her?? should i confront her? what do i say!??!? HELP!!

Guys, can be mean sometimes (I'll put it in a nice way, HA) they don't really understand how much they can hurt someone. I know its weird that they can be all sweet and nice, etc. to you and then all of a sudden BAM they're totally meant to you. But I'm sure you do mean something to him, he's just being a jerk to you right now. If I was you, I would try talking to him about and just be like "Seems to me I don't mean a thing to you anymore, why are you acting like this?" and go from there.

Sometimes friends, they go through phases. Its weird I know. One of my friends does the samething! But, you guys have been friends for 10 years! Thats a very long time. You can't just put that down the drain. And tell her that too. But you need to talk to her. And just be like "I dont know what happened to you. We use to be such great friends and we have been for 10 years! We can't just put this all down the drain over a fight. We have to get through this. We don't even talk anymore." Just say stuff like that. Just tell her exactly how you are feeling!

*If you need anymore help on either of those situations just ask, I'll be glad to help* =D

xoxo Kourtney

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My Uncle Alan used to live with me. Although hes not very pleasent, I USED to love him and he had no problem with me either. So he moved out and my mom recently had a baby. Im 12, the baby is 1. He loves the baby so much. I dont like her at all but thats besides the point. He suddnely hates me, and he literally hates me, and loves her. He has tshirts with her on it, hundreds of pics of her on the walls, shes his DESKTOP for heavens sake!!! Why does he not like me? Hes really pissin me off. Not only this, he abuses his pets!! One had to be uthinized becuz they hurt it when it had an eating disorder!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Sometimes people don't understand what they do actually hurts other people. He may not realize how much this is hurting you. Since it is a baby, he's just taking a lot of pics... like ALOT lol. But you should either try talking to your mom, your uncle, or sitting them both down by telling them how you feel about this and that you think he hates you now, just tell them exactly what you just told us and how you're feeling about this. Good luck! If you need anymore help, just post back!

xoxo Kourtney

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An etched out poem reread,
Many times crumbled and then smoothed.
Can this truly capture how I feel?
My words seem so far removed.

How can I define this feeling I get
At every accidental touch?
This energy, this passion,this undescribable lust
The most desirable and beautiful rush.

Words are far to capricious,
They die after being written down.
I need something with substance with truth,
Something with validity and sound.

A kiss can speak a thousand words
Even poets can not define.
So kiss me now so I can remember
All the things I wanted to say, but couldn't find.



WOW! Thats a great poem! I really liked it!! =D Keep up the good work and keep posting them! I love reading them!

xoxo Kourtney

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I met this guy last summer at a resort, and I fell in love with him! Both of us had fun all week. We had a bond fire played basketball and alot more.At the end of the week we both had to go home, ( and he lives in a different state)so I figured I would see him again next year. I've talked to him all year on the internet and the phone and ect. When ever I talk to him it always sounds like he likes me and when we say good bye on the internet he types " Bye bye kiss kiss" Now I have had my friends ask him if he likes me and he wont answer them. I even asked him if he liked me. He did not answer me back. What does it meen when he didnt answer me back? Should I talk to him about it and tell him how I feel? and Do you think that he likes me?

Sounds to me he does like you, but when it comes to guys sometimes, they either play hard to get or just are too shy to admit it. But I think you should tell him you like him, maybe he is waiting for you to tell him you like him! You never know what goes on in boys' heads sometimes lol. But when you do talk to him just be all serious and tell him be like "I really want to know, so please just tell me, I like you, but I just want to know do you like me too" or you could say something else. But be serious about it so he knows! Good luck!

xoxo Kourtney

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How come one best friend can like another best friend more than one you have known longer?

It doesn't really matter how long you have known someone to be best friends. I mean if you can go to the person with all your problems, you trust them, you bond with them easily, and you hang out with them all the time, etc. You soon to consider each other best friends.

xoxo Kourtney

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I broke up w/my b/f of 8 months almost a year ago. He was heartbroken at first, but then got over it and now is going out with another girl. I haven't found anyone who's like him, and I miss him so much. But he's over me, and I still need him. Help!!
~Kat

I'm changing my answer because you just added addition information lol. Well, maybe he has changed you don't know. But, if you don't want to go back out with him, you can always try to be his friend or something because you said you still need him. But, he sounds like he's not the guy for you because you said he doesn't talk that much on the phone or anything. You can always try to find new guys by going to partys, the mall, your friends introducing you to guys, etc. Get him off your mind or something. But if you do want to go back out with him, try it again, talk to him on the phone, face-to-face, on AIM/AOL, or writting him a letter. Hope this helps!!!

xoxo Kourtney

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my boyfriends birthday is coming up on august 8th and i have no clue whatsoever to get him...please help!!!! (by the way, if this helps, he is turning 15 n is black...only if that helps lolz) ok thnx!

It depends what he likes. You can always ask him what he likes or if you know his parents ask them what he may want or need. Or you can always ask his friends too! But most guys like cologne. It just all depends on how much you want to spend on him. But I would go off and ask his friends or parents to be on the safe side!

xoxo Kourtney

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yo i broke up wit my gf for another girl 1 year ago... we dated for 1 year... well today i called her and asked her if i could borrow a movie of mine... she sounded normal when she answered and then her voice changed to a really mellow soft voice, a sort of sad tone... that voice brough up so many feelings and the weird thing is she changed her tone when she realized it was actually me... we ended pretty nastily... any girl know if the voice might be a sign for attention and if she might still have feelings for me 1 year later? i mean we were so in love... but for some reason i was dumb and started seeing this fine fine fine fine girl instead... neways hit me up wit response...

Well she may still miss you. If you guys haven't talked since you guys broke up or haven't talked in along time it may be because she misses what you two had. You guys did go out for a year. You can try talking to her about that if you want to know what is really up. She was probably hurt from when you guys broke up because you said it ended nastily she may of brought up some memories like you may have and feelings too. You never know your voice could of changed also when you called her. But just try talking to her about it if you really want to know. Hope this helps, if not just post back again!

xoxo Kourtney

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I never told anyone this but I've been bulimic for 2 years. I know you may say that I should top but I can't. It's so hard, and I don't know what to do and I do not want to see a doctor. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!

Try talking to someone you feel comfortable with like a parent, or a close friend, or a best friend. And if you need someone else I can talk to you too or someone else on the advice column. One of my close friends was anerexic so I can try and help you.

xoxo Kourtney

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hey ok there's this kid that i met a lil while during the summer. he's really kool... but there's a biggg age difference. he's 18 and im 14. he's really nice and i like him a lot , but i kno that he would never like me like that cuz i'm waaaayy to young... wat do i do..... im reallly confused!

signed::
meee

Well, you'll never know if you don't ask!! Don't be shy either just ask him who he may like and if he doesn't answer just be like well I like this really great guy and if he asks who just be like YOU! or something. He seems like a great guy, and you just gotta for it. Just ask him!! =D. You can be funny about it when you ask who he likes or be serious. How ever you want to. If you need any more ideas just leave a question in my inbox! Good luck!

xoxo Kourtney

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yeah surprizingly i actually have all the answers to everyone ?'s but my own. I'm 15 and was in a realationship with this boy for 4 months. But before that we were together off and on. Then before that we were really close and knew everythin about each other. I know I'm in love with this kid. He means so much to be but we arent together anymore cus he got into drugs and i knew he was doin em before but he stopped while we were together now since it is summer he has gotten back into it, we still talk but i want him out of it again so i can have the old him back! does anyone know how to tell him how i feel i try all the time but can't seem to get it out right if you could please help me thank u!

I've been in this situation before. The words are hard to find sometimes I know. Try writting a letter to him about how you feel and about the whole drug thing. And just say that you still love him and you miss what you two had and you want the old him back. And say drugs can get you into a lot of trouble (Like probation) and it doesn't solve your problems for anything. And also say there are a lot of people who miss the old you and you are a great person and he doesn't need drugs to make him look cool or whatever. Just say stuff like that. If you need help writting a letter, I can try to help just say something and I'll be glad to try and help! =P

xoxo Kourtney

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Hi hey how do I get over a xbf, when I still am in love with him and he sorta likes me??? Thanks PLZ help , My life will be ruined if I dont get It. PLZ HELP THANKS
Signed
NEed help gurl

Well if you're in love with him and he still likes you, whats the problem here!? lol. Try hooking back up with him! Talk to him about it. Just say "You know, I'm still in love with you and you say you still kinda like me. Whats the chance of us going back out again?" And if there isn't a chance then you're going to want to move on.

But if you really don't want to hook back up with him even though you are still in love with him OR he says there is no chance of you two again. Just go out and have fun and get him off your mind and don't even think of him. Because when you're having fun you always get things you don't want to think about off your mind. So go to your friends house, or a party, or the mall, wherever a fun place is in your neighborhood.

xoxo Kourtney

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months now and its been great.But it seems lately thing have been different like friends of his say that he has been cheating on me and than i ask him and he swears he has not i have even asked him when i see him but when i am a around him it seems like he is keeping something from me and i do not know if he is cheating on me or not i just want to know how i can find out the truth so i will not get hurt because i have been hurt before.Please help me soon!~Kristen~

You need to talk to him face-to-face and not on the phone. Because if he's lieing he wont look you in the eyes. Just tell him "I really want to know if you're cheating on me because if feels that you, you act all weird around me now like you're keeping something from me." "And if you are then, we need to break up or work this out because I've been hurt before and I don't want to get hurt again." All, I can say is talk to him first and if he still says hes not and you still feel like he is, then maybe you should break things off with him. Good luck hun!!!

xoxo Kourtney

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I am going to the 8th grade and I did excellent in the 7th grade . I am so nervous, but I don't know how to feel because, I know it's only natural. So last year I liked this guy ALOT ALOT ALOT because, all I did over the whole year was obsess about him . I used to try to act perfectand all and I really lost my true self when trying to be perfect . Well over the summer, I know who I am and I feel great and all , but I don't want to be in any classes with him because, I know that these feeligs will instantly come back and I'll really want him and it'll be a whole repeat of the 7th grade again . Tell me what to do and how to deal with this because, I big time need you HELP . Thanx . I'LL RATE YOU .

Well, if you like this guy, you have to be yourself. Because you don't want someone to fall in love with a person you're not. I'm sure you're an awesome person. All you have to do is smile and hold conversations with him. Don't try to impress him by doing stuff you don't like to do (like sports). All you have to do is smile and be friendly and hold conversations. Hope this helps, if not, just post back and I'll try again! lol.

xoxo Kourtney =P

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You think you got it all but you know you never really do I thought I had it all and than I found out or it just seems that I don't. I have many reason why I just don't act like I do or say this is how I feel how my life is going right now.Maybe u can help me out~Kristen~

Are you trying to say everything was so great and then BAM everything went down hill? If you explain your answer I would be glad to try to help because I know how it feels for everything to go down hill (if thats what you mean).

xoxo Kourtney

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im addicted to soda . is this bad

You should have water in you though. Don't just keep drinking soda. Try other stuff, like water, kool aid, and such stuff like that. And soda can also stain your teeth too! But you can still drink soda just drink other stuff too!

xoxo Kourtney

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Hey..
me and my friend are together in a babysitting job and we love children so much and we just already let out flyers one,last year and once just recently the next year..on the 1st year flyer given out..no1 responded..the 2nd year one responded..liked our job..gave us $20 each for 1 1/2 hours...i know.. alot..o well..lol..back to the subject..ever since that day..no1 has responded..what should we do? send out more flyers or keep waiting or quit caring..what should we do??

thanks if u help..

Try again. You can always tell your parents to pass them out at their work. Like if their co-workers have kids and they would like to go out and have fun they can call you! So just try again! Good luck!!

xoxo Kourtney

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I'm 13 ans my boyfriend is 17 is that wrong? I love him and he loves me and he is super nice to me and does not nag me about sex he said its all up to me and we have talked about all that! So is it wrong????

I don't think its wrong because you can't control who you fall in love with. And he seems like a great boyfriend because he doesn't pressure you into doing anything. And don't do something if you're not ready to! Remember that! And if people give you crap for it, just ignore them its not like you're sleeping around or something. He seems like he makes you happy! =D

xoxo Kourtney

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